There are two famous sayings that have been handed down from ancient times to the present-1. Brothers should settle accounts clearly. That is to say, even if there is a debt relationship between blood brothers, the accounts should be calculated clearly. What's more, your "boyfriend" hasn't been in contact with you for a long time and doesn't know much about it. How can he be so generous?

2, you know people, but you don't know your heart. What does this sentence mean? There is no profound knowledge. You can know what it means at a glance.

In addition, there is another wise saying-no matter how good the friendship is before, as long as your friends start to borrow money from you, the nature of your friendship will change more or less. What's more, the relationship between your boyfriend and you is beyond ordinary friendship.

Furthermore, if your "boyfriend" doesn't have the determination to form a family with you, then he is unfaithful to love. So there is a philosophical saying-no matter how small the family is, it is also a big event, and no matter how big the external event is. If your "boyfriend" doesn't have the idea of forming a family with you, it's impossible to talk about how loyal he is to your love; Then it is even more important for him to borrow money from you.

to sum up, borrowing money is not a trivial matter.

Everyone has different points and angles of view, and their understanding of the problem is also different. My answer is for your reference only.