"Lu's Spring and Autumn" records a story about the King of Chu who lost his bow. It tells the story of the King of Chu who went hunting in Yunmengze and accidentally lost his beloved bow. The attendants had to follow the original instructions. Looking for a way, the King of Chu said, forget it, there is no need to look for it, Chu people will lose it, Chu people will get it, and it can't go anywhere else. The attendants all admired King Chu's open-mindedness and broad-mindedness. After hearing about this, Confucius said that it would be better if the word "Chu" was removed from this sentence, and it might as well say "What a person loses, a person gains." After hearing Confucius's comments, Laozi also expressed his own views. He said it would be better if the word "人" was removed. That is "lost, gained", and this is in line with the way of heaven.
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It’s rare to have a normal heart
Life is rich and colorful, but when we face all kinds of human relationships in the world, and the temptation of fame and fortune, we often "covet to see the moon in the sky" ", lost the pearl in my hand", it is difficult to maintain a normal heart.
When I first entered high school, I was very focused on test scores. I only scored 50 points in the first monthly math test. I was so ashamed that I was on tenterhooks for several days, fearing that the teacher would call me to the office for a "talk." After returning home, I felt uneasy and blamed myself for being too stupid. The question was obviously not difficult, so why did I do it so badly? It was really embarrassing to get such a low score in the exam. Because of this, I felt depressed for a long time.
The results in the exam put me into another unusual state of mind, that of ecstasy. My total scores in each subject ranked first in the class and fifth in my grade. The praise from my head teacher, the praise from my father and mother, and the envious looks from my classmates made me feel so dizzy that I couldn't find my destination. I was intoxicated with vanity every day. In the joy of being satisfied, I couldn't read Reader's Digest anymore, and my homework was not as serious as before. It wasn't until an unexpected discovery that I fell from the clouds to the flat ground.
It was noon one day when I sent 50 heavy homework books to the Chinese teacher's office. I accidentally caught a glimpse of a note under the glass plate of the desk that read "Low-key and Ordinary Things in Life." At that moment, I suddenly felt that I was childish and ridiculous. The Chinese teacher was already a special teacher with many talents all over the world, but he still lived a low-key life and did ordinary things as his motto in life. I just got a high score in the exam and I couldn't help but be happy. When I got home, I chewed it carefully and slowly savored the profound meaning of the motto. It told me a principle of life. Success and failure are natural. Don't take fame and fortune, gains and losses in life too seriously. Don't take fame and fortune, gains and losses too seriously. Be carried away by temporary success, and don't be discouraged by occasional mistakes. Only by maintaining a normal mental state can you benefit your studies and appreciate real life, just like people can appreciate the taste of the world from three meals a day. , Eat simple meals without feeling disgusted, taste delicious food without feeling arrogant and extravagant, this is probably a normal mind.
I thought of an article I saw in "Reader" a few days ago: A man bought a lottery ticket for two marks, and won the first prize. He bought a mansion. The decorations inside were also extremely expensive. His friends envied him, but he didn't take it seriously. One day, he accidentally dropped his cigarette butt on the ground. Unexpectedly, the cigarette butt caused a fire after he went out, and the entire mansion was reduced to ashes in an instant. His friends all exclaimed with regret: "You have lost too much!" But he said plainly: "I only lost two marks." Although this story is a bit legendary, it tells us a truth: to Face the gains and losses in life with a normal mind.
The ancients said: "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself." Only by being at ease, letting everything take its course, and facing possessions and losses with a normal heart can we have a beautiful, fulfilling and free life. .
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Cong Chu From the perspective of Wang, Confucius and Laozi, we can draw the conclusion: for the same thing, if you look at the problem from different angles, the conclusions will naturally be different; a person's vision and mind determine the height and realm of looking at the problem.
From the perspective of the King of Chu, he was not depressed because he lost his beloved bow. "When Chu people lose it, Chu people gain it", he maintained the freedom and grace that a king should have. Based on this, we can draw the balance between gains and losses, adjust the mentality, and demonstrate self-cultivation; do not be happy with things, do not be sad with oneself, and see open-mindedness and unrestrainedness.
From the perspective of Confucius, as a thinker. "What is lost is what is gained", which shows that you are more ambitious. It can be concluded that people should have the ideal of caring for the world.
In Laozi’s view, loss is gain, and gain is loss. Therefore, it does not matter gain or loss, this is the way of heaven. Based on this, we can formulate an idea from the dialectical relationship between gains and losses.
Thinking about the enlightenment of stories to us modern people, when something happens, we can not only make corresponding judgments about things from our own position, but also from a broad perspective. To understand and face it, this is a life attitude worth learning from us ordinary people.
In today's society, where money is worshiped and material desires are rampant, many people are living in anxiety. Some people are happy about gains, and some are distressed about losses. In fact, in each of our lives, we will repeat losses and gains countless times. Gains and losses in money, status, honor, and fame are actually not necessarily related to the quality of our lives. The more philosophy we have, the more open-minded we will be, and the more freedom we will have in our souls.