A poem about widely accepting opinions 1. Famous aphorisms about listening to others' opinions

1, I don't want to say that your opinion is fart. Although it is true fart, we will listen to your opinion in good faith. -Putin

2. Among all customers, the one who complains to you the most is the one you need to learn most-Bill Gates.

3. Listen to others' opinions, but reserve your own judgment. Accept everyone's blame, but reserve your judgment. )-william shakespeare

3. Why should we listen to the opinions of the majority? Is it because they are more reasonable? No, because they are stronger and more powerful. pascal

4. When you meet something that can't be solved, ask your child. Children's blurted out opinions are often the most accurate and practical answers. -San Mao

Never let others drive the car of your life. You should sit firmly in the driver's seat and decide when to stop, reverse, turn, accelerate, brake and so on. Although you can refer to other people's opinions, don't go with the flow. -Kai-fu Lee "Don't get married before the age of 30"

6. You should listen to others' opinions patiently and seriously consider whether the person who accuses you is reasonable. If he is right, correct your mistake; If he loses his full-time job, ignore it. If he is someone you respect, you can point out his inaccuracies through discussion. -Leonardo da Vinci

7. Respect other people's opinions. Never say, "You are wrong." Carnegie

8. Only by accepting others' opinions with an open mind and consulting others with an open mind can we brainstorm. -Kōnosuke Matsushita

Step 2 read poetry extensively

1. Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement.

As a gentleman, we should have a strong will and never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen our self-cultivation and complete and develop our studies or careers. Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibility and talent entrusted to a gentleman by the universe. ) 2. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good.

-"Three Kingdoms" (Translation: Don't do something just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some tiny. Don't stop doing a good thing that benefits others just because it doesn't mean much. )

It's better to see the bad than the good, just like exploring the soup. When you meet a good man, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid I can't do it in the future.

Seeing evil people doing bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave at once and stay away. 4. Bowing to others and complaining is far from complaining.

The Analects of Confucius) Those who work hard and take the initiative to take the main responsibility for their mistakes are "doing their best", and forgiving others more is "blaming others less". In this case, they won't resent each other. ) 5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil.

The villain is the opposite. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman always starts from a good wish or a wish that is beneficial to others, wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, and does not look at the world coldly.

Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. The villain is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults." )

6. See Si Qi Yan, see Si Qi introspection. -"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When you see someone who has an advantage over yourself in a certain respect, you should consult with an open mind, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him; When you see that a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies. )

7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius (translation: what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster ...), don't impose it on others. )

8. Do your duty and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius (Translation: Do not hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is on the side, you should rush to do it.

Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence". 9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous. ) 10. if two people are United, their profits will be cut off; The difference between one thought and another.

-"Zhouyi" (translation: people who work together are strong enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinion, which is convincing and easy to accept. ) 1 1. The gentleman hides his weapon in his body and waits for the opportunity.

(Translation: Even if a gentleman is outstanding in talent and superb in skills, he will not show off everywhere. But to show your talents or skills when necessary. )

12. The loss is full and the income is not big. -"Shangshu" (translation: smug about what has been achieved will bring losses and disasters; Only by being modest and always aware of your own shortcomings can you benefit from it. )

13. People don't know or care, aren't they gentlemen? The Analects of Confucius) If I have achieved achievements that others don't understand, I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a gentleman's demeanor? ) 14. Keep your word and do what you want.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (translation: words must be done; Once you have determined what you want to do, you should do it resolutely and boldly. ) 15. Nothing, nothing, nothing.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (translation: tell the truth, don't guess out of thin air; Don't be arbitrary, willful and feasible; Flexible action, not rigid; Everything is not centered on "I", not self-righteous, and work hard with people around me to complete the task. ) 16. in a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one.

The Analects of Confucius (translation: three people together, one of whom must be worth learning in some way, then he can be my teacher. I choose his advantages to study, and I will take warning from his shortcomings and deficiencies. If there are, I will correct them. )

17. A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others. A gentleman always blames himself and finds faults and problems from himself.

