Later we also became mothers

The recently popular TV series "Pi" has come to an end. Various discussions about the plot direction, character personalities, and character relationships have flooded the screen, so much so that I can't help but look for the drama. Collect "make-up lessons". Not to mention how down-to-earth the plot is, which is full of life. When Wang Shengnan, Miaomiao's mother played by Yan Ni, appears, I feel like I have seen my own mother. Do you dare to say that there is no such mother in the family? !

One world, one mother

Miaomiao’s mother, the protagonist in “Pi”, comes out with a shocking (and tired of hearing it for a long time) “principal sayings” - “Stand with me” There is a standing phase and a sitting phase.” Familiar scenes, familiar sermons, you seem to be seeing your own mother, right?

My cousin was still complaining to me last night that she had just posted a photo of herself enjoying delicious ice cream to Moments the night before, but unexpectedly she received a good "hello" from her mother. . That's right, who doesn't know that there is a kind of coldness in the world called "Mom thinks you are cold", and there is a kind of coldness called "the greedy coldness" that mothers repeatedly tell us!

In the TV series, the mother Wang Shengnan also pays 360 degrees to her daughter's every detail. "Miaomiao, are you going to take root in the toilet?", "Practical clothes come first"... "You haven't told me which class the male classmate who broke it is from?", As a mother, when it comes to being around children The opposite sex is always vigilant. In fact, our own mothers are not like this. As long as they find any clue that something is wrong with their daughter, she can turn into Sherlock Holmes in an instant.

Mothers are always right. You have endless worries, worrying that you are not eating well, worrying that you are not doing well in exams, worrying that you will not have a partner when you are not married, and worrying about whether you are living well after getting married, and your mother and you always maintain a kind of "". "It's a relationship that smells far away and smells near". When you are not around, all I can think about is that I can't stand you when I meet you, especially when you don't get up in the morning and don't sleep at night. What I can't stand the most is that you "do it all day long." "Playing with mobile phones at night."

Moms also love beauty, but their ideal aesthetic is always that you should tie up your hair meticulously, preferably with your bangs combed up as well. No, Wang Shengnan doesn't like this either. She is used to her daughter’s Miaomiao hairstyle: “Look, your hair is so thick that it blocks your eyes. Can you still see your future? ”

Mothers are also afraid of not keeping up with the times. They want to play on WeChat, Taobao and QQ, but they often can’t play and can only ask their children for help for some “novice” problems. Posted in the WeChat group of friends circle The most common thing is all kinds of "health science" and square dancing that we believe in.

So, we can't help but "dislike" our mother. But one day, we become a mother ourselves. Suddenly I found myself becoming that "pretentious" and "contrived" woman, even worse than a Jedi.

I also became a fragile and sensitive "female nerve"

In "Pi", every time Miaomiao's mother sees some scary news on the Internet, she will associate it with her, fearing that her child will do something wrong. But in fact, she has become "sensitive" after becoming a mother. "I'm so nervous"! It is said that many new mothers have said that they have been suffering from paranoia since they were pregnant, and they always have a sense of crisis that "there are always unscrupulous people who want to harm me".

The baby is here My stomach moved violently, and I was worried that the umbilical cord would be wrapped around my neck when I was playing so much. After I calmed down, I started to worry about whether there would be any problems with the baby because I hadn’t moved for so long.

Waiting for the baby! I didn’t dare to take it lightly even though I was sleeping soundly next to me. I would get up in the middle of the night to check my nose, for fear of something happening. When I got a fever, I worried about whether I would have a convulsion. When I got sick, I worried about whether I would encounter various difficulties that I had seen in the news.

The touching "glass heart" of IQ is me

The sun goddess Xie Na once posted a Weibo post about her baby's vaccination, which mentioned: "One When the needle went out, I cried." Regarding this, there are some controversies among the tens of thousands of hot comments. In fact, for a woman who has become a mother, this situation is not an exaggeration. As long as it is related to the baby's smile, who can't A heart of glass.

The first time I looked at the baby in my arms after all the pain, the first time I saw my child smiling at me, the first time I heard the child understand. When you call out "Mom"... all the beautiful little moments can touch the soft heartstrings of a new mother.

