Love is the bud of career, and career is the fruit of love. They are brothers and sisters, encouraging each other and nourishing together. Love and career are an order of magnitude. Is love more important than career or career more important than love? This question is not difficult to answer. Because a person's ideal difference and experience of life are different, the result is also very different. I admire those warriors who resolutely give up love and rush to the cause when there is a contradiction between love and career. I envy those partners whose love is ahead of the cause. In life, in public, many people will sing high-profile songs about love and career. In fact, we are all ordinary people, so there is no need to be shy in front of love and career. For most people, in general, I say that love is as important as career. Do you believe it? This is because; First, love is the gas station of career. Love is the foundation of career. If you fail in your career, you can start over. As long as people are still there, they will make a difference. But if you lose love, there is little chance to start again. Even if you can do it all over again, it is extremely difficult for you to get your original feelings back. I remember someone saying what I think is right: What's the use of losing you, even if I get the whole world? In fact, life has been in a hurry for decades, and it is really not easy to find true love. It's even harder to spend the rest of your life hand in hand with the other half. Conversely, if you choose a career and give up love, what can you get if you succeed? Can you bring your career to the end of your life? Who can share all the joy of your success with you? If so, what is the meaning of life? In fact, from the historical origin, the cause of mankind is based on the family. Without this foundation, there can be no past, present and future development of human cause. What's more, what modern people lack is often not material needs, but spiritual needs, of which love is the most important. So, if what you have now is your true love, you should cherish it! Communicate with him more, after all, love can not be maintained unilaterally, but needs to be paid without regrets! Perhaps, you can find a balance between career and love! 2. Love is the boiling point of career. Career and love are really at odds. In your career, you are unlikely to enjoy love (please pay attention to the difference between career and work. Career is dedicated to it, and you can even live an ascetic life for this goal, and you only hope to realize it one day. In this society, only individuals are allowed to achieve one kind of success. Believe it or not, this relationship is like night. The so-called love and being liked by others are not the same concept. What we call love is a two-sided emotional exchange, not a unilateral infatuation and dedication. Then, whether it is career or love, you can only choose one of the highest levels of love that you really like. However, love and career coincide at this point, that is, only by giving your all can you really gain something! Therefore, walking on two parallel lines of career and love, the intersection point of combination can only be out of reach! You don't want to sacrifice love, so basically you can't have a career (I must emphasize the concept of career again, work is not equal to career). or vice versa, Dallas to the auditorium I can also say that when you look forward to love, you don't think about your career at all. In the course of your career, you have no time to care about love at all. Therefore, they are separated from Wan Li, and the confusion in life may lie in contradictions, and nothing can escape from nature. 3. Love is the destination of career. Have you ever had a choice between love and career? I met. Once my classmate had a girlfriend who loved her very much. She was our classmate in training. Now they have been seven years, but their seven-year relationship is the result now-they broke up, not because they didn't love each other. In reality, many things can't be changed by yourself. After graduating from college, my classmate came to the north to engage in business, but his family had to take him home to teach. At first, my classmates said they would go back to find a job, but they wouldn't let me live or die. She said that even if she went back, they would not be together. Students know that this is not because she has changed. She knows that the conditions at home are not good and she can't go back. If she goes back, all hope in the family is gone. Facing the beloved person and home, this classmate hesitated. He really doesn't know what to do, because he is doing well in the company. After half a year, I was transferred to another place to do management work, and my career improved a little. It's been almost four months since he left her, and his grades are getting better and better. But his heart is empty. He doesn't know who got more now or lost more at the beginning. He knows that he is not happy now. He thinks about her every day, but what can he do? In the face of love and career, he chose a career, and he succeeded, but did he choose the right one? Because he is not happy at all, because he lost his beloved, he has unspeakable pain in his heart. Maybe someone will ask him why he can't find her now, but there are many things that can't be found after being lost. In their place, the girl got married early, she was engaged and was going to get married soon. She is doing well now, and he can't bother her any more. He can't bear to let his grief sink into pain again. Friend, you say love. Second, love is a double-edged sword in career. 