. Germination: "What's it to you to destroy you?"
This famous saying was born out of Goethe's "I love you, what does it have to do with you?" As rockett said, "I'm not interested in girls who love me, but in those I fall in love with". Both men and women may fall in love willfully: I love you, but you don't care if you love me; I won't love you because you don't love me, and I won't fall in love with you because you love me.
I love you, which is my first feeling from my heart. It is an emotional impulse, not a rational choice. It has nothing to do with you at the moment when this feeling arises.
1. Deep-rooted: "the seal of thought"
In the face of the three-body civilization, mankind will be defeated when it is hard. Sheehan secretly created the "seal of thought", planted the belief that "mankind will be defeated" in the army, and cultivated the fleeing force; Zhang Beihai is an exception. "I don't need a seal of thought, I am the master of my own beliefs".
Tang Xianzu wrote in the inscription of Peony Pavilion, "I don't know what happened, but as time goes on, the living can die, and the dead can live." In the whirlpool of love, everyone is Zhang Beihai, and everyone is the master of his own beliefs, and he has put a "love seal" on himself.
Once the seal is stamped, it will never be solved. In order to overthrow the belief that water is poisonous, Sheehan went through two months of psychotherapy.
how long does it take a person to overthrow his "love seal"?
maybe one day?
maybe all my life? I guess.
2. Hope: "Facing the wall, I am your broken wall"
"Breaking the wall" can be called the confidant of the "facing the wall" and knows his innermost thoughts.
Between civilizations, the "wall-breaker" and the "wall-breaker" are sworn enemies, such as Friedrich Taylor vs. Von Neumann and Mannur Rí diaz vs. Mozi.
In love, the "wall-breaker" and the "wall-breaker" may be a pair (Bill Sheehan and Keiko Shanshan are both sworn enemies and a pair). The ideal situation is to walk into each other's hearts, know their courage, know their cowardice, know their loftiness, know their commonness ... Unfortunately, in most cases, the "face-breaker" is intentional, but the "face-breaker" is unintentional: you are deeply attached to Ta, and although Ta has done nothing, it is already your "face-breaker", while you are "face-breaker"
3. Imagine: "part of the plan"
Love, maybe I have expectations for and hope to be needed by Ta, and Ta is "part of your plan", and there is Ta in your future plan: Where to live together? What style of household appliances and furniture does Ta like? How to name a child, or do you have the elements of two names? The world is so big, let's go and have a look, go to Ta, go where you want to go, go to Shanhai Loucheng where you all want to go ... < P > If you are also part of the Ta plan, congratulations, that would be great.
if you are not, I hope you will be in the future.
if you weren't before, you're not now, and it's nothing if it turns out that you're not after all. "Not wanting" is one of the seven sufferings of the world, which is too normal. Maybe the next one is. I guess.
4. Expression: "Natural selection advances four!"
the heart belongs, and there is no turning back.
When you meet the right person, you must seize the opportunity (even if it is not the best time), take decisive actions (not necessarily confession), show yourself and be kind to each other, just like Zhang Beihai won the control of Natural Selection, and even if the fuel is not filled up to 1%, it will go a long way!
isn't it natural for men and women to love each other? Then choose: forward four!
5. Watch: "Laugh at those who face the wall"
When you fall in love, you often giggle inexplicably. This is the biggest secret in your heart. You should not hide it for others.
I think I am deeply hidden. In fact, the geese have left marks and shattered glass, and most of the close contacts around me are well aware. Maybe they are not sure who Ta is, but they know that you have a heart, but they just don't reveal it clearly to your face. Occasionally, they will tease you by innuendo, such as "You said it was from your sister, are you sure it wasn't from someone?" "Hiding the dialog box again, chatting with someone?" "Who are you going to see when you get off work on time?" Most of the time, I look at you and smile without saying a word. Laughter is the kind of "smile to lovers" that I know you are pretending, but I don't say.
6. Empty cup: "Weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to survival, but arrogance is."
Arrogance is a preset benchmark, wishful thinking, self-righteousness, conceit or inferiority.
The arrogance of human beings is conceit, which presupposes that the fleet is stronger than the three-body, so it is taught by Shuidi to be a man.
Cheng Xin's arrogance is also conceited. Presuming that his courage can protect the peace between the two civilizations, he was taught to be a man by water drops, but he was still six water drops.
Yun Tianming's arrogance is inferiority complex. He presumes that he is not worthy of Cheng Xin, so he gives stars, euthanasia, wedding clothes for Guan Yifan and a small universe.
Weakness and ignorance are not obstacles to love, but arrogance is. Presuming that you are superior and inferior, you will be condescending and bossing around, which is not desirable; Presuming that you are inferior to Ta, you will be humble and timid, and this is not desirable.
Love needs an empty cup mentality. If we treat it equally, there should be nothing worthy of it, right? I guess.
7. End: "Burn him, use slow fire"
Death is said to be painful.
Burning to death will slow down, prolong and amplify the pain. According to scientific research, it is the most painful way to die.
burning to death with slow fire can slow down, extend and enlarge this kind of pain by n times, which is beyond measure.
In a sense, "failure in confession", "lovelorn" and perhaps "divorce" and "widowed" may be burned to death by slow fire in feelings. You will think of that moment of falling off a cliff from time to time, and think of it once, once, or completely painful, or dull pain, such as a vertebral blow, such as a needle prick … really don't think about it again, but it's not up to you.
If the heart burns in the flame, maybe it will turn to dust, maybe it will shed its scab and beat for others. I guess.
8. Dwarf: "You are bugs", "The Lord doesn't care" and "Ignoring is the greatest contempt"
Three-body civilization despises the earth civilization: "You are bugs."
The three-body organization also despises the save plan of the two wall-faced players: "The Lord doesn't care."
Yes, "Ignoring is the greatest contempt".
The dominant three-body civilization is like this.
in love, there is a legend of "licking the dog": you love Ta, treat her in every way, and show her your heart; However, Ta doesn't love you or hate you, but her eyes are too lazy to pay attention to you, and she despises you in her heart, and directly throws your heart into the dust, mud and gravel.
no matter how well you do it, it's not good for Ta; No matter how bad you do, it won't hurt Ta-in this sense, it's both "what does it matter if you love Ta" and "what does it matter if Ta destroys you".
you are a bug. Ta doesn't care, so naturally she ignores you and despises you.
why?
stay in the solar system and die in Pluto.
Or, go four miles to another star sea, as the saying goes, "There are plenty of fish in the sea"? I guess.
9.*** Student: "We are comrades."
Ye Wenjie, Evans and other members of the earth three-body organization said to each other, "We are comrades." Fight for the "cause of the Lord" for life (manual dog head).
If you and Ta can hold hands with each other, hug each other and say, "We are comrades." From then on, walk the road of life hand in hand, how happy is it?
belonging to each other and growing old together is one of the greatest happiness in life.
I wish all lovers will be well, even me.
the above
nonsense from a love layman
article/my so-called
time/January 16th, 221.