After reading "Be a Man before Doing Things" and "Be a Man before Doing Things", I was deeply touched. Although the book is not thick, the truth is very real, the examples are vivid and the content is very informative. Yuan Longping, a scientist who is the father of hybrid rice, said: "Being a man in advance is a cliche and the deepest feeling in my life." Since ancient times, our ancestors have put forward the ancient motto of "cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country and level the world", putting self-cultivation first, which means that no matter what you do, being a man is the premise. If a person cannot be a person, no matter how profound his knowledge, ability and level are, he can't be called a perfect person. Self-cultivation means being upright, being upright, being practical and making friends sincerely, so that life will be much smoother. This is my initial feeling after reading this book.
From several chapters in the book, "God cares for him and lets him wash the toilet", "Try to be irreplaceable" and "Do more every day, and the result is very different", it can be seen that a person must have temper will, exquisite skills, diligent quality and conscientious working attitude if he wants to stand in the company and make progress in his career. Napoleon Hill, a famous and successful scientist, once said, "Provide services that exceed your remuneration, and before long, the remuneration will exceed your services." It reminds us not to work just for salary, work is the foundation of the individual. Therefore, in the work, we must establish a sense of innovation, overall situation, hard work and skillful work. Therefore, I think the first thing to do in life is to do the following three things well:
First, cultivate one's morality. Be an honest person. For myself, it means being responsible for my comrades, not cheating, not talking empty words, and being loyal to my duties. Be loyal to the leader, tell the truth and be a modest person. Modesty is not only a virtue, but also a dedication. Have a peaceful mind, and keep a normal heart for glory, achievement and progress; Honest, not proud, not discouraged, not jealous of others' advantages, not laughing at others' shortcomings. Office is the link between unit leaders and workers, and it is the facade of leaders. We should respect people, care for them, unite with them, support them, unite with them for the cause and embody their image. Be a grateful person. Always keep a grateful heart, cherish your post, enhance the sense of social responsibility, sincerely face others, face society, be grateful to others and society. Be a diligent person. Learning is the ladder of progress. We should play the role of staff assistant, regard learning as a responsibility, learn from books and practice, combine learning with thinking, and apply what we have learned.
Second, we should love our work and devote ourselves to it. Cherish your post. The post not only gives us a stage to start a business, but also gives us the salary to support our families. I think everyone should be enthusiastic about what they are doing. Only in this way can they have motivation and hope when they work. Pragmatic and dedicated. Dedicated people are pioneers who are unwilling to be mediocre and dare to explore, and devotees who dare to innovate and keep making progress. Moscow doesn't believe in tears. A person who can't do things will never win the trust of leading comrades and will never succeed. Of course, in the process of starting a business, officers will also go through various tempering. Meng Ziyun said, "So, if we want to make the sky a great task, we must first work hard on their minds, their bones and muscles, starve on their bodies and be empty on their bodies." Therefore, the process of doing things is a process of tempering and growing. The staff of all units and departments should be resourceful, innovative, creative and responsible, like Zeng Guofan's low-key life, like Hu Xueyan's high-profile work, take responsibility, do their duty to the end, devote themselves enthusiastically to work, do one line, love one line, be precise and do one line.
Third, we should be diligent and thrifty, carry forward the two musts, and maintain and play a good tradition and style. Be careful what you say and do, always reflect on yourself and be self-disciplined, think carefully and grasp carefully, prevent delays and do things well. Have a high interest, broaden your horizons, cultivate healthy hobbies, and always maintain a positive attitude towards life.
Reflections on "Be a Man before Doing Things" 2 In this world, only two things deeply shake our hearts, one is the splendid starry sky above us, and the other is our lofty moral standards. -Kant
The so-called human behavior, there is no one in this world or people who have nothing to do. As subject and object, people and things are fundamentally inseparable. Man is the soul of things, and things are the interpretation of people. Therefore, being a man and doing things are both separated and unified. After all, doing things is being a man. People and things can be compared to shadows. A straight foot is not afraid of crooked shadows. The problem of people and things essentially boils down to the problem of form. Be a man first and then do things.
First of all, a man should have good qualities. I once heard a lecture, and I remember a teacher asking, "Why didn't someone else go to the Western Heaven to learn Buddhist scriptures, but the Tang Priest?" The answer is only one word "DE". No matter how capable a person is, he will not be respected if he lacks "virtue". Morality can be traced back to Laozi's Tao Te Ching. Tao is the essence and law of all things in the universe. His definition is that Taoism, which advocates nature, is consistent with Confucianism, which advocates ethics. It is a philosophical concept and cannot be abstractly described by metaphysics. The definition of "morality"-Taoism is: the law of the operation of all natural things in the universe. This is a physical law, which can be learned through exploration. Confucianism extended him to the code of conduct of human society and the ultimate standard to improve personal good quality.
The stage is as big as the heart. I can't forget this sentence for a long time. What is the heart? Success depends not only on one's own ability, but also on the mind of joining the WTO. Imagine how a jealous, emotional and calculating person can have a broad mind and an inclusive heart. Without tolerance, you will forget to be kind to others. Although we emphasize "showing individuality" now, we should always keep a modest heart and see our own shortcomings. Only in this way can we make greater progress.
At the same time, we should know that contentment is not content with the status quo, but a positive and optimistic attitude. Life is to surpass yourself again and again, even if it is only a small step, contentment is to realize the ideal of life with an optimistic and confident attitude. If a person lives in resentment and jealousy, in the double torture, he will not only endure the pain imposed by his heart, but also lose confidence because of resentment and jealousy, and do things contrary to common sense, which will eventually lead to the loss of friends and self. Everyone has his own excellent place. What we need to do is to learn and enjoy the success of others, not to be jealous. Try to face life with a grateful heart and communicate with the most beautiful language "smile", and beauty will bloom in your smile. Money is an indispensable thing in real life. Many people have lost their good nature and become slaves of money for money. The ancients said, "A gentleman loves money and takes it wisely." Money can prove a person's value, but it needs to be obtained from the right path. Greed is the source of evil.
