I thought I was close to success, but I just watched the mountain run away.
Therefore, we are depressed, worried, anxious and even feel inferior. Is it because we are incompetent or talented? In short, looking at the successful people around us, we can easily succeed, and we will envy and hate.
But in fact, we only see how the aura of success shines, but we can't see the gloomy days behind it. No one can succeed casually, and everyone has a "endure" process.
1, well, the patient has been waiting for a long time.
The trough of life needs to be endured, just as Bi Shumin said, "Wait quietly and have a good sleep, like a hibernating bear."
Five years after graduate school, I have a friend who wants to start his own business. Seeing that his classmates all found their favorite jobs and lived a middle-class life, his parents were very anxious, and his seven aunts and eight aunts around him began to accuse him of not being self-motivated and low-minded. In short, what he said is useless.
Going home for the New Year is the most difficult day for friends. How much did you earn this year? Did you find someone? Why not look for a job? Look who's married or something. Friends can only face everyone's gossip with a wry smile.
Parents are worried about him, and relatives and friends are talking about it. Only he knows his daily progress and the development of the company.
He gritted his teeth silently, made unremitting efforts and sat on the bench for five years. At the age of 40, he finally passed the darkest time before dawn.
There is no doubt that my friend succeeded. That year, my friend earned the first sum of money 1 10,000, and the Spring Festival that year was also the most comfortable.
Parents praised their son's commitment to everyone, and the seven aunts and eight aunts immediately shut up. They even rushed to introduce their friends.
However, no one knows how his friends have been on pins and needles in the past five years, and their hearts have long been tempered.
I still remember San Mao's sentence in "Send You a Horse": "I want you to learn to wait for the emotion when the time is ripe, and you should keep trying and persisting outside of waiting."
Indeed, just as Zeng Guofan, a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty, was a young scholar with poor talent, he could not be compared with Zuo and Li Hongzhang of his contemporaries. But his achievements have surpassed many people, precisely because of his persistence and waiting.
It is not difficult to endure for one day, but it is difficult to endure for a lifetime. Make progress every day, endure and persist, and let Zeng Guofan change from a mediocre teenager to the first perfect person in ancient and modern times.
No matter my friend or Zeng Guofan, how can we achieve such excellent results without patience?
2, boil, is waiting for the opportunity to prepare.
Some people say, "Success is the product of good weather, favorable location and harmonious people."
At the age of fifty, Liu Bei is still wandering and has no place to stand. But he can bear it, which can be described as repeated defeats and wars, and has never given up his ambition to recover the Han Dynasty.
Until he met Zhuge Liang, Liu Bei married a noble person all his life. From then on, the goal was very high.
I have read such a passage: "At the age of 20, I think Cao Cao is the best, at the age of 40, I think Sima Yi is the best, and at the age of 60, I think Liu Bei is the best." Seeing 60-year-old Liu Bei, I know that life is a painful process, and persistence means everything.
Imagine, if Liu Bei didn't survive the cold winter in his life and gave up early, how could he have the good luck of a vassal?
In the south of China, bamboo grows. It only grows three centimeters in four years, and in the fifth year, it grows 30 centimeters a day, and finally grows to 15 meters. On the runway of life, how many people can't survive these three centimeters.
At first, they may be full of commitment and motivation. However, after a series of failures or no results, they can't help but give up, just like digging a tunnel. What a pity it is for those who give up one meter short of digging a tunnel.
And those who persist to the end know what gift fate has given them.
Painting Saint Wu Daozi, when he was young, his family was very poor. One day, he met an old monk in Bailin Temple and made up his mind to learn painting from him.
At first, Wu Daozi's painting level was very low, and his paintings were different.
Just when he wanted to give up, the old monk said that he would take him to travel outside.
Wu Daozi kept learning to draw a drop of water and a spray during his trip. It took him three years to make small achievements.
After returning to the temple, Wu Daozi stayed in the temple for nine months, and finally finished the "Pentium River and Sea Map", which made him famous.
If you don't accumulate steps, you will be thousands of miles away; If you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river.
As the saying goes, "no one can make himself knowledgeable in an instant, and no one can reach the peak sooner or later."
Indeed, we need to give ourselves time to work hard. When the time is ripe, we will be ready for progress, and success will come naturally.
Patience is the only way to succeed.
I still remember Professor Zhang once said to his students, "I'm afraid you're in a hurry."
JK Rowling waited until Harry Potter was published at the age of 32, Ma Yun founded Alibaba at the age of 35 and Morgan Freeman became famous at the age of 52.
People who have accumulated a lot of money often succeed late, while those who are eager to succeed are likely to give up halfway.
I have a high school classmate who started to do business after graduating from high school because of his good family conditions.
However, in three years, I lost millions and almost lost all my family's money.
Later, I learned that during these three years, this classmate ran dozens of businesses, and none of them could last for three months.
That is, on the road to success, he gave up and survived the cold winter and ushered in a bright future.
He also vowed to be a successful person every day, and sent some inspirational jokes or famous sayings in his circle of friends every day, but he still failed. The reason for his failure was that he was too eager for quick success and instant benefit, and immediately changed careers as soon as he saw that the business could not make money.
I remember a sentence by Victor frankl in Living the Meaning of Life: "Don't just think about success. The more you think about success, the easier it is to fail.
Success, like happiness, can be met but not sought. It is a natural product, a derivative when a person unconsciously devotes himself to a great cause, or a by-product when he contributes to others.
Happiness will always come, and so will success. It is often unintentional.
I hope all your actions will obey your conscience and use your knowledge to realize it.
One day you will find that, of course, it is quite a long time later-pay attention to what I said is a long time later! It is because of this negligence that success will come to you. "
Persistence is the only way to succeed. If you work hard, you may not succeed at once. Only by persisting and surviving, maybe success will wait for us around the corner.
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Life needs to endure, through the wind and frost of spring, summer, autumn and winter, through the ups and downs on the road of life, and finally we can usher in the beautiful time of spring.
Marriage needs patience. Through the friction in marriage, through the maturity of husband and wife and the continuous growth of children, a happy family is finally ushered in.
Success requires patience. We survived the hardships on the road to success, knocked down obstacles and monsters, and finally ushered in the peak of success.
Boiling is not only a science, but also an indestructible belief.
"Where there is a will, there is a way, cross the rubicon, 120 Qin Guan will eventually return to Chu; Hard-working people, the sky pays off, go forward bravely, and 3,000 Yue families can swallow Wu. "
May we all survive the cold winter and lead to the other side of success in a down-to-earth manner!