You think there is no way because you have not learned to use whatever means necessary.

This sentence comes from the science fiction novel "The Three-Body Problem". The plain text reveals the truth about the failure of most people. All failures stem from inner "principles". The "principle" referred to here is the restriction of thinking on behavior, not just the rules of doing things and the bottom line of morality.

Use your brain to think and generate questions

Many people have dreams, no matter how big or small, that they want to complete and realize. Often the more rational people are, the more likely they are to fail. On the other hand, some "silly young people" who only know how to act recklessly can always realize their ideals and even become rich overnight. What's the reason? It lies in a simple thinking logic.

A rational person will set a goal for himself and always want to remove roadblocks on the way to this goal. That is to say, before doing anything, he will think about all the problems that are about to happen, and then think of ways to solve the problems that have not happened yet. However, just when they think the roadblock has been cleared, more inexplicable problems will come their way. Because there is no fixed number for everything, anything may happen. Therefore, when humans think about it, God laughs.

From this point of view, instead of clearing up problems that have not yet occurred, it is better to be down-to-earth and alleviate the stuck points in front of you. This is just like how we usually play games. We need to play level by level to experience the fun of the game.

Problems are not to be solved, but to be dealt with.

Many people believe that when problems arise, we need to solve them. But sometimes, the problem becomes more difficult to solve. It's like beating the boss of the first level in a game, but then having to face the boss of the second level. The second level is actually more difficult to beat than the first level. If this continues, future levels will become increasingly difficult to complete, problems will become increasingly difficult to solve, and you will be torn to pieces.

For example: The company's employees felt that there was a problem with the distribution mechanism, so we changed the distribution mechanism to satisfy the employees. However, employees lose motivation because of good treatment, causing the company's earnings to suffer. So, we began to think of ways to invest more to stimulate employees' morale, which ultimately affected the company's funds. If this continues, the company will gradually head towards destruction. Looking back, it is better not to change the distribution mechanism and keep the company in a balanced state.

Therefore, when many problems occur, we only need to optimize them instead of trying to solve them.

Feel with your heart, the road is at your feet

The criterion for measuring a person’s success is often not how much financial and material resources the person has, how extraordinary and extraordinary he is, but the person’s human heart How strong is your ability to make your wishes come true. Many people have a wish, but because of the disapproval of others, they change their thinking, plant the seeds of "impossibility" in themselves, and retreat in spite of difficulties. Everything is based on feeling, the desire exists, and there must be a reason for its existence. As long as your wish can come true, it doesn't matter whether you run, walk, crawl, or roll over while standing, what matters is whether you move towards the goal!

So, no matter what the eighty-one difficulties are, let’s start walking first! There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and it will be straight when the boat reaches the bridge!

There are thousands of roads, and those that can be seen with the naked eye must be crowded!

You may have heard a story. In the early days of Disneyland, no matter how the designers designed the roads, it seemed very unreasonable. So they made a bold decision to let tourists stamp a path on the lawn! So later generations also summed up an inspirational saying - there is no road in the world, but when there are more people walking, it becomes a road.

However, from another perspective, the path we are taking is exactly what others have opened up for us. If this Disneyland happens to be in China and it happens to catch up with the National Day holiday, then what will happen next? I believe everyone can imagine the scene that came down. Maybe this trip will leave a deep impression on us - we will regret it for the rest of our lives if we don't come, and we will regret it for the rest of our lives if we come.

In the end, we had to miss out on a lot of attractions and entertainment options because of the crowds.

Using this analogy, isn’t this so-called “road” exactly what others think is “correct”? Maybe he's not for everyone. So sometimes it is a better way to jump out of the circle, find another way out, and pursue "the end justifies the means". Of course, you can do things "by any means necessary", but you must pursue the right path and stick to the bottom line.