A happy woman is not necessarily the best, nor does she necessarily have more happiness than others, but she is a woman who grasps the true meaning of life. A happy woman knows how to love life and how to make life more meaningful. Happy women are good at finding fun in life. Although life is ordinary, they live with relish.
It is precisely the gentleness of women that can make men forget it. If you can make good use of this gentle weapon, you will definitely make ripples in the hearts of high-quality men, which will not be calmed for a long time.
Women nowadays are aggressive and not gentle at all!
You can often hear men complain about modern women like this.
Indeed, compared with women in the past, modern women are rarely obedient, considerate and naive girls. Instead, those so-called fashionable women are arrogant. For men's sighs, you may angrily refute: times are different, and now we are equal with men. He graduated from college and I graduated from graduate school. He earns 5 thousand a month, and I earn 60 thousand a year! Why am I obedient to him, making a poor and weak appearance?
Although these words are reasonable, since ancient times, men represent masculinity and women represent femininity. In any case, a woman should not lose her unique gentleness.
Gentleness is a virtue, a charm that can make men fall in love at first sight and remain faithful. Indeed, in youth full of romance and longing, beauty may prevail, but when sensibility returns to rational understanding, men will understand more and more that gentleness is more lovely than beauty. This is also a fact. In the change of time and the cycle of time, the beautiful face will lose its luster, but the gentleness will last forever. This kind of natural feminine tenderness has brought a lot of affectionate love, warmth and harmony to the world through the ages, which makes men forget it.
The gentleness of a woman is like a leisurely catalyst, urging the flowers and fruits of love to bloom at an early date.
The gentleness of a woman is like a ray of sunshine in spring, like a bright moon in autumn night, which adds warmth and clarity to life and embellishes your happiness.
Just like Zhu Ziqing, a famous scholar, described the gentleness of women wonderfully in the article Women: I think a woman with artistic temperament, first of all, her gentle breath, makes people feel like listening to the melodious flute and smelling the fragrance of roses, lying on a thick velvet blanket. She is as dense as water and as light as smoke, covering us. How can you not rejoice and admire? This shows how intoxicating this gentle beauty in women's character is, and how indulgent and fascinating it is!
There is something profound in tenderness, and that is love. This kind of love is profound, because it is not a rigid performance, but a natural emission of life itself.
Tenderness is not effeminacy and anger, but true temperament, which is something that grows in the bones.
A gentle woman is an angel of love sent by God and has a special charm. They are more likely to win men's love and affection. People often say that women made of water and men made of mud are as warm as water. No matter how hard the stone is, it will melt away. Women conquer men and the world with gentleness. Women on the road to love, please make good use of your gentleness, and let your favorite prince fall into your gentle trap step by step and be intoxicated with love.
Maybe you are not a strong woman in your career and your cooking is not so good, but as long as you have one big feature, gentleness, it is to attract men's attention. Because in his eyes, this feature of yours may be better than all the scenery in the world.
Happy motivation
Smart women all know that it is not strength but gentleness to hold a man tightly. When a man gradually moves away, noise will only make him speed up, but gentle and timely coquetry is the most effective weapon, which can make you turn defeat into victory.
Make him feel that home is always the warmest.
It has been said that creating a pleasant and peaceful atmosphere and making a man feel at home is the best way to keep him at home and keep a man's heart. As a wife, you should believe this hint and suggestion.
As a man, no matter what the nature of his job is, no matter how attractive it is to him, or how fascinated he is, it will always bring him some degree of tension. After he comes home, if there is a comfortable, quiet and orderly environment, his mind, body and emotions will be balanced, and he will have more energy to meet a busier tomorrow.
Every woman wants to be a good wife, but sometimes a man can't rest and relax at home because his wife is a demanding housewife. Her children can't bring friends home. The children may dirty her spotless floor. Her husband can't smoke at home, which may make the curtains smell of smoke; If her husband finishes reading a book or newspaper, he must put it back.
To give her husband a happy home, we must first create a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere. Secondly, we should keep the family environment clean and comfortable. For most men, they would rather live in a neat tent than a messy and beautiful mansion!
