Each of us wants to be encouraged and praised by others when we grow up, and no one wants to be hit by others all the time. In fact, many children especially hate what their parents say when they are young, that is, what other children are like. I think this sentence is really annoying. What does it matter to me what other people's children are like? I think every child is an outstanding individual. They are independent people, and they are different from others. Every child is good at different fields. Don't always compare the advantages of other children with the disadvantages of your own children. Our children also have strengths, so we should tap their strengths and praise them more, which is beneficial to the parent-child relationship.
If parents compare their children with other children for a long time, children will hate their parents more and more. Gradually, the relationship between parents and children will become more and more alienated, and children will not want to share their troubles with their parents. In fact, every parent knows this, but can't help but compare it. Maybe it's a comparative mentality. Everyone likes to compare this with that. If you are really better than others, you will be very happy. If you can't compare with others, you will get angry.
I think this comparison is really completely meaningless. Parents must not do this. Doing this for a long time is really bad for the growth of the child and the formation of his character.