Villains often look at others to find their own shortcomings and deficiencies. 18. an upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman is open-minded, frank and clean, and looks very comfortable and stable. The villain has too many inner desires and a heavy psychological burden, so he is often anxious, and his appearance and movements are also uneasy. He is often restless and emotionally unstable. )

19. Don't complain, don't be kind to others. The Analects of Confucius (translation: When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses objectively, and never shift the responsibility to others, which later developed into the idiom "complaining about others". )

20. Don't get angry. ) If you make a mistake, don't take it out on others and don't make it again. )

2 1. If you can't bear it, make a great plan. The Analects of Confucius (translation: things that should not be done, even if you really want to do it, but insist on not doing it, this is called "forbearance."

Small things can't be tolerated, and if you don't have patience, it will affect the overall situation and ruin major events. ) 22. The villain's mistakes must be written.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (translation: the villain will cover it. ) 23. There are too many lives that don't change.

The Analects of Confucius) If you make a mistake and don't correct it, that's the real mistake. A gentleman's business is based on truth.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman is committed to roots and roots, and "Tao" naturally arises. ) 25. A gentleman is ashamed of words but not of deeds.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman thinks that it is shameful to talk more and act less. ) 26. Look before you leap.

-"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: Do everything after repeated consideration. ) 27. many lines of injustice will be hanged.

-"Zuo Zhuan" (translation: if you do too many bad things, you will eventually bring your own destruction. ) 28. No one has made mistakes, but if they do, they can be corrected.

-"Zuo Zhuan" (Translation: Everyone may make mistakes and make hunting mistakes. As long as it is corrected, it is still the best person. ) 29. Don't hide your virtue with a brush.

-Zuo Zhuan (Translation: When evaluating a person, you can't deny his credit just because of a little mistake. If a person can do it, he will do it. People can do it in ten ways and thousands of ways.

-The Doctrine of the Mean.

3. Accept poetry with an open mind

Outside the mountain and the castle peak, the strong have their own strong hands.

I don't know how to study hard early, but I regret learning late.

Achievement is a ladder for the humble to advance and a slide for the proud to retreat.

Jefferson: Don't be humble to proud people, and don't be proud of modest people.

Mongolia: Pride falls on the threshold, and modesty travels all over the world.

Spencer: Compared with ignorant conceit, scientific conceit is only insignificant.

Jules Leonard: There may be false modesty, but there is no false pride.

Horace: Modesty is often mistaken for concealment, and silence is often mistaken for eccentricity.

Modest people often think of themselves, while proud people only criticize others.

Modest people learn to be ten years old, and proud people learn to be ten years old.

Soviet Union: Modesty is almost always in direct proportion to talent.

Chesterfield: Modesty is the bait for fishing reputation.

Zemandes: Modesty is the fortress of beauty and virtue.

Heng Fielding: Modesty is a candle that reflects advantages.

Ruth: Modesty cannot be taught, but it is innate.

Modesty is to virtue what shadow is to painting. The former makes the latter stand out.

Lei Feng: Youth is always beautiful, but true youth only belongs to those who always strive for the upper reaches, those who always forget their work and those who are always modest!

Only those who give in to themselves can stand in front of everyone, and only modest people can stand in front of everyone.

America: Lack of modesty is lack of insight.

Ease may be accompanied by inferiority, aggressiveness may be accompanied by pride, modesty may be accompanied by mediocrity, and firmness may be accompanied by arbitrariness.

Narrow-minded people often feel sorry for each other, and polite gentlemen are often modest.

Hua: False modesty can only win vulgar applause, but can't make real progress.

Jean-Paul Richter: A person remains modest after being criticized rather than praised. This is true modesty.

Britain: impassioned attack on arrogance is not a sign of modesty.

Britain: True modesty is the mother of all virtues.

Bergson: True modesty can only be the product of deep thinking about vanity.

North Korea: People with little knowledge are proud, while those with more knowledge are modest. Their knowledge is hidden in the ocean of modesty.

North Korea: Knowledge is hidden in the ocean of modesty.

Herzen: Only the strong will be modest.

Gorky: Wisdom is a gem. If you add the edge of modesty, it will be even more brilliant.

The most modest person is the most promising person.