Do you understand why men would rather go to the stadium or bar than stay at home? For men, there seems to be no way to tolerate the untidiness of others except their own untidiness.
Dorothy Carnegie once said: My husband is such a person. He once told me that before he met me, he was going to propose to a charming girl, but later he gave up the idea, only because one day he went to her residence to find her and found her room in a mess, as if the enemy had just robbed her.
Therefore, it is necessary to avoid long-term untidiness at home. Of course, any educated husband can understand accidental mistakes. When he is busy, he will also eat leftovers happily, as long as this kind of thing doesn't happen often.
Happy motivation
People often say that when a man marries a wife, he is looking for the other half. The so-called object is to know the inside story and be able to understand his mind. Sometimes she indulges him, sometimes she cares about him; Sometimes I love him, sometimes I scold him. Therefore, creating a warm home for her husband and making him happy is the only way to really keep him.
It is better to rely on yourself than on others.
1, buy clothes and accessories that suit you. What suits you is the best. Don't envy other people's clothes.
Never go out casually, at least dress casually, or people will think you are a casual girl.
The way I choose is to walk on my knees.
4. Women are more excited than men and love to pretend to be excited.
That's what women do. Take off her pants once, and she will remember you forever.
6. Women have the talent of practicing lightness skill and magic, and they become faster.
7. Girl, you can be sexy, you can be pure, you can be glamorous, you can be charming, but you can't be mediocre.
8. If a man starts to give you the cold shoulder, please leave him. Men who don't know how to cherish you don't give up, let alone continue to pay your tenderness and love.
9. Lack is better than abuse. Don't rob a man just because you are lonely.
10, women should be like sunflowers, smiling and strong.
1 1, even if unhappy, it is always tepid, but very happy.
12, a strong woman will cry but will not give up.
13, a child who is unwanted, will eventually have to support himself.
14, don't be smart, you have suffered from your parents.
15, youth is precious, give yourself a deadline.
No matter when you start, it is important not to give up easily after you start.
No matter how bad the situation is, you should try to control your environment and save yourself from the darkness.
18, be kind to yourself, believe in yourself and make your life colorful and wonderful. Don't ruin your life because of one person.
19, if you do something, half of you may say you are right and the other half say you are wrong. I don't care what they say. I do what I want. I work for myself, not for anyone. Li na
20. A man can suffer all his life, but he can never suffer the woman who will accompany you all his life.
2 1, woman, you can love men, but you can't forget to love yourself.
22. I would rather be cursed than be an indomitable spirit.
23. I said goodbye to Zeng Jin. The future is my own virtue!
24. Being woken up by an alarm clock in the morning means that you are still alive.
25. Never go out casually, at least dress casually, otherwise people will think you are a casual girl.
26, even if a person, but also to clean up the mood, back up heartless, lonely on the road, girls can live well alone.
27. Open your eyes and choose your future partner. If you make a mistake, leave immediately. Don't make do, it will hurt two people.
28, don't rightfully act young.
Your actual age is 25, it seems to be 25. I won't really turn back to 18 just because I speak in a doll's voice and pout when I take pictures. If you carefully compare the photos taken a few years ago, your appearance may not have changed much, but your eyes must be very different from before. Each era has its own unique charm. Compared with 18 years old, you are more sensible, generous and decent now. If you are paranoid about act young, it only shows that you are seriously lacking in self-confidence.
29. Stop believing in eternity and enjoy the present.
Forever is a word that does not exist. You must know now that the present happiness is the real happiness. 25 years old is the best time of your life. Don't dilute today's happiness with tomorrow's sadness, and don't disturb today's happy pace with tomorrow's happiness. In fact, people who can enjoy and accumulate happiness will have more happiness. If the present tense of love is depressed and tangled, it will certainly not be much better in the future.
30. Don't be led by your own heart.
Girls always like to be carried away by feelings. Compared with appearance and talent, you should also start to consider personality, family, education and other factors. Whether life is ultimately happy or not, love is the foundation, but not the whole. It is also important that two people's interaction and thinking patterns are synchronized. The heart will eventually disappear, even until you doubt whether it really existed.
