0 1, what you care about most is often what you think is the worst, what you want most may also be what you are about to lose. Your hands will tremble if you want to sew a needle too much, your feet will deviate if you want to kick the goal too much, and your feelings if you want to catch the ball too much will escape. There is a kind of failure called occupation and a kind of victory called retreat. Why care too much?
02. Losses often happen, but we must firmly believe that life is always relatively fair. If you are smart everywhere and always ready to calculate others, you always like to take advantage of others. In fact, you will suffer the most. Why should we calculate the profit and loss every second? Pay more and take less. Losing money can bring you a good reputation, and taking advantage will ruin your reputation.
03. Life is only a few decades, so don't leave any regrets for yourself. Laugh happily, cry if you want, and love when you should. There is no point in suppressing yourself. There are two kinds of anguish in life, one is that the desire is not satisfied, and the other is that the desire is satisfied.
Only by putting up with what people can't stand can we do what people can't do.
Life is too short to waste. A wise philosopher once said, "when someone scolds me in the street, I won't even look back." I don't want to know this boring person at all! " "We should neither hurt others nor be influenced by others' criticism, but should learn our skills in a down-to-earth manner according to our own wishes. Especially when you are a teenager, you should go all out to learn your skills and don't be distracted.
06, relax, the good can't be good forever, the bad can't be bad forever, it will change. Mainly my own heart. When I understand, I will overcome it. That is wisdom, that is wisdom, and that is liberation.
07. Everyone has his own way of life. He knows his own pain, his own sadness and his own happiness. Maybe the hell in my own eyes is the existence in the eyes of others; Maybe the heaven in your own eyes is the hell in others' eyes. Life is so funny. Don't always doubt that spring scenery is in others, the key lies in the adjustment of your own mentality. Living well is the most important thing.
08. There is not a painting that is not evaluated by others, and there is not a person that is not discussed by others. If you are silent, someone will accuse you of being "shrewd"; If you are good at talking, someone will accuse you of "bragging"; If you praise others, someone will accuse you of "ulterior motives"; If you criticize yourself sincerely, some people will fly into a rage and think they are "meddling"
09, leave, make things simple, people become kind, like children, we start again.
10, there is no rehearsal in life, live broadcast every day; Not only the ratings are low, but also the salary is not high.
1 1. If we are all children, we can stay where time is, sit together and bow our heads slowly, while listening to stories that will never grow old.
12, we have loved and been sad. Lonely, angry, disappointed, tired, sad and disheartened. But there will be another person who will make you feel that everything is fine, just like the change of seasons, because the world is real and worth paying for.
13, don't expect to change others and be the master of your own life-we often can't change others' opinions, but only we can. The bad life lies not in the sins of others, but in our bad mood. The golden key to a better life is not in the hands of others. Give up our resentment and sigh, and a better life will be within reach. Subjectively, we want to live a good life, objectively, we have not lived a good life. The reason is that we always want to wait for others to improve our lives.
14, people can live happily, but we choose complexity, sigh!
15, sometimes, forgetting is the best liberation; Sometimes, silence is the best way to tell.
16 When I am more and more polite to you, we may become more and more strangers. ...
17, changing money for money will make your six relatives disown, changing rights will make you bold, and changing your name will make you unprepared. That's right. I will become a fragment flying with the wind in the deliberate pursuit, and the secular me will become disgusting. Get kitsch, lose truth, strengthen confidence and own yourself. Don't pursue worldly honor, be true and ordinary.
18, maybe the diaosi who struggled all his life is just a diaosi, maybe the salted fish is just an upside-down salted fish, but at least we have the self-esteem of dreams, instead of living with peace of mind and not saying' It's no use trying'.
19, don't shout everywhere that the world has abandoned you and the world doesn't belong to you.
20. Keep a little happiness every day, and you will be the happiest person in the world.
2 1, flat, everything will be calm; Put your mind right and everything will be smooth sailing; When the heart is put down, eternal happiness and happiness will follow.
22. Life and death change at a critical moment. The poor walk with the rich, the young and the old join hands, the benefactor walks with the enemy, and the civilian walks with the official, smoothing out grievances and burying fame and fortune. When life meets death, it makes people feel fragile and precious, and makes the world understand: don't get carried away when you get it, don't complain when you lose it, be kind to yourself in adversity, be kind to others in time, and stop to rest when you are tired.
The real inferiority is not that you are not excellent, but that you think too well of her.
24, some people often because of excessive worry, and lead to their mental disorders; Some people are indifferent to everything because they are insensitive. The former often suffers from being unable to find the reason, but dies because of being too smart. The root of stupidity lies in regretting everything. The latter doesn't know what regret is, and lives in a daze all day. There is no difference between life and death.
25. Material enjoyment is not real enjoyment, but spiritual enjoyment is real enjoyment; Surface happiness is not real happiness, but inner happiness is real happiness.
