Helping others for pleasure
Selection of insights:
Helping others for pleasure is the highlight of our country’s traditional culture, and it is also the moral character of life.
Helping others is a moral behavior and moral emotion in which an upright and kind-hearted person takes the initiative to give selfless help to others with a sense of moral obligation and feels happy from it. The ancient sages of our country had many mottos about helping others and the beauty of adulthood, such as "the beauty of adulthood is the slowness of oneself", "nourishing others but despising oneself, putting others first before oneself", "it is more urgent to follow others than to be selfish", "Being compassionate to the poor, even if a penny goes up, it is a field of blessing; being happy to do good to others, even a few words are good medicine." Two thousand years ago, Mozi advocated: "Putting your feet on your head and putting your heels aside will help the world." This means that you should do things that are beneficial to others, even if you are hurt from the top of your head to your heels. This spirit has been carried forward to this day, which is the spirit of "no self-interest, exclusive benefit to others" that we advocate.
Helping others requires a spirit of selfless dedication, and it should be used throughout one's own life as a criterion for conducting oneself in the world. When encountering danger, put others first before yourself. There is a famous saying in the "Three Kingdoms Shu Shu": "Whenever there is an emergency, put others before yourself." It requires people to be fearless in the face of danger and act bravely when they see justice. This is the embodiment of the highest ideological realm of helping others. "Shishuo Xinyu" records such a story: Hua Xin and Wang Lang took a boat to escape together. On the way, he met a man who wanted to take a boat. Hua Xin felt very embarrassed. Wang Lang said: "Fortunately, there is still space on the boat. Why not allow it? We should do more good things to help others." Shortly after the man got on the boat, he heard murderous intent from behind. It turned out that the thieves were chasing him. He saw the thieves getting closer and closer to the ship. When the situation was dangerous, Wang Lang wanted to abandon the man behind him, but Hua Xin said: "The reason why I hesitated at first was precisely because I thought about this situation. Since I already understood his Please, how can you ignore the situation and do nothing to save him?" Finally, they finally rescued the man who was being chased by the thieves.
When you see someone encountering a disaster, you should exclude others’ worries. Hua Tuo, a famous doctor in ancient my country, not only had excellent medical skills, but also had noble medical ethics. His willingness to help others touched many people. Hua Tuo's practice of medicine was not like other doctors at that time, who had to seek treatment from patients. He often takes the initiative to treat patients. In order to relieve the pain of patients, he often travels thousands or hundreds of miles away to treat people's injuries. In order to relieve the pain of patients, he often travels thousands or hundreds of miles away to treat people's injuries. Once he went out to see a doctor and came back very late. On the way, he met a man squatting on the roadside, and he took the initiative to ask. A passerby said: "My stomach suddenly hurts so much that I don't want to eat anything." Hua Tuo diagnosed him on the roadside and told him: "You have worms in your stomach. You can ask for three small cups of acetic acid from a nearby shop and drink it." It will be fine if you go down." The man did as he was told, and his stomach pain was gone. When the patient wanted to thank Shi Hua Tuo, Hua Tuo left without even leaving his name. Things like this happened countless times in Hua Tuo's life, and countless patients survived through his rescue.
In the moral practice of helping others, a person will naturally sublimate his ideological and moral realm. As Leo Tolstoy said: "The less a man gives to others and the more he demands, the worse he is." The world is an exhibition. We can see from the "exhibition" of character: those who enjoy helping others in the world are not mediocre or selfish people.
To help others, we must first establish a correct optimism and regard seeking benefits for others as our obligation and happiness; secondly, we must establish a correct outlook on doing things and put ourselves in their shoes when encountering problems. Think of others; furthermore, we must establish a correct outlook on knowledge and behavior, go to the big classrooms of society to exercise and practice, and build our own good moral character through thousands of practices.
A person’s potential may vary, but with the character of helping others, he can become “a noble person, a pure person, a moral person, and a person who has escaped from vulgar tastes” , a person who benefits the people.”
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"Helping others", as the name suggests, means: helping others is happiness. While this sentence sounds, looks, and is easy to write, it is not so easy to actually do it. There are many role models who enjoy helping others, countless. If I tell everyone about Lei Feng and others, surely everyone will know it without me saying it, right? ! Then let me tell you about some of the "living Lei Feng" around us!
He is not outstanding in appearance, but he studies very well. He always faces life with a smile, always so optimistic and so humorous. He always takes the unconventional path and always does things that others would not do! He has a great personality and will greet teachers like a good friend when he meets them on the street. Seemingly getting along well with the junior students. He often helps the teachers who work in the cafeteria with serving bowls and doing this and that. This should be unprecedented in our school. When I see others encountering setbacks, I will be the first to rush forward like an arrow that has left the string. If you see a scrap of paper, you will pick it up and put it in the trash can. Some people may think he is a fool, but I think he deserves my admiration because he is different from others and has a heart that is willing to help others. (What is the antonym of easy)
If you are often in our class, you will definitely know who I am going to talk about next.
