1. Human life is neither as good nor as bad as imagined. Behind everyone, there will be sadness and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone will have their own tears to wipe away and their own path to walk. As long as you remember, add a coat to yourself when you are cold; buy yourself a piece of bread when you are hungry; give yourself a strength when you are in pain; give yourself a goal when you fail, get up in pain when you fall, and give yourself a tolerant smile to continue. Move forward and be your truest self.
2. Don’t hold others to your own standards, and don’t look at others through colored glasses. Because everyone has their own preferences and personalities and values. Things that you don't like are not necessarily bad. There are thousands of understandings of happiness, and everyone's interpretation is different. The greatest happiness in life is being able to be yourself. Believe in yourself, follow your own heart and intuition, do not blindly follow creeds, and do not blindly compare, and you will be the happiest. No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. Because of imperfection, we are the most real.
3. Happiness is accumulated bit by bit and managed day by day. Don't hurt the people who like you, and don't let the people you like get hurt. No matter how good a person is, if he doesn't want to accompany you until you grow old, then he is just a passerby. No matter how many shortcomings a person has, if he can tolerate you in everything and is willing to accompany you until the end, that is happiness. Everyone wants to find a perfect lover, but people always have flaws. Love means tolerating each other, being sincere to each other, and living a happy life. Having someone who makes you happy for the rest of your life is the goal of life.
4. When all possessions and persistence become a kind of harm, giving up is the best destination. Who can understand how much pain someone feels; who can understand how much pain someone feels. Tears are not on someone’s face, and no one knows how cold they are; wounds are not on someone’s body, and who doesn’t know its weight. Maybe you can see the tears in your eyes, but you may not be able to understand the sadness in your heart. Maybe you can see the scars on your body, but you may not be able to understand the sadness in your heart. Turn around and leave before crying, leaving behind a gorgeous The back view allows the mind to travel easily.
5. When you meet many people, you will know the value of friendship. If you encounter many problems, you will know how valuable understanding is. If you have failed many times, you will know the value of mentality. If you have more success, you will know the value of courage. If you have many conflicts, you will know the value of broadmindedness. If you don't like it too much, you will know the value of self-cultivation. It takes a lot of compliments to realize the value of sincerity. Only when you have more fame and fortune can you realize the value of calmness. Only when you socialize a lot can you realize the value of purity. Only after greeting you many times will you realize the value of perseverance!
6. When you are young, you don’t understand; when you are middle-aged, you are reluctant to part with it; some things are boring when you completely own them; some things are extremely precious when you lose them forever. Life is short, you can't stop what is coming, and you can't hold back what is going. Between gains and losses, as long as you have cultivated, sown, and watered, the amount of harvest is not the only criterion for success or failure. What is important is the time hidden in the details that makes you hurt, hates, loves, and is unforgettable for life. A heartbreaking and unforgettable experience.
7. Life is like a door. Some people are pessimistic about the darkness inside the door, while others are optimistic about the tranquility inside the door. Some people are sad about the wind and rain outside the door, while some are happy about the freedom outside the door. In fact, many things in life don’t matter the best, as long as you think it’s worth it, it’s the best. Success and failure, happiness and misfortune have different definitions in their hearts. The key is to grasp what you want, don't let it miss you, and don't let yourself have too many regrets. People live by their mentality and mood. If you maintain a good mentality, life will be a happy paradise.
8. No matter how deep the relationship is, no matter how strong the kindness is, the friendship will gradually fade away even though we are far apart. Things in the world are like this. If you don't take care of many familiar people, they will gradually fade away. If you don't reflect on many familiar things, they will gradually be forgotten. It doesn't mean that each other's hearts have changed, nor does it mean that they no longer regard each other as friends. It's just that we are far away from each other, and we can't fully enjoy the joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. The wind of time can not only dilute the love in our hearts, but also cool the righteousness in our hearts. The hand of time can not only blur me in your eyes, but also dilute you in my heart. No matter how familiar the road is, if you don’t When you walk, you will also be unfamiliar, this is life.
9. It often takes years or decades to make a friend; but it may only take a few minutes or one thing to offend a friend. The glitz of the world, the complexity of people's hearts and their sensitivity to trivial matters have all hindered the development of friendship.
Maybe it's just because they are friends, and they have less worries and respect for each other. This is the case. Sometimes friends get too close and the relationship becomes complicated, and if they stay too far away, they lose contact. Don't force friendship deliberately, cherish and care for a friendship with your heart. Even if it doesn't last forever, at least it once existed.
10. What makes women never forget is their feelings, and what makes men never forget is their feelings. Feelings slowly settle over time, and feelings gradually disappear over time. Maybe you can get love, get marriage, and get a superior life; but if you can't get a sense of security, what's the use of it all? It is better to live in stable poverty than to live in fear of abundance. Happiness is not about trying to love, but about living a peaceful life.
11. "Understand" is the most affectionate and profound word in the emotional world. To understand is to use my eyes to soothe your sorrow; to understand is to compare my heart with yours; to understand is to listen to the voice of your soul speechlessly; to understand is to always have your figure in my eyes, to understand, Just love with all my heart. A sentence of "I understand you" can melt an iceberg, can make the vines of love climb out of desperate situations, and can make a withered heart bloom with flowers of the years. Because only by "understanding" can you be calm and relaxed. If you understand, please cherish it.
12. If the bow of life is drawn too full, people will get tired; if it is not drawn enough, people will fall behind. Those who regard life as a journey will always encounter scenery, which is indifferent and distant; while those who regard life as a battlefield will always encounter fierce and fierce battles. Life is like this, you will encounter whatever you choose. There is no right or wrong, only whether you accept it or not. Learn to let go of things that make you unhappy, and learn to let go of people who make you humble. As long as there is tomorrow, today will always be the starting point.