A man who tries to find the truth in love ends up with a little decorated lie, which he calls marriage.

A person is very cautious in making friends and has high vision, but because of his age, he suddenly lowers his love standards. He calls this marriage.

A man is looking for a love with the beauty of an angel, but soon, he himself becomes a maid who only needs daily necessities. He calls this marriage.

In fact, what we call love is a short-lived madness, a fantasy of a beautiful partner, and love ends with our marriage.

7. Love is not vanity.

When we are in love, we always want to hide our shortcomings and always want the other person to see our strengths. This is not out of vanity, but rather a desire not to bring pain or a bad impression to the other person.

All lovers want to appear in the face of God. This is not vanity, but a strong desire for love.

8. Only by sharing the same goals can love last forever.

With like-mindedness, the desires of two people point to the same goal and the same higher goal, thus creating a great ideal. This love lasts, lasts, let love last.

Like-minded love makes people rich and fulfilling.

9. Love is not possession.

It is human nature to like the new and dislike the old. As long as we live in a place with great scenery for the first half of a year, we no longer love it as much as we did before. But the distant place arouses our greed and reverie. Many people call this greed and desire for possession "love".

A man always wants to possess his woman absolutely, expects to have absolute rights over her soul and body, and desires to be loved by her alone. In love, he excludes everyone else. In fact, love driven by possessiveness is synonymous with selfishness.

10. Love enables people to see themselves clearly and become one with the lover.

Love allows the object of love to accept itself and see itself clearly, making the lover and the object of love one and the same.

If both parties fall in love at the same time and fall at each other's feet, they will involuntarily long to become exactly like the other person. The two people blend together perfectly. This kind of beauty is so sublime. Love creates the miracle of two becoming one.

11. Love must be true.

Young people like novel and interesting things, and they don’t care whether the things are true or false. And more mature people gradually begin to like real things. They not only require novelty and fun, but also realism.

Thoroughly mature people love things that are unpretentious, simple, and even boring, because these things are real and pure, and they see the supreme spiritual core through truth and purity.

12. Love should come early.