It will be even more heartbreaking if the child accidentally bumps and bleeds or becomes sick. It brings tears to my eyes. Now that I have become a mother, not only can I not see anything wrong with my own children, but I also seem to have more love and compassion for children all over the world. I will burst into tears when I read the news, just because I saw something negative about a certain child. News.

In fact, the most frustrating change after becoming a mother is not only the "pretentiousness", but also the lowering of IQ at the same time as our tears! > It is often said that pregnancy makes you stupid for three years. Sometimes you have to wonder if your brain was born in the hospital and you forgot to take it home. Not only does the reflex arc become longer, but incidents of "riding a donkey looking for a donkey" occur every now and then. It's about to happen.

The nymphomaniac "photographer" who is always running out of memory

It's just "silly" and a nymphomaniac.

Before becoming a mother, good selfie results were the first priority. After becoming a mother, I became the exclusive photographer to follow my baby. One more thing: the memory must be large! Otherwise, how can I pretend to show my baby’s growth trajectory?

It is necessary to take pictures of the baby’s birth, and even more so when the baby is one hundred days old; when the baby can raise its head, turn over, crawl, and take steps, it will even take pictures to commemorate it when it goes to the toilet; it is necessary to take pictures of the fun at home, and go out You have to take pictures when you are playing; you have to take pictures when you are crying funny, you have to take pictures when you are smiling brightly; you have to take pictures when you are obedient, and you also have to take pictures when you are naughty...

The road to growth is marked by countless firsts It’s so full that the phone’s memory is naturally full every day. I don’t dare to waste one action or ten expressions. I’ve been choosing and admiring them for a long time, but I still can’t bear to delete any of them. I don’t appreciate it enough, and I’m afraid that the whole world will miss out on getting to know such a lovely and excellent baby.

From "the apple of your eye" to "superwoman"

Is there a good change? If you think about it carefully, there is still some. We are childish, but since we became mothers, we have experienced many breakthroughs that we never expected.

Have you ever thought that you, who once wanted to run away even after getting vaccinated, could grit your teeth and tell the doctor that if you can give birth naturally, let me have a natural birth? You can change the recipe to make complementary food and nutritious meals for your baby. You are someone who avoids disgusting things when you see them, but now you are looking at your baby's poop every day to see if the color, shape, and shape are up to standard.

You who were originally restrained have now completely liberated your nature, pretending to be a cat, a tiger and a monster, perfectly interpreting the birth of a drama queen. As a person who never gets enough sleep, you can let your baby completely cut your sleep into pieces, and choose to get up after the baby falls asleep to enjoy the little bit of freedom that belongs to you.

If you can’t lift it with your hands or carry it with your shoulders, you can already carry a big bag on your shoulders, hold the baby in your right hand, and carry a box in your left hand and run on the road to catch the bus.

As a mother, you must be ready to receive your child’s call anytime, anywhere, from the moment you open your eyes to the moment you close your eyes. I feel unwell and exhausted, but I can still hold on and read twenty picture books with my excited baby who doesn’t need to recharge.

Finally, the baby is going to school. Do you think you will be liberated from now on?

Haha

An academic marathon has officially begun, but the marathon of life has just begun.

I have to admit that there are thousands of times that I want to go back to the past and be a deserter, but there are more times that I want to stay in the present because we want to love our children better. .

I finally understand you when I become you

Today is different from the past. The environment and resources enjoyed by mothers of our generation and our own mothers are no longer the same. language. But maternal love is the same throughout the ages, and our mothers’ mentality and mental journey are being experienced bit by bit by us in different situations in various ways. When we lament and criticize how unscientific some of the methods of the most down-to-earth mother in "Pi" are, we must also start to think about whether everything we do as mothers can follow what parenting experts say?

It is dedication that allows us to understand the "work" and tenacity of being a mother, as well as the selflessness.

Today, the greatness of our mothers is not only that they love their children with their lives, but also because today they are caring for and loving their children with a more "enthusiastic" and "devout" heart. The children we gave birth to!

This reminds me of the poem by the poet Wang Guozhen:

We also love our mother

But it is different from how our mother loves us

Our love is a stream

Mother's love is an ocean

Dewdrops on splendens

Round and bright

That is the sun The light given

The days in April

Half brilliant and half brilliant

That is where the spring breeze passes

Our Joy