"Dear child, the day after you left, you want to write a letter, for fear that you will feel bored, that's all. But I miss you every day and wake up at six or seven every morning. I can't sleep over and over again, and I can't tell why. It seems that Christophe's mother stayed at home alone and remembered the images of the children's childhood scenes. Your mother and I always think of your little story between the ages of 23 and 67. "

The above passage is taken from a letter written by Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong. From the above statement, it can be seen between the lines that Fu Lei loves his son deeply. For my grown-up son, I hope he will thrive and develop outward, but I can't bear to let the child stay away from him. In fact, parents are like this. From conception in August to delivery in 10, parents have worked hard to raise their children step by step, hoping that their children will be useful in the future and will not sleep on the streets. However, when children become talents, it is also time to leave the eaves and fly alone. As parents, we are both happy and sad for them. After all, it is flesh and blood. As we should appreciate and understand the hard work of our parents, let them see what they want to see-our happy life is also a reward for their painstaking upbringing.

Second, Fu Lei encouraged his son.

"As far as playing is concerned, I think it is generally good and full of energy. The delicate place is very delicate. Tonecolour has really changed a lot. We are all very happy and moved. Good boy, I really should give you some compliments. Looking back 195 1 when you first returned to Shanghai from Kunming in April, you really walked halfway up the mountain from the low-lying land. I hope that you will pay attention to the whole cultivation from now on, and you will definitely reach the top in the future. "

This is Mr. Fu Lei's evaluation of his son Fu Cong after listening to his recording. This includes teacher Fu's record, careful analysis and objective appreciation of his son. Later I mentioned my hope for my son. This is the way parents educate their children. It is necessary to show their affirmation of children, so that children have the determination to work hard and the confidence to succeed. On the other hand, I also put forward my own hopes and pointed out the direction of progress and development for the children. As children, we should also learn from our parents' experience, learn from each other's strengths, and open up our own new path on the road guided by our parents.

Third, Fu Lei's charge.

"In the public * * * group, catching up on tasks will inevitably hinder normal study, which I expected. Everything can only be won by ourselves with a firm will and position, and we can be gentle and powerful to the leaders. How much can I prepare for going abroad? -especially in music, I have been uneasy. From now on, everywhere depends on your personal perseverance, belief and will-the will to practice. "

Although parents have a thousand words of advice, they can't let go. As a parent, my son has mixed feelings about how to deal with the changing society. With his own experience, remind his son to take less complaints and take more shortcuts. This is the idea of parents all over the world. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the hope of holding up the sun in their hearts. Parents should take fewer detours and don't want their children to repeat the same mistakes. I hope they can "go up a storey still higher" than themselves. Adolescence should let go of rebellious psychology, listen to parents' lessons and understand their pains. In fact, this is also for our own good, so that our future life can be more relaxed and happy.