? I have been alone outside for three or four years. During this period, I have made many new friends and seen some interesting or unforgettable things, which reminded me of these things and wanted to write this article. The reason for the article comes from a sentence I read some time ago

? "When you stare into the abyss, the abyss is also staring into you." It comes from Nietzsche's "Beyond Good and Evil". He The original sentence is Wer mit Ungeheuern k?mpft, mag zusehn, dass er nicht dabei zum Ungeheuer wird. Und wenn du lange in einen Abgrund blickst, blickt der Abgrund auch in dich hinein.

Fighting with the devil People should be careful not to become devils. When you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares into you.

? The first time I saw this sentence was in the hot comments on NetEase Cloud. I thought it was very interesting and profound. So I thought about it, and I savored the meaning reflected between the lines bit by bit.

? My understanding of this sentence is different from what Nietzsche wanted to express, but it is similar. Of course, I don’t think my understanding is good, it is just my personal understanding

? There are always some ups and downs in life. Just like the unforgettable things I mentioned at the beginning, they are not things that happened to me, but things I have seen or heard that I can always remember. I remember one time I was having dinner with my mother at home, and my mother asked me if I had anyone to date. Because my family had never asked me such a question, I asked my mother why she asked me this, "Your **'s child ( Because I’m a distant relative (I can’t remember who he is), I met a date outside. I lived frugally and worked part-time to buy clothes for my girl and take her to eat. We broke up a few days ago. I just saw his circle of friends. I cut my arm into a mess with a knife, with dozens of big cuts. I called your ** to ask, and he told me that he was going to die or live at home, and he was crying uncontrollably. "My mother basically said this to me. so.

? I seem to know more than one such thing. I saw such a thing when I was in junior high school. But I was young at that time and thought that the mouth of the well was the age of the sky. It is completely understandable to do such a thing. , now that I have grown up, I always feel a little scared when encountering such a thing again.

? Life lasts for decades, and a person will meet millions of people in his life. To hurt one's body because of one person's departure, in my opinion, is a bit too cheap. , the body, hair and skin are inherited from parents, and the harm to themselves is like an abyss. If you touch him once, he will focus on you. The next time he encounters similar or other things, he will come to you as soon as possible. , over time, it was swallowed by the abyss

? I remember one time, I went out to play billiards with my friends, and I met a child on the road. He was not very old, about twelve or thirteen years old. When he saw me, he He stopped and said to me, "Brother, do you have any cash? My parents are not at home and I don't have money to eat. Can you give me some cash and I will go have some food?" Because I rarely use cash and I don't have cash in it. I was used to asking him if he had a mobile phone, and I forwarded it to him. He didn’t have a mobile phone, so I rejected him. Because my friend had been waiting for a long time, I thought of calling his family to talk, but the child didn’t even have his parents’ mobile phone number. Not remembering, I asked him to go home and stop running outside and then prepared to leave.

? At this time, something happened that I never expected. He pulled me. When I looked back at him, he was on his knees. I didn’t react for a while, so I gave him a hand. A friend called and asked to take him to dinner.

? Afterwards, I have been replaying this incident in my mind all day long. There is gold under the man’s knees. This kneeling may be the beginning of countless times for him to kneel on the ground in the future. Maybe I am not the beginning. This time Kneeling is an abyss. If I ask someone for help in the future, a refusal can make him kneel on the ground. This makes me a little worried, but he has to walk his own road, and I just gave him a reminder.

? I can’t even remember how many people I have met. I can’t even count how many things I have seen. But there are always three or two things that remain fresh in my memory. There are always those three or two things that remain fresh in my memory. Man, this is a wake-up call for your life.

? Some people say that laziness is a disease, but I think that all bad habits and poor solutions to problems are diseases, and they are all difficult-to-treat diseases with lifelong sequelae.

? Technology is advancing, and there are countless things on the Internet. What we know is like a drop in the ocean, but now that you have seen it, it means that God has sounded the alarm for you. Please take responsibility for yourself.

? People who fall from the cliff basically approach the cliff on their own initiative. Those who are swallowed by the abyss all stare into the abyss for a long time.

? I am Chen Sheng. Since there are people who are carrying the burden for you and me, I wish you and me a peaceful life.