In addition, we should keep learning and making progress. "Never too old to learn" is a famous saying of Premier Zhou Enlai. Harry's mother taught Harry: "Don't be like your father, you should study hard and become famous in the future!" " How great is the civilization of the Chinese nation with a long history of 5,000 years, and how much have we passed on? The society is progressing, and knowledge is the only way to improve its internal quality. I once studied China ancient literature with a teacher. After half a year's study, I realized that the teacher was Australian. However, this teacher's rich cultural background makes many people in China feel ashamed. The teacher said, "No matter how busy you are, you must keep reading." It is because of persistent study that this book is elegant and full of bookish spirit. But honesty is the foundation of being a man. In trivial work and life, mistakes are inevitable. When it comes to faith, you should be a person who dares to admit mistakes, see your own shortcomings, affirm the advantages of others, motivate yourself, encourage others, and finally learn from their advantages. Why not do something?
Finally, you must have a good character and be good at losing money, because gold will always shine, do things in a low-key and high-profile way, and you will have invincible power. Beauty is not because of appearance, figure or clothes. This is a positive attitude. Smart people don't let their emotions control them. The reality is cruel. A humorous remark gives others reasons to be happy and gives them the ability to change the status quo. Complaining about others can't solve any problems. The only person who can really help you is yourself. Old people often say, "Suffering is a blessing." How much truth does a blessing contain? Only when you are considerate of others will you be rewarded and you will be willing to help others.
After reading "Be a man before you do things", life is actually four words-be a man and do things. It is not easy to always complete these four words in the most perfect way, which is why there are so many success or failure things. Only by mastering the truth of being a man and experiencing the experience of being a man can we have great wisdom, achieve great things, and achieve success in our cause through a sound mind, abundant energy and correct actions.
The book "Be a Man before Doing Things" points out the truth of being a man before doing things at the beginning, and then explains some rules and skills of being a man and doing things one by one in each chapter. Reading this book in different periods has also inspired me.
Learn to be an orderly person and not be tired of trifles. Without small streams, rivers and seas cannot be formed; If you don't accumulate steps, you won't travel a thousand miles. Eat your food bit by bit, and walk step by step. In fact, you have to finish things one by one. Doing things in an orderly way, dividing complex tasks into several steps, step by step, step by step, can often get twice the result with half the effort. It seems trivial to clean your desk regularly every day, but it is this little habit that can let you know what is important, what is urgent and what you haven't had time to deal with, so as not to forget things and make your work more efficient in the busy response.
Learn to evaluate yourself correctly. We are always used to staring at others, but we are seldom willing to know ourselves calmly, and few people can evaluate ourselves correctly. In fact, everyone is not perfect, and they will say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing. Even saints have "three provinces a day", so we mortals should examine ourselves from time to time. Only by paying attention to yourself at all times can we make a correct evaluation of ourselves. Whether we can make a correct self-assessment, that is, whether our self-positioning is correct, often determines what kind of achievements we can achieve. If the evaluation is too high, you will aim high; if the evaluation is too low, you will be arrogant. Only when you know your real strength, what you should do and where you should go, will you concentrate on your own field and create your own world.
Maintain a warm and optimistic attitude towards life. Everyone's life can't always be smooth sailing, and there will always be some ditches and ridges from time to time, and everyone is the same. But to distinguish success from failure, it depends on whether this person can break through difficulties or escape when he sees suffering. No matter how difficult it is, people who are always enthusiastic about how to break through will surely succeed. Only those who think it impossible to break through will find it difficult.
In fact, there are many other places worth studying in this book. In each chapter, we talked about some specific skills and principles of communication with people. I think it will be good for us to learn one or two.
The book "Be a Man before Doing Things" gives me the most intuitive feeling that in work and life, you must be a man before doing things. It is important to do a good job, but the way to be a man is fundamental.
This book expounds the dialectical relationship between being a man and doing things with a large number of typical examples. Everyone who lives in the world is valuable, and the medium that embodies value is through labor. How to do your job well and enhance your value is the most crucial thing. No matter what kind of people we are, we must be responsible when dealing with our own work. The tasks assigned to you, whether important or trivial, should be done as much as possible.
We should be responsible and enterprising in our work, and more importantly, we should be proactive. We can't always wait for the leader to arrange work, and we don't care if we work harder than others and suffer. Doing more work can exercise yourself more. Work is the stage for us to display our talents, so we should have the belief of pursuing progress and strive to complete every task assigned by the leaders. Treat your work with enthusiasm and passion, and show your talents as much as possible. In our work, we will encounter many obstacles and difficulties. At this time, we can't back down. We should use this little setback to exercise ourselves and improve our business ability. We should have the courage to challenge difficulties, not to escape and not to delay. When we make mistakes in our work, we should not be dejected and despondent, but should sum up experiences and lessons. When we encounter the same problem again, we will be more confident and motivated to deal with it.
We should start from every little thing and form good habits through bit by bit accumulation. In practical work, nothing is too small to forget, and nothing is too small to ignore. People who are serious about small things will excel when they do big things. People who don't pay attention to small things or don't do small things can hardly believe that they will achieve great things. The sense of accomplishment and self-confidence in doing great things is accumulated by the sense of accomplishment in doing small things.
In short, being a man is the basis of doing things, and doing things is the embodiment of being a man. No matter what position you are in, you must be a good person; No matter how big or small, we should do it seriously and really practice it: do glorious and colorful things and really benefit the people.