Probably everyone has been confused at some time: they don’t want to do anything, they find nothing interesting, they can’t see hope, and they are not willing to take any action.

Are you saying they have no goals? Neither. Every year when the New Year's bell rings, I will solemnly write down in my notebook the goals I will accomplish in the New Year.

Are you saying they are unwilling to work hard? Neither. They are not the kind of people who sit back and wait for death without making progress. If they are really so self-defeating and regard enjoyment as their pursuit of life, they probably won't be so confused.

Do you think they are too pretentious? Neither. Many of them are also people who can endure hardships and fight well. If you throw a case with more than a dozen files in front of them and say that the results will be available the next day, they will fight all night and get it to you the next day. Take out a document with dozens of pages. ”

It’s not that there is no goal, nor is it pretentious, nor is it unwilling to work hard. Why are they still confused?

Because they all have a common problem-no direction.

Wang Xiaobo said: “When a person is young, the most troublesome thing is to decide what he wants to do in his life. "Many people are the same, they are young and confused, their future is far away, and their lives have no direction.

1. Your brain is "very hungry" but you are trying your best to "feed your stomach"

My cousin was admitted as a civil servant after graduation. One year after graduation, his work and life were stable.

But he recently resigned. The reason for his resignation was that he saw that other classmates had received promotions and salary increases. , I have a house and a car, but I don’t have anything. I feel really bad. I want to get out of my stable state and try my best!

I went to his house to look for him yesterday and saw that he was not on the computer. I was playing games in front of him, just scrolling through Douyin on my phone. I asked him: “Don’t you want to play a little bit? He said, "Sister, I'm so confused now that I don't know what to study. I'd better relax and think about it." ”

My God, if he has such an idea, then he will probably never have the answer.

How many people use confusion as an excuse to waste time, day after day? As time goes by, you will only become more and more confused. If you want to solve your confusion, you must not be like a pony crossing the river, but you should take the initiative to find a way out.

There is a famous saying: do things when you are awake, and study when you are confused. Reading and studying can allow us to experience more different lives. Most of our lives are monotonous, but books give us the opportunity to experience other people's lives, give us deeper thinking, and let you understand better what you want to be. What kind of person is he?

So, when you are confused, reading can make you sober. After you wake up, it is the beginning of your change.

2. No one gets better because of reading. Reading makes you poorer, but there must be people who have changed because of reading

Fa Xiaoheizi was fired because of the company reorganization. He resigned from the company he had worked for 5 years just because he wanted to. It made everyone feel uncomfortable. Several brothers every He would go to his house to chat and drink at night, and during the day he would still stay at home, surf the Internet, and sleep without looking for a job. The most common thing he said while drinking was: What else can I do?

This kind of thing? His condition lasted for half a month. Although he still didn't start looking for a job, he no longer just stayed at home as before. In order to pass the time, he would go to the bookstore every day and read. In reading, he forgot all the things he had done before. When we saw him again, his whole person had changed. He was no longer slovenly and could talk and laugh happily while eating and drinking.

Xiao Hei said: In the book, I realized that it was not just me. One person had a similar experience, and many people were worse than me. Now I realize that the decadence I felt before was because I was making things difficult for myself.

Because of reading and studying, Xiao Hei got out of the predicament in life, mustered up the courage, and started again. A new career has begun, and although the new job search journey is not smooth sailing, it seems that he will no longer complain about the hardships of life.

Now Xiao Hei has a new job. In the past five years, he said that being fired might be destiny. In those five years, he was busy socializing and interacting with others, but refused to spend a little time studying and studying. Now because of studying and studying, he has a clearer plan for his future. Every day His life is fulfilling and directional. Now, carrying a book with him has become an unwavering habit.

In the low period of life, the comfort of family and friends may make him less sad for the time being, but in the future. We have to find our own way. Reading and studying are the beacons in the dark, guiding us in the direction of progress.

We must understand our own life from other people’s experiences and make adjustments from other people’s experiences. The direction of your life, books, not only increase your knowledge, but also broaden your horizons.

Reading and studying can subtly change a person at any time.

3. If you. I feel that I am not living well because I have not read for too long

The famous Persian poet Rudaki said: "Knowledge is a shield against all disasters. ”

Many times, the reason why our lives are unsatisfactory is mostly because your limited vision has trapped yourself in a narrow boundary, and the way to break through this boundary is to increase your knowledge through the experience of others. .

Although books are not like food, which can immediately solve your current hunger problem, they will slowly nourish you and eventually give you the power to break through obstacles.

Virginia Woolf said: "Everyone's heart is an extremely rich treasure, a kingdom of ice and snow where birds cannot stop. But in the complicated real environment, we drift with the flow until we are lost. , can't find the way back. "Reading is to help you find the way back.

You will understand what is most valuable in life. As you slowly transform while reading, you will be delighted to discover what you most want to do and who is the person you most want to love. What you want and what you don’t want, everything gradually becomes clear.

If confusion makes black holes and thorns appear in your life, then reading is the flowers and armor on the road of your life. There is always a book that will help you understand the meaning of life and find your place in life.