Recently, I often hear a sentence: "See you at a height."
Yes, it's really an inspirational word to see you in the highlands.
However, I know a friend who has forgotten the Chinese New Year. He once said, "Life is not just a mountain peak. You shouldn't simply climb up. "
I'm impressed.
As long as we climb in the right way, we still have a chance to reach the top.
But where did you go when you tried to reach the height? You know, one can't be at the top forever. So what should he do?
The old man can be said to be my life mentor. He learned too much from him. He told me:
"Life has always been ups and downs, so you should know how to advance and retreat and know how to choose."
Know how to advance and retreat
Liu Bang has a famous saying: "Know the gain and loss."
In other words, a man should be able to assess the situation and know when to advance and when to retreat.
This is another story.
At that time, Liu Bangben, who was in front of the small official, was a director of Surabaya Pavilion. One day, he escorted the criminals in Lishan to build Xianyang Palace.
It rained heavily and the road was slippery. On the first day on the road, many Lishan criminals ran away.
The laws of the Qin Dynasty were very strict. Liu bang will be put to death if he fails to reach Mount Li, and will be put to death if he arrives at Mount Li late. Even if there are not enough people on time, he will die!
Reasoning, anyway, is certain to die, Liu Bang simply released the rest of the prisoners.
Liu Bang also changed his fate from Fengxi Zongtu, and he became the biggest winner at that time because he knew how to advance and retreat.
The so-called moderation is the second best.
Life, blindly retreating, may eventually retreat, only knowing that progress is inevitable.
Agree with this sentence: "To be a man, you must know how to advance and retreat. You can't solve any problems, and you will make your life more and more difficult."
10 June 18, Tan Ya won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress, and netizens sent blessings: "Sister is worth it!"
Tan Ya, once known as "little zhang ziyi", is a girl who is contending for both Chinese opera and Beijing film. After several ups and downs, she gradually got better.
Knowing that the entertainment circle is not easy to enter, she slowed down on her own performing arts road, stopped and retreated, settled down to study, chose to stay away from glitz and noise, and persistently pursued her dream as an actress.
It was not until after graduation that she began to play supporting roles in some big plays and became acquainted.
In July, "Thirty without Nothing" became an instant hit, and Tan Ya explained Gu Jia's indomitable character incisively and vividly in his own unique way, which received rave reviews.
34-year-old Tan Ya finally ushered in his career and love.
In the ups and downs of life, this is a process of continuous advance and retreat. It takes vision and courage to advance and retreat freely.
To know how to advance and retreat, we should not only advance and retreat, but also advance and retreat properly.
Mature wisdom stops at me and advances and retreats moderately.
Know the depth
I believe everyone has heard the story of a pony crossing the river when he was a child.
Children's fairy tales have long told us to know the depth, but when you grow up, you will find that there are too many ponies in your life.
There was a news report recently about a lifelike pony crossing the river.
In the report, Mr. Zhang said that he had to go through the stagnant water section when he went out, and his car was hit by water and stalled. After trying to start it many times, it still failed. Finally, he had to ask the relevant departments for help.
I believe you often drive, and you have encountered such a situation: driving on a stagnant road, clearly seeing that someone else's car can pass smoothly, but your car will turn off as soon as it passes.
The traffic police reminded drivers not to blindly cross the wading road, but also gave an important reminder: in general, don't simply refer to the traffic capacity of other vehicles. Different vehicles have different chassis heights and different traffic capacities.
Like a pony crossing a river. If you ask a cow, the cow says it's simple. You ask the squirrel, and the squirrel says it will drown.
Those who know the depth, to put it bluntly, have tried it themselves, have more knowledge, have wider horizons and have a bigger pattern.
To put it bluntly, people who don't know the depth only know to rush forward.
Qingwen in A Dream of Red Mansions died of her ignorance.
I left Baoyu two nails like onion tubes. When he died, he didn't realize it: "Go back and ask them if they saw it, and don't lie, just say it's mine. This is not only a name, but also a gender. "
There is only one sentence in the verdict of Qingwen's death: "The moon is hard to meet, and the clouds are easy to disperse. My heart is higher than the sky, and I feel inferior. " It was her ignorance that hurt herself.
People in society need wisdom to survive, and they need to know the depth and do more things that are just right, instead of just being themselves.
Life is full of ups and downs, with distinct shades.
Know the trade-off
The little monkey who picks up sesame seeds and throws watermelon is a household name in China. It seems easy to choose, but it is actually difficult to understand. If you don't believe me, look at the little monkey in the west again and you will know that what you said is true.
Ancient Indians could catch monkeys without weapons.
The clever hunter hollowed out the coconut, dug a small hole and put a banana in it. The size of the hole is very delicate, just like a monkey reaching in empty-handed.
When the monkey smelled the fragrance, he reached in and held the banana full. No matter how hard the monkey pulled his hand back, he couldn't pull it out.
But because he was bent on getting bananas, he refused to put them down and went out of the hole empty-handed, so he was captured alive by hunters.
You and I both know that laughing monkeys don't know how to choose, but why don't you and I know?
Many times, like monkeys, we lose ourselves because we don't know how to choose.
Sages have long said that you can't have your cake and eat it. Since ancient times, it is difficult to have it both ways, so the most difficult thing in life is to choose.
Life is ups and downs, and gains and losses are uncertain. It is yours, so you must fight for it. It's not yours. Give it up. Don't be afraid to fight for it, don't be reluctant, and don't add regrets and regrets to your life.
Strive for what is truly worthwhile and give up what is unnecessary, and life will be more meaningful!
Even now, Ming Lan in Do You Know is definitely an independent woman in a new era.
She grew up with her grandmother, pretending not to be sensible and hiding, and became the winner of happiness in life.
Minglan is really smart, knowing how to let go and how to choose. This is really great wisdom. The audience's love for Ming Lan just proves their understanding and recognition of her view of choice.
People who know how to choose are talented people, and vice versa.
Life is complicated, and the choice is in an instant. When you know how to choose, all encounters are no longer mistakes.
Everything in the world is beautiful, but there will be ups and downs in the mountains and ups and downs in the water. Prosperity and adversity follow, and success and failure follow.
Life is never mountainous, and life is never multifaceted. Besides money, there is poverty. In addition to height, there are valleys; Besides good things, there are all kinds of bad things.
There is a saying in "Caigen Tan": "Don't be surprised, look at the flowers in front of the court; I have no intention of staying, and I have no intention of staying. I hope that the clouds in the sky will be smooth. "
Different people have different views, and wise people have different views. In fact, they are all insights into the nature of events and profound insights into life accumulated over the years.
Life is ups and downs, and mortals know how to advance and retreat, how to know the depth, and how to choose, which is great wisdom.
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