26. The greatest pride and the greatest inferiority both show the weakest mind.
27. People who feel inferior always sigh, and it is always good to look at others; It's always bad to look at yourself. It doesn't have to be like this. People are the same. You also have scenery that others don't have, air, sunshine, cold and heat, even a small flower and a burst of insects. ...
28. Only by making your self-abased mind confident can your bent body be straight; Only by making your weak body strong can the bound steps take off; Only by broadening one's narrow mind can one broaden one's short-sighted vision; Only by making your stupid mind smart can you abandon your stupid fantasy.
29. Inferiority and conceit are serious obstacles to life. If you don't compare, you will feel satisfied, and your mind will not swell because of complacency. It's no big deal whether others accept you or not, but you must accept yourself, believe in yourself and be satisfied with yourself. Indian thinker Osho said, "A rose is a rose and a lotus is a lotus. Just look and don't compare. "
30. The saddest person in the world is that he has no advantages to show off, but covers up his poor inferiority with annoying arrogance and boasting.
3 1, thirty years east, forty years west, people who are looked down upon today may be the most popular people tomorrow, and there is no need to feel inferior because of these things imposed by society.
32. When you have nothing, you begin to gain something.
Almost everything has two sides. If you only look at the negative side, you will naturally feel depressed. Let yourself look at the problem from another angle. On the positive side, it will help you get out of the trough.
What you haven't picked is just a flower in spring, and the whole spring is still yours.
35. I want to tell you that a friend will support you silently. If something goes wrong, you will find that I am with you from beginning to end. Be happy!
Lonely people always think of everyone who has appeared in their lives, so I always think of you counting my loneliness over and over again every night when the stars fall.
37. Maturity is not the aging of people's hearts, but the ability to smile when tears are spinning.
38. Everyone wants to be smarter, and no one wants to make mistakes. Mistakes make people deeply blame themselves and repent, seemingly indifferent, but in fact their hearts are rolling. If you publicize each other's mistakes everywhere at this time, it will often make them angry and even turn against each other. So the purpose of reminding the other party not only failed, but also added a heart disease to himself. You know, a person's mistakes are always inevitable, and not making public everywhere is also a manifestation of virtue.
39. No one is doomed to fail, and no one is doomed to live harder than others. Smile and accept God's gift wrapped in difficulties. As long as you concentrate and work hard, God will not bear it. May you challenge setbacks and smile at life!
40. Greetings are the nectar that moistens friendship, and comfort is the source of mutual pity. Encouragement is the wine that protects the soul, and tolerance is the rainbow where the heart meets the heart! Let the warmest greetings haunt you and the best wishes accompany you!
4 1. We need tolerance when we get along, sincerity when we love, sharing when we are happy, communication when we quarrel, companionship when we are lonely, comfort when we are sad, and calmness when we are angry.
Each of us can be knocked down, but no one can stop us from getting up from the ground. Dear friends, let's adjust our mentality, face our inner and outer world positively and get a new life!
43. Kind compliments can give people warmth and sunshine. Sincere appreciation can warm people's hearts like spring breeze. Elegant praise can bring trust and hope. Appreciation is encouragement, strength, comfort and blessing. I wish my friends a sunny mood and all the best!
44. People living in this world may not be strong, but they must not be weak. If you are not strong, life will be dull. If you are weak, you will lose your spirit. If you lose your spirit, you lose your weather. Even if you turn around a thousand times and cross Qian Fan, you can only be silent and desolate.
45. Greeting is that a boat can send love to a distant place, blessing is to accompany you through rainy days, and missing is an arrow that can connect hearts. Remember to take good care of yourself in difficult days. Bless you: Happy!
46. The quickest and most reliable way to overcome fear and build self-confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you have a successful experience.
47. When you have experienced love and being loved and learned to love, you will know what you need and find the person who is most suitable for you and can get along with you for a lifetime. Sadly, in real life, people who really love each other may not be able to be together for various reasons.
48. Pain is like a knife, trying to break your spirit; Sorrow is like a saw blade, trying to cut off your spirit; Depression is like a chisel, trying to chisel away your courage. May you become a strong man in life, with backbone, talent, air and happiness!
49. There is no mountain to climb, and there is no hurdle to cross. As long as you face it bravely, everything will be blowing in the wind.
50. It is inevitable that you will encounter difficulties in your life. Turning around is not the way.
5 1. Learning to appreciate yourself is the golden key to happiness. Appreciate that you are not narcissistic, appreciate that you are not self-centered, appreciate that you are not narcissistic, appreciate that you are not complacent … Give yourself a little confidence, give yourself a little happiness, and give yourself a smile. Why worry about unhappy life?
52. The strong are not necessarily winners, but victory belongs to those who have confidence sooner or later. In other words, if you only accept the best, you will often get the best in the end, as long as you have confidence. A person's ability depends on attitude, 85% and intelligence, 15%, so a person's success or failure depends on whether he is confident. If this person feels inferior, inferiority will kill his intelligence and his will.