Then, this man, who is said to be very temperate, often makes people respect and have a good impression.
There is a saying that prosperity can be controlled and adversity can be tough; A wise man does not serve the environment with his heart, but controls the environment with his heart.
People who know how to control themselves, whether to others or to themselves, always have a proper degree and always give people a just comfort.
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Temperance is both choice and ability.
A movie star once said:
So, what is temperance?
For example, people need to eat when they are hungry. A meal can be 10% full, but actually it is only 70%. This is temperance. You can eat 10% full, but you eat 200%. This is excessive.
We often say, don't overeat, don't stay up late, and stick to exercise and fitness. These are the most direct temperament.
For diet, moderation can help us balance the needs of the body; For life, moderation can help us balance our spiritual needs.
Temperance means that when a person has luxury conditions, such as being young enough, healthy enough or rich enough, he chooses simplicity and simplicity. This is the realm of temperance and the highest realm of being a man.
Temperance is not only a choice, but also an ability.
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The more temperate you are to yourself, the freer you will be.
People who know how to control themselves know how to set boundaries and control a degree.
Temperance is a very advanced behavior and inaction, not arbitrary, but self-control.
I have read a sentence: the essence of temperance is to know yourself, meet better yourself and get purer happiness.
A person's heart, energy and physical strength are spent on things worth doing, so that life can be better controlled by himself and life can be more free.
Everything in the world follows the moderate laws of nature:
The organism of soil fertility has a time limit. If you take it in moderation and use it in moderation, you will always feel satisfied. Take it too much, use it too much, and it is often insufficient.
As the saying goes, the monthly surplus is a loss, and the water surplus is an overflow. Temperance will make people know how to cherish the life left blank, know that it is an excellent state of life that the flowers are not in full bloom and the moon is not full, and they can appreciate the more temperate and free life fun.
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For others, the more temperate it is, the easier it is.
Everyone who lives in this world is an independent individual, with his own way to go and his own independent life.
We always believe that any part of other people's life that allows you to participate is actually a part that may not be important in his life, or even just a part that he uses for recreation.
Therefore, no matter who is standing opposite us, no matter what kind of entertainment they invite, we should always keep a moderate distance.
It may be a complaint from the other party, a sincere consultation from the other party, or a show-off or provocation from the other party. Whether you are invited to participate in oral or spiritual communication, or give economic or material support in practical actions, please always keep in mind, control your curiosity, control your sense of justice and desire to explore.
You know, a person who doesn't know how to stand at a proper distance will either bring harm and excitement to others, or be used and hurt by others, which is a risk and hidden danger to himself and others.
Liu An once said: The essence of saving trouble lies in abstinence.
It's the most worry-free and the best way to get along with others.
And a person who knows how to control the distance between each other, whether psychologically or in real life, will often win the trust of others as long as he controls it properly, thus making this relationship easier.
Always know enough is enough, don't ask what you shouldn't ask, don't say what you shouldn't say, and don't participate in what you shouldn't participate in. This is a sense of security for each other.
For myself, you don't have to ask what you don't want to ask, say what you don't want to say, and ignore what you don't want to manage. This is undoubtedly a great relaxation and freedom.
The communication between people should be simple and pure, happy and win-win, so it is a great pleasure and blessing for both sides to know how to get along moderately.
There is a saying that fertile land can't be eaten three times a day, and Guangsha only sleeps on a three-foot couch, and its high status is just a drop in the ocean.
A peaceful and temperate person, no matter what situation he is in, can always keep himself, please others, make life advanced and make life meaningful.
I hope we can all become more introverted, freer and more relaxed people.