If you miss something, you will miss it forever. People will change. You can keep an unchanging promise, but you can't keep a fickle heart. Sometimes, persistence is a burden and giving up is a relief. No one is perfect, and no one is 100% happy. If you know that you don’t have the ability to have so much at once, why bother asking for so much.
In fact, there is nothing that cannot be let go. As time goes by, when you look back, you will find that the things you once thought you could not let go are just a springboard in life to make you grow.
If you miss it, let it pass! Even if I come back, it's not the same as before. The feeling has changed.
Learn to be yourself and gracefully let go of everything that doesn’t belong to you.
Whatever is yours is yours. The tighter you hold on, the easier it is to lose. We worked hard, cherished it, and had a clear conscience. The rest, leave it to fate.
A breakup creates a rift, and we get back together, but the rift never heals. The roses have been planted between the cracks, and the dry land can no longer irrigate sweetness. Crack said: I always remember that I was in pain, but I can’t remember that I was in love.
There is no need to hide from anyone, I still love you, but I no longer have the persistence to be together. Maybe after a while, I just miss you.
Some people say that when two people miss each other, it is called love. A person who thinks blindly by himself is called a baseless person.
The weakest part of people is their reluctance to let go.
I miss you, but don’t disturb you. Just miss you quietly and leave the last bit of dignity to yourself.
Love yourself, no one will love yourself more than you.
Many years later, when I think back to my confusion and persistence when I was young, I may not be able to remember the reasons. Youth is what makes you smile openly, but also gives you inexplicable pain.
Don’t use past memories to torture yourself now.
Only when you are drunk can you know who you love most; only when you are sick can you know who loves you most.
Since the oath between you and me has been broken, there is no need for me to shed a tear for the person who betrayed me.
Perhaps, there will come a day when we hold someone else’s hand and forget who he or she was.
In the journey of life, there will always be a period of time when you need to walk and carry it by yourself. Don't feel afraid, don't feel alone, this is just the price of growing up.
In the story of youth, who is a passer-by and who is frozen.
Everything that should come will come, and everything that should go will go. Don’t hold back, don’t be greedy, don’t be reluctant to let go, don’t worry.
Thank you to those who hurt you, because they taught you what growth is.
On the road of life, there is a road that everyone must take, which is the detour in youth. How can you grow up without falling down?
"When I lose you, I lose everything." The music plays over and over again. What is it all about? It is the meaning of life and the vision for the future. But if I say that I will die if I lose you, this is too false and spineless. Love is not everything. If I lose you, I still have myself.
When time passes, we forget that we once loved someone without hesitation, his tenderness, and everything he did for me. I have no feelings for him anymore and I don't love him anymore. Why is this happening?
Time is a good medicine for forgetting, don’t believe it. Unworthy people will always be forgotten. Aren’t all our sorrows swallowed up by time? People who were considered indispensable at the time have become dispensable in time.
What doesn’t belong to you will eventually pass away. Don’t waste your rare time, energy and good mood on people and things that are not worth it.
Only if you learn to cherish yourself, then the world will cherish you.
Time passes day by day, and it seems that nothing has changed. But when you look back, things have changed.
Half of my heart was missing, but one day it was filled by you. What belongs to me can never be escaped in my life. If it is not mine, it cannot be snatched away.
Even if you want to cry again, you must smile and say: Your uncle!
Loneliness means there is no one in your heart. Loneliness is when there is someone in your heart but not around you.
A person who understands you can bring about a mutually comfortable love.
A person who doesn't understand you will eventually make you understand a truth: in life, understanding is more important than love...
I miss you, but I can't say it, I can't call you, I can't Send a message, because there is no need for that...
If you can't see clearly, let it continue to be blurry. Some things, some love, some feelings, some people, if you see it too clearly, you will be hurt.
Sometimes you think the sky is falling, but in fact you are standing crookedly!
The past is the past, why let the world be sad.
Sometimes, you have to let go to understand if it is really worth having.
Don’t think that if you are good to others, others will be good to you.
I used to think that persistence would make us stronger, but when we grow up, we realize that what makes us strong is letting go.
Don’t use a person’s past to doubt a person’s essence.
We always have too much reluctance to let go. It’s a pity that time can’t be turned back.
Time is changing, and so are people. Some things, no matter how hard we try, we just can't go back.
Time will tell how many people care about you. .
If you love him, hold on to him. If you don't love him, please let him go and let him love someone else.
A person will meet about 29.2 million people in his lifetime, and the probability of two people falling in love is 0.000049, so if you don’t love me, I don’t blame you...
Don’t do something you shouldn’t do. People who hurt their hearts should not be hurt.
If you don’t look back, why not forget? Since there is no fate, why do you need to swear? Today, all kinds of things are like water without trace. Tomorrow and evening, you are no longer a stranger.
Love and friendship are not about a lifetime without quarrels, but a lifetime of quarrels.