3 1. Refuse to be too close to married old men.
Being too close to an old married man is like trying to skin a tiger. If he is not interested in you, he will keep his distance from you. If he is interested in you and you can't stand the temptation, you finally fail and get hurt. Even if you kill the original match, you still have to face the children who are separated from you. In a word, you can never be the final winner of this game.
32. You are over the age of unrequited love. If you like someone very much, please tell him generously.
Even if you fail, it's no big deal, at least you don't have to continue to delay your precious youth.
Don't think about people and things that don't belong to you.
The ex-boyfriend who hurt you asked how you were, and the answer was good.
The ex-boyfriend you abandoned asked how you were, and the answer was good.
Married men ask how you are, and the answer is good.
None of them are yours.
34. Don't change for anyone easily, and don't try to change others.
The first part is because you will be miserable if you don't do it yourself, and the second part is because you can't do it at all.
At the age of 25, it's not a big deal to carry a condom with you.
If you still think that condoms should be prepared by men, it's hard to say that girls have condoms in their bags. This is definitely not reserved, but they are not responsible for themselves. Women's gynecological diseases are mostly caused by men. In addition to preventing unwanted pregnancy, condoms can also prevent the spread of diseases. In an emergency, it can also protect you from further harm.
36. Don't use birth control pills as amulets.
After the age of 25, the disorder of hormone level directly leads to infertility.
If you don't want a tragedy, stop taking birth control pills frequently, especially Yuting, and you can't take more than one pill within six months. If he doesn't prepare condoms, prepare them himself. If he refuses to wear condoms, you can totally refuse him. If you don't care about yourself, making love can easily turn into committing crimes.
Rely on others instead of your own inspirational phrases.
Only those who know how to stop know how to speed up.
2. No matter how tortuous it is, I hope the ending is good.
Running water will only release its vitality when it encounters conflict.
The strong are easy to be strong, just as the weak are easy to be weak.
5. Look at the sky, the ground and yourself.
6. People who are not afraid of pain are stronger, and those who are not afraid of death are stronger.
7. The most obvious sign of a great man is his strong will.
8. Luck can't last a lifetime. The only thing that can help you last a lifetime is your personal ability.
9. Don't set your life goals too high. Look for one thing, devote yourself wholeheartedly with interest and enthusiasm, and you will succeed.
10 Even the most hopeless thing, as long as brave people persist in doing it, there will be hope in the end.
1 1. In order not to leave regrets in our lives, we should seize every opportunity and change our lives as much as possible.
12, the most important thing is to persevere.
13. Only the strong have sacred will, and whoever hits will win.
14. Bitterness and sweetness come from the outside, while strength comes from the heart and comes from our own efforts.
15. Some people are not brilliant all their lives, not because they can't be brilliant, but because they don't have brilliant ideas in their minds, or they don't know how to be brilliant.
16. When God created human beings, he turned us into imperfect people. The process of our lifelong efforts is the process of making ourselves more perfect. All our virtues come from the struggle to overcome our own shortcomings.
17, everyone is mortal, but everyone is not willing to be mediocre. I know many people come to New Oriental in despair, but you must believe in yourself. As long as you work hard and make progress, you can also find hope in despair, and ordinary life will eventually shine.
18. Life needs our efforts. When we are young, we should try our best to exercise our abilities and acquire knowledge, skills and necessary social experience.
19, opportunity, we need to look for it. Let's summon up courage, use wisdom, grasp every minute of life and create a more wonderful life.
20. Every river has a dream: to run to the sea. Both the Yangtze River and the Yellow River run to the sea in different ways. The Yangtze River splits the mountain to clear the way, and the Yellow River twists and turns with different tracks, but they all have a spirit of water. In the process of running water, if it precipitates like sediment, you will never see the sun.
2 1, who said that "everyone is equal before the opportunity", New Oriental believes that individual struggle to win and snatch the spiritual property of success will always be uneven between the rich and the poor. On the other side of life, you should proudly tell the world that you have pursued and struggled, and you have never given up hope and never stopped fighting for a brilliant life. And this world that created everything will answer you proudly and happily: as long as you struggle, life will eventually be brilliant.
