Human nature is evil, and a gentleman should be self-reliant. What are the good intentions and fantasies for those who have hurt themselves? Being able to have fantasies is nothing more than thinking that bad people may become better. Then I want to ask, he (she) has hurt you, is it better that the harm to you does not exist? The answer is no, so don't dwell on this fantasy. For those who have hurt you, you should not only forgive yourself in your heart, but also learn to live a relaxed life, and don't indulge in it because of temporary injuries. At the same time, be vigilant. The bad guys will not let you go, because they have hurt you and want to do bad things again.
If you get hurt, you should learn from it. For those who have hurt you, cut off contact decisively and learn to protect yourself to prevent other bad people from hurting you again.
Being hurt by others, not to mention, is a kind of warm and cold feeling, and time will give the best proof; Being vilified by others, not to mention, is a kind of self-discipline, and the quality of character will be clarified by time.
Affection can't stand indifference, love can't stand lies and friendship can't stand hypocrisy. No matter how good the fate is, it can't stand perfunctory, and no matter how deep the feelings are, they need to be cherished. If you indulge others too much, others will make you feel worse; If you are too tolerant of others, others will push your luck and hurt you.
There are no absolute fools, only people who are willing to play dumb for you. People who forgive you are people who don't want to lose you; Always forgive, always encounter betrayal; Always understand, always encounter irrationality. Sometimes you have to be tolerant, but sometimes you must never give in. Some bottom lines can't be done step by step. If you retreat again, you will only feel bullied.
Leaving is always easier than meeting, because meeting is the fate of hundreds of millions of people, and leaving is only the end of two people. Therefore, for those who intentionally hurt you, leave if you can, and break if you can! Life is short, tolerate for love, persist for yourself, and live with dignity. This is the bottom line of being a man!
People who have hurt you, don't expect him (her) to change your image in his (her) mind, and don't expect him (her) to be good to you!
The fundamental reason why a person dares to hurt you is that he is not afraid of you! I'm not afraid of you for two reasons. One is jealous of you, and the other is contemptuous of you! Looking down on you may be that he (she) has no self-knowledge!
I have forgiven many people in my life, but unfortunately, the injury has never stopped, and it will only get worse!
One year, about two or three months before the Spring Festival, a man in his fifties who lived near a retail store came to apply. I know very well that the main reason for recruiting people now is to face the Spring Festival. If you can go to work during the Spring Festival, you are welcome to come. If you can't, don't recruit people for the time being. She said no problem. You can go to work during the Spring Festival and have a holiday before the Spring Festival. I also gave a red envelope of 100. I also stressed that this is lucky money, and it is also available. Don't get the key back! No information! It's really embarrassing! In September, this person came to apply for a job again, saying that her family was in financial difficulties and she couldn't find a job when she was old, hoping to give her a chance. She also reviewed the bad practices of last year. I relented and asked her to come to work again, repeatedly stressing that I should be able to go to work during the Spring Festival, otherwise I wouldn't hire anyone, and she agreed. Unexpectedly, the day before the Spring Festival, she said she couldn't come to work because of something at home!
Never trust anyone who has hurt yourself again! This is a lesson of blood! Maybe some people will lose everything for this family! Have to be vigilant!