In the noisy classroom, she is always the first to help with duty. Even if it's not her day. In the unsupervised classroom where we were laughing and playing, she was the first one to stand up and admonish us. Even if she is not our class cadre. In a class where some people were so bored that they fell asleep, she was the one who listened most attentively. Even if there is some knowledge she may not understand. Although her academic performance is not the best, I am sure she is the most diligent one. He will always bear in mind the motto: "When studying literature, if you don't understand, ask!" When others encounter difficulties, he will do his best to help her or him.
There are many "living Lei Feng" like this around us in our lives and studies. They are all good examples worth learning from. Here I want to say to you: "Help is just a little effort. Perhaps because of our little effort, people will get through the difficulties smoothly and live a happy life! If you meet someone who needs help, please give him a little help. Let’s do it!
Selection of insights:
Helping others is the shining point of our traditional culture, and it is also the morality of life.
Helping others is the most important thing. It is a kind of moral behavior and moral emotion that an honest and kind person takes the initiative to help others selflessly with a sense of moral obligation, and feels happy and happy from it. Ancient Chinese sages have many mottos about helping others and the beauty of adulthood, such as. "The beauty of adulthood is the slowness of oneself", "Nobility of others but contempt of oneself, precedence of others", "The urgency of following others is more important than selfishness", "Compassion for the poor, even if you have a pennies, it is a field of blessing; joy and If a person is kind, every word or word can be good medicine." Two thousand years ago, Mozi advocated: "Modify your top and put your heels aside, and you will benefit the world. "It means that you should do things that are beneficial to others, even if you are injured from the top of your head to your heels. This spirit has been carried forward to this day, and it is the spirit of "no self-interest, exclusive benefit to others" that we advocate. < /p>
Helping others requires a spirit of selfless dedication, and it should be carried through in one's own life as a rule of conduct. When seeing others in danger, you should put others before yourself. There is a famous saying in "The Chronicles of the Three Kingdoms Shu Shu": "Whenever there is an emergency, put others first and then yourself. "It requires people to be fearless in the face of danger and act bravely when they see justice. This is the embodiment of the highest ideological realm of helping others. "Shishuo Xinyu" records such a story: Hua Xin and Wang Lang took a boat to seek refuge together. On the way, they met a person who wanted to Hua Xin felt very embarrassed to take the boat. Wang Lang said: "Fortunately, there is room on the boat, why not allow it?" We should do more good things to help others. "Shortly after this man got on the boat, he heard murderous intent behind him. It turned out that the thieves were chasing him. He saw the thieves getting closer and closer to the boat. When the situation was dangerous, Wang Lang wanted to abandon the man behind him, but Hua Xin said : "The reason why I hesitated originally was precisely because I was thinking about this situation. Now that I have understood his request, how could I do nothing to save him just because the situation was critical? "In the end, they finally rescued the man who was being chased by the thieves.
When you see someone encountering a disaster, you should put aside other people's worries. Hua Tuo, a famous doctor in ancient my country, was not only brilliant in medical skills, but also noble in medical ethics. He His willingness to help others touched many people. Unlike other doctors at that time, Hua Tuo often took the initiative to treat patients, and often traveled across mountains and rivers to relieve their pain. He went thousands or hundreds of miles away to treat people's injuries. It was already very late when he came back from a trip to see a doctor. On the way, he encountered a man squatting on the side of the road, and he took the initiative to do it. I walked up to him and asked. A passerby said, “My stomach suddenly hurts so much that I don’t want to eat anything. Hua Tuo diagnosed him on the roadside and told him: "You have worms in your stomach. You can ask for three small cups of acetic acid from a nearby shop. Drink it and you will be fine." "The man did as he was told, and sure enough his stomach pain was gone. When the patient wanted to thank Hua Tuo, Hua Tuo left without even leaving his name. Something like this happened countless times in Hua Tuo's life. , countless patients have survived through his rescue.
A person's ideological and moral realm will naturally be sublimated in the moral practice of helping others. As Leo Tolstoy said. Said: “The less a man gives to others and the more he demands, the worse he is. "The world is an exhibition. We can see from the "exhibition" of character: Those who help others in the world are not mediocre and selfish.
To help others, we must first Establish a correct optimistic attitude, and regard the welfare of others as one's own obligation and happiness; secondly, we must establish a correct outlook on doing things, and put ourselves in the shoes of others when encountering problems; thirdly, we must establish a correct outlook on knowledge and behavior, and we must go to society Exercise and practice in large classrooms, and build your own good moral character through thousands of practices.
A person's potential may vary, but with the character of helping others, he can achieve it. Become "a noble person, a pure person, a moral person, a person who is free from vulgar taste, and a person who is beneficial to the people."
<(Tu Lei’s quotations)