1. He is a star, and you should be your own universe. When we were young, we would like stars as dazzling as stars. They have beautiful faces, perfect bodies, chiseled faces, gentle words and personalities, and we are fascinated by them. We happily brushed his latest developments outside the screen and shouted long live cuteness. We are not satisfied with just watching in front of the screen, we also want to see him in real life. So we saved money for several months, listened to him sing and shouted for him at the concert. After the grand event, it brings endless loneliness.

After watching the stars, you have to go back to your life. Each of us is an independent individual. He shines brilliantly in his field, and you should try your best to reach your distant place like him. In this world, he may be your dazzling star, but you are your own universe.

Decent ways like concerts and parties are good for you and him. You dress up, he is fully prepared and wholeheartedly presents the perfect stage for you.

2. Don't cross the line? Stars also have free and decent ways to meet each other, and we can all bring beauty and goodwill to each other. But if you cross this line, you go to his hotel, shooting location and garage, give him a doll with a monitor and install a locator in the car. In that case, the nature of idolatry will change. You live without yourself, and your favorite star will be deeply troubled and even afraid because of your childish behavior. Like Justin being chased by an illegitimate child and homeless, is this what everyone wants to see?

Idolization should have been a happy thing. But don't disturb the idol's private life and give him trouble. The distance between you and the screen is not the distance between you and your idol. Live a good life, take him as a benchmark, and strive to shine in your own field, which is the real measure of idolization.