Everyone has self-esteem and expects to be affirmed by others or society. So when coordinating with others, we should pay attention to modesty and respect each other's personality. We should not respect others because their status is not as high as ours, their ability is not as strong as ours, and their power is not as great as ours. Disrespect for others is the easiest way to hurt others' self-esteem. This is tantamount to building a high wall between the two sides, digging a gap and creating obstacles for the cooperative system. There are three famous sayings: treat superiors as peers, treat subordinates as peers, and treat the masses as brothers.

2. Be good at helping others.

As long as it is within the scope of authority and principle, we should do everything possible to help other departments, not afraid of difficulties, difficulties, hardships and losses. In a word, we should do everything possible to think of others.

When dealing with superiors, we should first think about whether we have cooperated with the work of superiors to the maximum extent, whether we have completed various tasks assigned by leaders, and whether we have played an exemplary role in practical work.

When interacting with peers, we should first think about whether we have created the service conditions that should be provided for each other's work, whether it has caused difficulties for each other's work because of our excessive demands, and what we can do to help others complete their tasks;

When dealing with subordinates, we should first think about how to help them solve their difficulties, whether to understand their difficulties, whether to mobilize their enthusiasm and so on. Helping others is also an investment in coordinating relationships, which is bound to pay off.

3. Treat people sincerely.

Honesty is the basic quality of being a man. Everyone likes to deal with honest and decent people and make friends. Therefore, in our foreign contacts, we should be open-minded, consult others, listen to their opinions, ask others for help, don't talk too much easily, and speak responsibly. As long as you are regarded as an honest and trustworthy person, then your relationship with the outside world is harmonious, which provides good external conditions for completing the task.