But, as Edison said, genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.
Apart from the 99% sweat that needs to be paid the day after tomorrow, that 1% inspiration will be reflected when children are young. A future can do it? Planning? Some people must be different when they were young
1. Play a dominant role in the game
If adults need a leader in things, such a leader will certainly appear when children gather.
Different from adults, the leader among children is mainly responsible for leading the group's game, that is, the child can decide the content, rules, role assignment and so on of the game.
once the child decides to leave during the game, the game is almost over. It's not that other children can't continue, but it seems that the fun will be much less, which will make the children lose their interest in continuing.
This child, who is like a leader, has initially acquired the ability to plan.
Second, be good at asking questions and solve problems logically
Perhaps many parents are bored with their children's strange questions, but every question a child asks means a possibility for the child.
Typical of them are those children who may have the ability to strategize in the future, and they will ask more questions than other children. Frequently answering these children's questions, parents will find that children not only ask questions, but also make their own logical analysis after being answered, and use their own knowledge and guesses to solve problems.
This kind of logical analysis and problem solving means that the child is likely to become a person who can strategize in the future.
Third, set up your own scene and imagine the role
When children play alone, they can best reflect the difference between children.
Some children cry for their parents after playing for a while, while others will assume a scene by themselves, assign them different roles, play games with themselves, and the parents will watch, just like the children have performed a one-man show that adults may not understand, which not only has a complete plot, but also has a clear division of roles.
This is a child who may be strategizing in the future, having fun by playing games with his own scenes.
Of course, this is based on the fact that parents often take their children out for activities and their children's psychological development is normal.
if parents find that their children are different in the process of growing up (of course, after excluding pathological differences), don't stop them easily, let alone laugh at their children because some behaviors are ridiculous to adults.
Because of these different children, they will be more likely to succeed in the future.
third, strong logic
logic is extremely important for dealing with problems, overall planning and rational layout. A person with strong logic has an advantage over others in making arrangements. When others rack their brains, he can analyze the situation as quickly as possible and make arrangements clearly.
A child's clear logic and clarity in the process of analyzing and solving problems already means that the child is closer to success and easier to succeed than others.
Fourth, the overall planning ability is stronger
The overall planning ability is essential for a leader. Only by understanding the ability of his staff and rationally distributing the layout can we maximize the benefits.
when a child can clearly arrange his friends in the game, it is the best embodiment of his overall planning ability.
Such children are more likely to become leaders and succeed in the future.
Five, the leadership consciousness and ability are stronger
In ancient times, there were Zhang Liang, Cao Cao and Zhuge Liang, and now there are countless leaders from all walks of life. To become a leader, you must have both leadership consciousness and leadership ability.
A child can dominate the game and arrange a group of peers clearly, which is the best embodiment of leadership.
children's overall planning ability, distribution planning, setting conditions, etc. in the game all mean that children are more likely to become leaders in the future than others, and it is easier for them to become what we call successful people.
Sixth, the pattern is bigger
According to the philosophical pattern, personality, bureau, is people's tolerance and mind. And when we say that a person's pattern is high, he is not only tolerant and broad-minded.
courage, wisdom, long-term vision, love, strong sense of responsibility and sense of mission are all better than others, and this person's overall pattern is reflected.
As a child, being able to plan games as a whole, analyze and solve problems logically has the potential of a big pattern, and the possibility of success in the future is greater than others. Strengthen children's comprehensive ability, so
one percent inspiration can't guarantee a genius's future. In order to avoid the recurrence of the story of Shang Zhongyong, parents will do more for their children's future after their children have demonstrated the ability of strategizing.
1. If necessary, participate in children's games
When children play alone, if parents have time to accompany their children, they may wish to ask their children to participate, for example:? You seem to be playing a game. Can I join in? .
after asking your child for advice and getting his permission, play games with your child according to the roles arranged by your child. During the game, if you find a problem that your child has not considered, parents can ask:? Can there be a better arrangement for this place? 、? What other options do I have? And so on, guide children with enlightening questions, give them time and space to think, and decide whether it is necessary to continue to guide them according to the results of their consideration.
It is necessary to remind parents not to rudely interrupt their children's games, not to pose as parents and ask their children to participate, not to rudely correct and criticize after discovering problems, and to participate in their children's games as equal friends with their children, so as to better guide their children in the game process.
2. Give children opportunities and encourage them to participate in group activities
Take children to participate in group activities organized by communities, schools and other organizations, give children opportunities to play with other children, encourage children to play with other children, and fully exercise their abilities.
Children begin to develop social awareness after the age of three. Taking children to participate in group activities can not only exercise their ability to plan, but also promote the development of their social awareness, which will be more beneficial to their future social activities. After all, in today's society, connections are also a manifestation of their ability.
It is necessary to remind parents to pay attention to the discretion of encouragement and the occasions of criticism, especially not to criticize children when there are many people. In addition, in the case of safety and security, give children the space to play freely, and don't be too restrictive. The care with hands and feet will make it difficult for children to play their abilities.
3. Provide children with learning opportunities
Travel, reading, classroom learning, etc. are all opportunities for children to learn. Reading thousands of books and traveling in Wan Li not only provide children with learning opportunities, but also pave the way for children's strategizing.
Show children more about the outside world, and give them more opportunities to read books, so that they can have a broader knowledge and a larger pattern, and the future will be brighter.
safety when going out comes first, and reading time is reasonable, which must be measured by parents. Children's abilities need to be developed, guided, encouraged by parents, and loved and patient by parents. Throw a brick to attract jade, give a little advice, but also for children to achieve better results in the future.