Life will leave surprises everywhere, good and bad, so it will create a different life, walk in the picture of time, and describe your own ink painting.

In this life, haze is opposite to light, and pain and happiness are opposite on this road. Along the way, people are confused and enlightened. They sing loudly, make wine and drink when they are successful, and suffer loneliness alone when they are frustrated. Many people often ask, what kind of mentality should we take to finish this life?

Ceng Shiqiang, a master of Chinese studies, summed up many life truths, hoping to give you some inspiration.

Everyone has a different perspective in life. As the saying goes, the pursuit of perfection is not perfect. The so-called life is that everyone tries his best to make the missing corner perfect.

No matter how you choose in life, you will have regrets. It is this kind of regret that makes people miss it infinitely. No matter how carefully planned, it finally defeated fate. What we have to do is to fix these small shortcomings and make them as perfect as possible.

Some people think that they are unhappy when they are young because they have no money. When they have money, they are not happy because they have nothing but money. What we really need to do is to try our best to make life happy at every time. This is perfection. When I was young, I had no money, but I was happy, because I was young and worked hard. When you have money in the middle of the year, you can feel happy, because your family is happy and your life is rich. This is perfection. Make up for different shortcomings and deficiencies and strive to be perfect.

When people grow up, they are all pursuing a "perfection". No one can get this kind of "perfection" smoothly, even the supreme "perfect" Emperor Qianlong can't guarantee his real "perfection".

Ceng Shiqiang said that we must demand everything, so we should add two words-grievance. Only when a person is wronged can he be perfect. If a person can't stand injustice, then don't be perfect, so that he can be equal.

Grievance is not humiliation, but a perfect prelude. People can't be without grievances. It is said that 30 years in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi. No one is immersed in a happy life, exercising themselves in a wronged life, letting themselves experience happiness, and embracing happiness with more generous arms when happiness comes.

There is a passage on the internet that says: people who try to change others are insane, and only changing themselves is the most normal choice. Spend a lot of time to change others and eventually become a joke of others. It is better to change yourself, make yourself better and stronger, and practice yourself more, instead of putting the cart before the horse.

Life goes forward in the gentle days of the Spring Festival Evening, with self-cultivation and strong heart, resisting the endless elegance left by time. Do what you can and try to do what you want. If everyone is like this, how can we change what others say?

Confucianism pays attention to "benevolence", which is a tradition handed down from China for thousands of years. The definition of "benevolence" in "University" is: the highest virtue, being close to the people, and stopping at the highest goodness.

People should cultivate their own moral quality, constantly improve and perfect their own moral quality, thus influencing others and making their society more harmonious and beautiful.

People pay attention to dedication and perfection, and all beings have different consciousness and cultivation. However, everyone can try his best to repair his heart and character, which is also a kind of "benevolence" It is better to live according to the nature endowed by nature, cultivate one's morality and cultivate one's mind, like plants, fish and insects.

Everyone has an idea of never giving up. Because there is competition, there is a saying of never giving up. When you are frustrated, you will ask God why you are inferior to others and whether you can let yourself live.

Ceng Shiqiang said that there is only one way to live, and the two words are clear: live up to expectations. Fight for your breath. This kind of breath is the key to winning life. If you don't fight for it, you have nothing.

Man is a competitive higher animal. In social life, failure is inevitable, but living up to expectations is one of the beliefs to turn failure into success. This breath supports oneself to rush forward, and life will rekindle the fire of hope.

After half a lifetime of vicissitudes, all the way through the wind and rain, flowers bloom and fall. Sometimes, my heart has been cultivated, and the scenery of life will be more colorful, so that I can become better and better and meet my stronger self in the future.

Thank you for reading! Encourage with you!