In the hands of smart people, love and happiness will always go hand in hand, but we should know the direction and strive for it actively. You can't just sit there and talk. People, growing up in different environments, different genders, different ages, different times and different wisdom, get different answers, and they can't finish talking for three days and three nights. What I want to tell you is that you are the same, but there is a difference between wisdom and no wisdom, and the result is different. Love has no end. If there is an end, it is also lost, cruel, and realistic, alas! Sister, you forget that you are a woman. After reading the following manuscript carefully, it is up to you to decide whether you are sad or happy. People live for themselves, and they are the most important. They lose their wisdom and bring unnecessary trouble! Then why? Come on! We are predestined friends. Let me teach you a way to make you full and happy forever and never worry! . In fact, the answer is very simple, with heart and wisdom. "What you know is happiness, and happiness is not why." "Don't understand is trouble, sadness, pain and fatigue. Why? Why "? Fighting for the cause, the world is a man's business. As long as a woman has the wisdom and heart to find a good partner, she should focus on her wife and make her willing to fight for you. If you can have both love and bread, you don't have to worry too much about others. Little sister has no ability to answer your questions from different angles. What you're asking is "if" helps you solve it, it won't help you much. It will happen again in the future I'll tell you why. If you had a direction, you wouldn't make the same mistake. We must find the direction of this question before we can answer it correctly. Just like us psychologists and old Chinese medicine practitioners, we can't know the patient's condition or write prescriptions. First of all, I want to know whether "irony is what you want" or "truth" is hard to hear. If the following reply does not satisfy you, or if it is offensive, please read more and understand. Forgive me, I don't want to ask about grades and success or failure. I just want to take this opportunity to let you know more about other things, which may help you find your way and shorten some hardships. Ignorance will harm you for life, so teaching and scolding are two sides of an organic whole. Please understand your painstaking efforts, and please be prepared! There is an old saying that it is happy to love a very painful person and be loved at the same time. I will choose the person who loves me first. At the very least, there will be no "lovelorn" and no "heartache". Being loved will be happier and sweeter. Tell him to run east, but he dare not run west. Even if you do something wrong and lose your temper, he will tolerate you. Any vigorous love must be based on facts and reality, so as not to deteriorate. Without the support of facts and reality, love is just a spring dream. There is such a famous saying since ancient times: "butterfly lovers has been amorous and carefree since ancient times", which is an eternal story. In the end, Ma Wencai, who couldn't stand the fact, broke up a couple and became a permanent regret. The so-called "couples who have no money are always sad." In today's real life, "money is not everything, and nothing can be done without money." Without foundation, everything is empty talk, which will only increase the pain. Love can't be all water. It's not enough to talk in your sleep with your mouth when you have time. If you are a woman, what is a woman? In fact, women don't want much They are looking for a sense of security. Love and marriage are women's life's work, but they are part of men, so women will seriously consider whether the man she is with is a general. A slave? Or one: it is invincible in the world, but it is a hollow radish with weak heart? "If you choose bread, you will laugh to death; If you choose love, I will starve to death. " If you said I was a woman, which one would I choose? 17 to 30-year-old women have privileges and advantages, which can make all men and princes in the world willing to give everything for her. At that age, invite her to dinner, make good use of it, make use of the grace given to women by God, make use of privileges and advantages, and choose a sense of security with your heart. Don't lose your mind, feelings, feelings and loneliness just for one, bury it in a hollow one. If you don't use your head, just look for a lazy and irresponsible braggart who has only a little money every month and can't afford a car or a house at all. If you have nothing to do now, who will rely on your parents for filial piety in the future? What should I do if I am sick? Where is your sense of security? Men who can make women comfortable abound in the world, and even fewer men can make women comfortable and happy. "Find them with wisdom and heart." Use more snacks and think about it from another angle. In fact, you are smarter than me and wiser than me. There is a saying that a wise man should not only use his own wisdom, but also use the wisdom of others. Find it yourself. You can simply post a few words online, and then you cut off half my head and write a few more words. Then you have all the experience of my little head! Finally, your "quiet wisdom is stupid" is too harmful. But don't tell me that I fainted! If you pay more attention to this formula and apply it to your love and marriage future, then you will be unhappy! People realized it later, so you can tell. If you follow the previous method and use wisdom and initiative, are you still afraid that you will not live what you want or what others want? Still unhappy? What are the pains and troubles there? . . What is there to worry about? Final conclusion: Be careful that your biggest enemy is yourself. Don't be hurt by laziness in your head, laziness will kill your hands and feet and make you tired all your life. This is not an article, this is experience, I did it, it's up to you, come on! Come on! Both failure and success are in your mind. Destiny and opportunity should be in your own hands. Don't go the wrong way. Thank you for choosing me as the best answer! ! ! ! ! ! ! !