In the past, you used to go to bed late, and I always said carefully before going to bed, "Go to bed early." I thought you could understand that I didn't just say it casually, but that I cared from the bottom of my heart. Now that I am used to going to bed late, when it is someone else's turn to say this to me, I realize how insignificant this sentence is for people who are used to going to bed late. Just like most of the time, those heartfelt love words you say to others may only touch you the most!
Don’t waste time reminiscing about what you’ve lost. You have to look forward because life doesn't go back.
No matter what kind of shoes, the most important thing is that they fit; no matter what kind of marriage, the most beautiful thing is harmony. Don't just covet the luxury of shoes and harm your feet. What others see are shoes, but what you feel are feet. Feet are more important than shoes. This is a truth that many people often forget.
Some things that should be picked up should be picked up, and some things that should be discarded should be discarded. Because only when what should end ends can what should begin begin.
Love is a matter between two people. If you are still persistent and entangled, rolling in place and loving in pain. After time passes, you will find that you dug the hole yourself, and all buried underneath is youth...
Every memory has a password. As long as the combination of time, place, and characters is correct, no matter how long it has been dusty, that person or scene will be picked up again in forgetfulness. You may say, "Isn't it all in the past?" In fact, what has passed is just time, and you still can't escape it. When you think of it, you smile or feel sad. That fate is called "powerlessness."
Emotions cannot withstand three things: distance, time, and family affection. How many feelings slowly fade away because of the distance. How many feelings are slowly forgotten because of the distance of time. How many feelings slowly disappear due to the intervention of family affection. The reality makes us very helpless! We can't beat time, distance and family ties. Because we still have too much to let go of.
The cruelest sentence in the world is not that I'm sorry or that I hate you, but that we can never go back. It was such a simple sentence that completely alienated two people who were originally close. The most precious thing is not the material things you own, but the people by your side. You can't force others to love you, you can only work hard to make yourself a person worthy of love, and the rest depends on fate.
There is a person who teaches you how to love, but he doesn’t love you anymore; there is a person who you always say you want to let go of, but you can’t help but pick it up again; there is a person who You really want him to be happy, so you would rather not be happy yourself; when there is a person, you smile when you leave him, but when you turn around, tears are already streaming down your face. Where has that proud you gone?
In just one turn, the two people who were so familiar would never see each other again and become strangers. When we meet by chance one day at a certain intersection, a flash of surprise flashes in our eyes, and then we learn to remain calm and say "Hello!" in a calm voice. No one in this world will always be someone else's, and some people are destined to be. Being hurt, some people are destined to miss it, and some people are only suitable to live in the heart of another person.
It’s that person, and he will understand even if he doesn’t say it; if he’s not that person, it’s useless to say it. . If it is that person, he will not leave unless you stay; if it is not that person, you will not be able to stay. If it is that person, you will meet him naturally; if it is not that person, you will get lost where you are. Cherish that person.
What you can’t overcome is not a hurdle, but the obsession in your heart.
Love is right, but what is wrong is that we are so eager to love before we have learned to love.
To forget that person, it is better to forget yourself and tell yourself, not because you are afraid that he will forget , but afraid that he will think of you again one day. Time takes away memories, but the memories will become clearer and clearer. One day, if he turns around and tells you that he has been thinking about you, don't believe it, because he is no longer the same person, and you are no longer the same person as you were in the past.
Be practical and don’t be anxious. Time will give you whatever you want.
Love deeply and passionately may hurt, but this is the only way to make life complete.
There are many things that I can’t do if I think about it. There are many things that I can get without asking for them. There are many people that I can keep if I don’t keep them. I should have understood that one day, you will leave and disappear from my life. Not willing to give in? Not willing to give in, so what! You are like the sunshine between my fingers, warm and beautiful, but I can never catch it. No more struggling, no more entanglement, I am fine alone.
You have to meet four people in your life. The first is the person you love but doesn’t love you back. The second is the person who loves you but you don’t love you. The third person is the person you love but loves you back. The person who cannot be together in the end, and the fourth person is the person you may not love but can be together in the end.
The "sense of belonging" is your strong desire to be with him. "Security" is when you feel that he strongly wants to be with you. The "happiness" is that both of them strongly want to be together and finally get together.
Don’t think that you are very important in other people’s world, maybe it’s just a casual acquaintance.
Some people give you their heart, but you pretend not to see it, because you don’t like it. Some people have ripped out your heart, but you still pretend it doesn't hurt because you love them.
Don’t wrong yourself for others and change yourself. You are the only you, the precious you, the proud you, the beautiful you. You must love yourself well.
Why should I be a good person and become an interlude in other people’s lives? Goodbye, I love you so much. Although I am clumsy, I have worked hard, so I have no regrets. Now, I give my love back to you. . I firmly believe that everything lost will come back in another way
No matter how good a person is, but if he doesn't want to accompany you, then he is just a passerby. No matter how shortcomings a person has, he can tolerate you in every aspect and stay with you until the end, which is the end. Everyone wants to find a perfect lover, but people always have flaws. Love means tolerating each other, being true to each other, and living a life together. Finding someone who makes you happy for the rest of your life is the goal of love. Therefore, you don’t need too many criteria to choose a lover, just these three things: not to lie to you, not to hurt you, and to accompany you.
