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In most relationships, women tend to be more soft-hearted. Many women are willing to believe in the vows men have made to them, but are not willing to believe that men are not Love your own performance and would rather deceive yourself.
Actually, sometimes, it’s not that women don’t know that the other person doesn’t love them enough, it’s just that most of them are optimists in love and always believe that sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity. However, they didn’t expect that in love, It's very simple to not love anymore. No matter how hard you try, you can't get good results.
You know, if a man never takes the initiative to contact you, it may not be that he is really busy, but it may just be because he does not love you enough.
In love, stubbornness may lead to a good ending, but love is also the last thing that can be forced or compromised. Therefore, don’t love a man who doesn’t love you enough, because maybe your sincerity will end in the end. , in exchange for nothing but empty joy.
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There are many wise sayings about love, but in fact, everyone’s love does not live by these sayings. Only the person involved in love can understand the personal meaning of love. There are ups and downs, and perhaps we can only learn from the experience of others or predecessors, but cannot completely copy it.
The relationship between Yanan and her boyfriend Zhang Yuan has always been ordinary. Friends around her, and even Yanan herself, thought that the two of them would live in an ordinary life like this until they got married.
But in the end, Yanan chose to break up and bid farewell to this dull relationship. Afterwards, when a friend asked about it, Yanan just replied calmly: "I'm tired, I can't hold on." . ?
Yanan has always been a woman who dares to love and hate. The only thing that made her indecisive was her relationship with Zhang Yuan. During this relationship, Zhang Yuan never took the initiative to contact Ya Nan. Nan, almost all of them, Yanan took the initiative to contact him. Even in the original pursuit, it was Zhang Yuan who Yanan put down her reserve first and pursued Zhang Yuan.
In the end, Yanan decided to let go because she didn’t want to have to say the proposal first. She didn’t want to be the one who was always giving in this love, while the other party Do nothing.
In love, either you chase me or I chase you, but it is generally a chasing relationship on an equal footing. Once this relationship gradually goes astray from the beginning or in the process, it becomes It's a one-sided chase. Perhaps, when the person chasing you gets tired, the relationship will fade away or even cease to exist.
When a man doesn’t take the initiative to contact you, it may be because he is very busy and really can’t leave. But if this man has never taken the initiative to contact you, then the seriousness of the problem will increase. A level, because this may be because he doesn't love you enough, or even doesn't love you at all.
Everyone wants to have a peaceful relationship over time. However, such sweet love is mostly due to loving each other. When a man does not love you enough, or has never loved you before, in such a situation , women should stop their losses in time.
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If a man is unwilling to take time to accompany you even though he has time, or takes the initiative to find you, then maybe he really doesn’t love you enough to be willing to spend more time with you. Give you some.
Behavior cannot deceive someone when you truly love someone. When a man falls in love with a woman miserably, then no matter how busy he is, he will still take some time out of his busy schedule to accompany you, because, he I can't bear to be separated from the one I love for so long.
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In love, if a man doesn’t take the initiative, he actually doesn’t love you enough.
Faye Wong sang in "Because of Love": "Because of love, you will not be sad easily, so everything is happy." ?
In fact, no one can give an exact answer to what love is. However, it is precisely because of love that people can not feel the vicissitudes of the world. Because of love, people can feel that life is It’s worth looking forward to, everything is happy.
The essence of love should make people feel sweet. It is a kind of magic that is more beautiful when two people are together. However, love is also a two-way race, which requires both participants of love** *Both participants, if one party gives up or is unwilling to participate, the outcome may not be happy.