This "old man's speech" is not a tedious speech, but a lesson, successful summary and experience that the old man has experienced for most of his life.
A person's life can't be smooth sailing, and there will always be some detours, setbacks and hardships. Although there are exceptions, it is not until the end that we can realize the true meaning of doing things for others and being Qu Zhi. This may be the preciousness of "old people's words".
Young people are full of blood and passion, but they are not deeply involved. Like a flying bird, I don't know much about the world. Many of them have gained valuable experience and lessons only after hitting a wall.
And these are all experienced by old people. If young people can listen to the experiences of the elderly as soon as possible, they may take fewer detours to learn from them. Being a man or developing a career is a good thing.
But look at everything from both sides. There are also problems that need specific analysis and treatment. At this time, it is necessary to rely on your own judgment.
The spirit of forging ahead and daring to struggle is very important for young entrepreneurs.
It is important to learn from the experience of the elderly, but the thinking mode of the elderly may not be copied.
"If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front." Personally, I think this sentence is very reasonable.
Let me talk about my understanding of this sentence first.
The "old man" referred to here has nothing to do with gender, urban and rural areas, not only refers to the real old man, but also includes the elderly, elders or people who have experienced it; The concept of "immediate" time is not immediate, but relative and broad.
The general meaning of this sentence is that when you encounter important or difficult things that you have never experienced before, whether you ask others for advice or the opinions or suggestions provided by these "old people", you should accept them with an open mind and take them seriously. Because these "old people" are older than themselves, have rich life experience or are very experienced in some things, their suggestions are generally correct.
After listening, you will take fewer detours; If you stick to your guns and don't listen to their advice, reality may teach you a lesson and make you suffer.
Give another real case to prove it.
Anonymous, urban hukou, young, as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, with a college diploma and a regular job. Because she is the only child in the family, plus her own superior conditions, it is the age to talk about marriage, and there are hundreds of natural beauties.
In the face of many suitors, she assumed an indifferent attitude.
When the parents saw it, they solemnly told her that they could choose their own wedding events. But it must be a "suitable" or son-in-law with very good economic conditions at home, otherwise parents will definitely fail.
Who knows, she ignored her parents' words and saw that a security guard in this unit was tall and handsome, which met the standard of "Prince Charming" in her mind. It was love at first sight.
In fact, the security guard has long noticed that this beautiful woman who passes in front of her at work every day, although her heart is full of ripples, dare not dream that "the toad wants to eat swan meat", so dare not look at it.
One day, when the security guard was on duty, the beauty took the initiative to greet the security guard and asked him to go out for dinner after work at night.
At first, the security guard thought he had heard wrong, so he didn't answer. The beauty repeated it.
In this way, their feelings quickly warmed up.
After half a year, she felt it was time to tell her parents about it.
Hearing this, the parents asked four questions in succession: What diploma? Junior high school, what occupation? Where is the sense of security and home? How many brothers are there in the countryside? Three.
Parents suppress their anger and do her work seriously, hoping that she will pull back from the brink.
But how can she listen at this time!
No way, parents take the initiative to entrust people to introduce her friends. Who knows she will never see it.
When the security guard learned that his parents-in-law would not accept him in the future, he wanted to "cook raw rice into mature rice" to urge him to accept the reality and change his attitude.
So they lived together, and soon, as they wished, she became pregnant.
Who knows that parents are very traditional and proud people.
After learning the news, he not only did not change his attitude, but cut off the relationship between father and daughter.
Seeing that my parents don't accept it, my stomach is getting bigger every day, and some people in the unit are pointing fingers. They left without saying goodbye as soon as they discussed it-they eloped.
After returning to the security guard's hometown, the conditions at home exceeded all her imagination. Mother-in-law has been ill in bed for many years, and both younger brothers are at school. My father-in-law is both a father-in-law and a mother-in-law. My family is very poor and doesn't even have a bed ... I have no choice but to accept everything.
On the third day after returning home, regardless of the fact that she was pregnant for six months, her husband asked her to perform the duties of a housewife, take care of the life of a family of six and raise pigs and chickens.
Pregnancy is greedy, but they have already exhausted their past savings;
Pregnant in October, the melon is ripe. She naturally gave birth to a baby girl, hoping to bring unexpected surprises to the family, but the traditional concept of son preference in this place is deeply rooted.
The husband goes out to work in a rage, the mother-in-law is in danger, the two younger brothers are young, and the father-in-law is unhappy all day. He cooks a meal when he remembers, and goes to bed early when he is unhappy.
Not only can she not enjoy the treatment of confinement, but the child has completely become her "private property". Because there is no milk, the child is hungry all day, which makes her not only hungry, but also seriously lack of sleep.
In desperation, she began to reflect on her behavior and realized that everything she did today was because she didn't listen to the old man. The only way out is to leave this hopeless and energetic family and seek parents' understanding. ......
This story tells us vividly that if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.
The old man said that it is actually years of accumulated experience! Is the accumulation of knowledge! Generally speaking, listening to the old man means respecting knowledge! Respect experience! Take fewer detours in study and work! So you can get twice the result with half the effort! "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you" also has some truth!
Of course, you can't make an empirical mistake just because you only listen to the "old man"! Social progress also needs innovation! Need development! Because the new things now and in the future have never been experienced before! Practice makes true knowledge! The economy of our predecessors alone may become rigid! Society will not progress!
Practice is the only criterion for testing truth! We should fully respect and learn from the experience and accumulated knowledge of our predecessors! At the same time, we should also learn new knowledge and new theories! Do a comprehensive study of old and new knowledge! Fuck the scum! Absorb its essence and serve the socialist construction!
In short, "the old man's words" must be listened carefully! Study it carefully! Learn the experience and knowledge accumulated by predecessors! Serve our work and study! At the same time, we also need to identify the past knowledge and economy! Only in this way can we reduce career mistakes or suffer less! Accelerate socialist construction!