Some people regard you as a beautiful high-heeled shoe when we are together, but when they break up, they regard you as a worn-out shoe that grinds your feet. In fact, you are still you. The only difference is probably that there was love at first, but now there is only indifference. It hurts to love someone once but not love anymore. If it turns into hatred, then why bother. Let all your exes go. No longer love him, no longer hate him, just no longer remember him.
Don’t think that just by taking a look at your space or Weibo after a breakup, you will think that people have not forgotten you and still care about you. After pooping, I have to look back at the toilet.
After the pain, you become strong; after you have overcome it, you become mature; after you have been stupid, you know how to cherish and give up at the right time.
Only when you lose something can you learn to cherish something; only when you hit a wall can you learn to change something and give up something; only after you have experienced pain can you learn to be a brand new self.
The most outrageous reason for breaking up in the world is the word "inappropriate". No matter how many changes you make, how much hardship you put in, how much tolerance you have, people will use these three words to erase all your time. Are there really two people in this world who are not suitable for each other? If it wasn't suitable, why would you have gone there? If you don't get it, your eyes will shine. It's not appropriate to eat it and wipe it clean. In the final analysis, I just don’t want to be responsible anymore.
Please find someone worthy of love. Let those who are vain, capricious, superficial, and unable to understand your thoughts, feelings and personality find a like-minded partner. Bar. One day you will secretly be glad that you didn't get him.
There is a person in everyone's heart who is no longer a lover and cannot be a friend. As time goes by, no matter whether I like you or not, I will always think of you habitually. Then I hope that everything is well with you.
After we broke up, I still know you, but I don’t want to see you again. I won’t bless you if you have a good life, and I won’t laugh at you if you have a bad life. Because we are strangers from now on. There is no longer me in your world, and you are no longer in my world. I can no longer cherish you. I'm sorry. What I lost is also what you lost.
Don’t torture yourself for anyone or anything. For example, not eating, crying, being autistic, and being depressed are all things that fools do. Of course, it's necessary to be stupid occasionally, and you don't have to be smart all the time in life. Learn to bear the pain. Some words are suitable to rot in the heart, and some painful words are suitable to be forgotten silently. Once you have experienced it and you have grown, you will know it. Many changes don’t need to be said by yourself, others will see them
The most painful thing is that when something disappears, it is gone forever and will never come back, but it still has to stay. A thin and sharp needle has been inserted into your heart and cannot be removed. If it wants you to feel pain, you have to feel pain.
We all thought we could die for love. In fact, love can’t kill anyone. It will only stick a needle in the most painful place. Then, we want to cry without tears, we toss and turn, and we are sick for a long time. To become a doctor, we become steel.
Although it is difficult to live alone, you must learn to be alone and not to rely on others easily. This is to prevent you from being able to live a good life when everyone around you leaves. There is no one you can never live without. Just because you can’t live without now, doesn’t mean you will never live without.
After taking action, don’t think about the sweet past, because it will only make you more painful. Don't compare his attitude before and after the breakup, because it's meaningless. Do not doubt His decision, for He has already decided it. Don't try to save it, because it's not worth saving. Don't worry that if you miss him, it will be the scariest thing in your life. He is not afraid of missing you, so what are you afraid of? Don't be afraid that you are about to fall into a loveless life, because that is impossible.
When he doesn't love you, please don't shed tears in front of him, and don't tell him when you are sick. He cannot give you care and attention. At most, it's sympathy, but please, you who are proud, don't give up your pride for someone who doesn't love you.
Remember, your love for him is one-sided. You put your heart into it, but he doesn't. So don't blame him. Because maybe he also wants to do something better. Don't be so indifferent to you. However, to love someone is to be kind to them. It's just instinctive. He doesn't have this instinct for you.
I want to give you happiness, but I can't enter your world. I want to exchange my whole world for a ticket to your world, but that is just my wishful thinking. In my world, you don't care; in your world, I am expelled. I really like you. I closed my eyes and thought I could forget it, but the tears I shed did not fool me.
It won’t hurt once you get used to it, just get used to it.
I always thought that I still liked it. However, I suddenly discovered that it was the person in my memory who lived in my heart, and what I couldn’t forget was my feelings for him, not him.
Don’t wrong yourself for others and change yourself. You are the only you, the precious you, the proud you, the beautiful you. You must love yourself well.
What comes will always come, don’t be too anxious. If you lose your patience, you will lose more. There is always a road that needs to be walked. Never think that you have taken the wrong road, even if it takes a big turn in the end.
The scenery you see on this road is always yours and no one can take it away.
It’s easy to forget someone: don’t meet, don’t be mean