22. The most touching days in our life are always those when we strive wholeheartedly for a goal. Even if we strive for a humble goal, we are proud of it, because countless humble goals may be a great achievement. The pyramids are also made up of every stone. Every stone is simple, but the pyramid is magnificent and eternal.
23. The phrase "looking for hope in despair" in New Oriental is exactly the same as what Martin Luther King, a famous American civil rights activist, said in his speech "I have a dream": "We will hew a path from the mountain of despair." We cut it out of the mountain of despair. Remember, despair is a mountain, but as long as you can cut down a stone of hope, you will have hope.
24. It is not enough to have the spirit of struggle, but also to do it step by step. It is also a scientific spirit to analyze your present situation, where you are now and what kind of ability you have. You set yourself a goal, and you need to know how to achieve it step by step. In a sense, it is as important to set specific goals as to do them in a down-to-earth manner.
25. To attract people's respect, it is necessary to study a very professional field. In that field, you are the top, at least in the top ten in the country, so that you can have something to say and do at any time. I, Yu, originally wanted to be in the top 100 of English learners in China, but later I found it impossible. So I memorized words, spent a year memorizing English dictionaries, and became a word expert in China. Now I have published a series of little red books, from junior high school to GRE vocabulary, with an annual sales volume of 6,543,800+0,000 copies, and the manuscript fee is much higher than my formal work.
It is better to rely on yourself than on others.
It is better to rely on yourself than on others.
1, learn to live alone, whether someone around you loves you or not. Do what you should do, and treat it safely with or without love.
2. Don't frown on the road you have decided, no matter how painful it is. You know, the hardest things are all your own choices, and you are not qualified to shout pain.
3, time is like this, life is only a hundred years, but also a year of cherry blossoms, we often think about the past life and the road we have traveled.
4. Feelings actually don't believe in tears. People who really love you are unwilling to make you cry. It's no use crying without feelings.
5. No matter how good you are, there will always be people who don't cherish you; Fortunately, what we don't cherish in the end has become the past.
6. Every rose has a thorn, just like everyone's personality has parts that you can't tolerate.
7. Some people just meet for a while, as if they have known each other for a long time and want to tell him everything.
8, love, is by no means missing to find, not tired to change.
9. Tears are poison in your heart, just flow out.
10, love, is an unreasonable distress and tolerance without preconditions.
1 1, a smile will defeat a lifetime, and a tear will repay a person.
12, the biggest problem of happiness is not lack of acquisition ability, but picky about happiness.
13, sorry, don't tell anyone. Sad, quietly squat down and hold yourself, let the tears fall.
14, having a good memory is sometimes a burden.
15, mind your mouth, sometimes being dumb is a state.
16, there will always be a flower that blooms in the coldest time.
17, if the person you like doesn't like you, even if people all over the world like you, you will still feel lonely.
18, there are no scars that will not fade, no wounds that will not heal, and no despair that will not stop.
19, everyone has two selves, one is awake in the dark and the other is sleeping in the light.
20, if you know how to cherish, you will find that you get more and more; If you pursue blindly, you will find that you lose faster and faster.
2 1, a person's change actually depends on himself in the final analysis.
22. I wonder what will flash through your mind when my name passes by your ear.
23. Life is too short to regret. If it's not the end, please keep walking with a smile.
Winners are not those who never fail, but those who never give up.
25, life is like a road, all the way hard, all the way scenery. What you can see is your realm of life.
26, not eye-catching, not noisy, not forcing yourself, being a person behind the times, staring at people's hearts.
27. There are no unfinished stories in this world, only an immortal heart. In the emotional game between two people, it is not necessarily the winner who is finally tempted; And the last person to give up must be a loser.
28. The only time you need to look back in your life is to see how far you have come.
No matter how good others are, we should not envy them. Just compare with your past, and you will be happier every day.
30, some things, you hide it in your heart, maybe this is better, after a long time, it will become a story.