Girls who lack expressive power, please do these things crazily.

Girls who lack expressive power, please do these things crazily

The two hardest hit areas that lack expressive power

1 dare not express

The core reasons for not expressing are: lack of confidence and not knowing how to say it. I'm worried that I'll say something wrong and make others angry. I feel inferior to others, I don't know how to start, and then I dare not speak to avoid making mistakes.

First of all, one thing to be sure is that the lack of expressive power is not a problem for one person, but for many people, so don't be too hard on yourself.

And the lack of expressive power doesn't mean that you are not smart or anything, but that you are closely related to your growth environment, social experience and so on. We can see the problem, but we should never think that it is your own problem.

2 I can't speak clearly

When I have a problem, I clearly want to express one meaning, but I express another meaning. Or, my logic is very clear, but I found that others didn't understand it for a long time.

This is the problem that words fail to convey meaning and words are not focused. Similarly, these problems are not about how bad we are, but about various factors. Most importantly, you should understand that these problems can be greatly improved through study and training.

For example, if you have no key points in your speech, you can solve this problem instantly as long as you think clearly and apply the ideas of conclusion first, point-by-point discussion and summary in the golden pyramid principle.

4 tips to improve language expression

1 Read classic articles for 1 minutes

I'm afraid of making mistakes because I don't know what is right. So we must first understand what is a good language expression. Classic articles are very good learning materials because of their clear logic and accurate expression.

So, do you just need to read aloud?

Of course not. The purpose of reading aloud is to improve language expression, not to complete tasks. Therefore, after reading aloud, we should savor carefully: what kind of scene is this passage that we read aloud, what kind of emotional tendency it expresses, what meaning it expresses, and how to apply it if we encounter such a scene one day?

2 Practice in front of the mirror for 1 minutes

This little skill can improve self-confidence very well, and the operation is very simple. It can take the following two forms:

Say a few words of encouragement to yourself and affirm yourself. For example, after getting up in the morning, before going out to work, say to yourself: Good things will come today, and then smile at yourself. Maybe the good mood of the day is laid like this.

find a paragraph you like to read and recite in front of the mirror, and integrate your emotions to experience it in the process. Or find an interesting topic, and then start an impromptu speech in front of the mirror to express your thoughts.

3 Mastering two thinking models

There are routines for expression, and mastering routines can quickly improve the expressive power. The first is the pyramid thinking model, that is, the expression structure of total score is adopted when expressing. The second is the 5W1H thinking model, which is particularly easy to use.

4 pause for 5 seconds before answering the phone

Sometimes the confusion is expressed because you are too anxious to think clearly. Try to listen to others first, then wait for 5 seconds before you say what you think. In these five seconds, you can use the first point and the second point to organize what you want to express.

the key and resources to improve language expressiveness

1 the key to improve language expressiveness

A thinking clearly is the core. Ma Weiwei has a famous saying that you can only speak clearly if you think clearly. If you can't think clearly, it is impossible to make it clear. Therefore, the first core of improving expressive power is to improve logical thinking ability and think clearly.

accurate expression of b is the key. No matter how clear you think, the words don't convey your meaning, and others can't understand them. Therefore, it is necessary to train the sense of organization and hierarchy of expression, and hit the nail on the head.

C confident speech is the key. What you say is very important, and how you say it is also very important. Speaking out what you want to express confidently will be more infectious and convincing.

2 thinking model for improving logical thinking

A pyramid model

Conclusion: expressive power can be improved through training

Basis: expressive power is a synthesis of logical thinking and language expression;

logical thinking and language expression can be improved. Summary: Therefore, the expressive power can be improved. Methods Several

B5W1H models

Meaning: WHO WHERE WHEN WHAT WHY HOW Background: An incident occurred

Application model: think about the reason, place, people,

how and why the incident occurred

Grasp the key points: Based on analysis, make clear what the current key points are. Need

What action should be taken

3 TED talks and books to improve expressive power