1, love can make your career brilliant. Yan Ni and Carl have been friends since childhood. Yan Ni, with dark brown hair and dark blue eyes, attracted much attention in Terrell and was even chosen as the prom queen. Young Marx described himself as "a really passionate Roland" and a persistent pursuer: before Marx left Trier for Bonn, they reached a tacit understanding and formally got engaged in the summer of 1836. Judging from the customs at that time, this engagement was extremely unusual: Marx was only 18 years old, and Yan Ni was four years older than him, and their social status was somewhat different. At first, only Marx's parents and his sister Sophia (the matchmaker of two lovers) knew the secret. Yan Ni's father agreed to the marriage on March 1837. Marx's parents (at least at the beginning) were not very keen on this combination; They also had "years of unnecessary and tiresome conflicts" with Yan Ni's family. 1836 10 Marx left Taylor for Berlin to pursue Yan Ni's success (if still in a semi-secret state) and strengthen his interest in romanticism and poetry. The poems he wrote in Bonn and the autumn of 1836 were not preserved. It has the common subjectivism and strong self-appreciation of creative artists who are far away from society. Therefore, love for Yan Ni: "In the face of a treacherous world, I will relentlessly provoke a fight to make the world collapse, and it can't put out the flames by itself. At that time, I will walk on the ruins of this universe like God. Everything I say is action, and I am the creator of earthly life. " Finally, Marx finally decided that he should write a letter to the baron, indicating his intention; At the same time, I left my family a week to observe the baron's reaction when he received this letter, and asked his father to try his best to ensure the smooth acceptance of the engagement. Even after her father agreed to get engaged, Yan Ni herself was very worried. She is past the age when most girls in her class get married. Yan Ni explained her psychology: "Alas, Carl, my sadness lies in the things that will make any other girl ecstatic, that is, your beauty, touching passion, your beautiful love words and your imaginative touching works-all of which can only make me afraid and often make me feel desperate. The more I indulge in happiness, once your passionate love disappears and you become indifferent and reserved, my fate will be more terrible ... because of this, Carl, your love doesn't get what it actually wants from me: I am very grateful to it and totally obsessed with it. Therefore, I often remind you to pay attention to other things, pay attention to life, pay attention to reality, don't immerse yourself in the world of love at will, spend all your energy, forget everything else, and only look for comfort and happiness in this respect. " In this way, love inspired and achieved Marx's career. 2. Love will make your career tragic. Looking at all the books at home and abroad, there are as many tragic heroes as there are love stories, and as many lovers who have trudged up and down for more than 5,000 years. A wedding was held on the execution ground, an unprecedented wedding; Bride and groom in chains, they make life and love an eternal song. This is a true story. This is a red love song. This feat of illuminating the future will make the old history burst into tears and make the immortal soul grow flesh and blood. The story of the martyrs of Chen Tiejun and Zhou Wenyong took place in the last century. The killing and resistance between darkness and light are going on again and again. Blood has dyed the scarred land red, and in the cold air, the sky is full of blood and rain. After groaning in pain, the suffering China fell into a terrible silence, and only the cold shackles made a heavy sound. It tried to lock in the sunlight and dragged her to the death cell. Bleak wind and rain, raging dark clouds, overwhelming. How many Communist party member and revolutionaries died heroically under the enemy's guns; The head can be broken and the limbs can be broken. The wedding on the execution ground took place in that sad period. 1928 Lantern Festival, two young people leisurely walked to the execution ground. Facing the dark muzzle, they resolutely stood on the deep red land of Honghuagang. There is no sadness in their eyes, because today is their wedding. At the last moment of their lives, they walked into the "sacred palace" together without raising their glasses. They hug and kiss each other with two sincere hearts, but they can become friends with each other. They don't need a wedding March. They write loyalty with eternal love and the plasma of youth. They want to sew their wedding dresses with no regrets. They want to sow the rain in the future with lofty ideals. They want to hold people's chests with a calm smile. We will bury the dark world together. This sound is earth-shattering, and the mountains and rivers are ambitious. In this gloomy execution ground, the short wedding embraced death tightly, and their blood merged together to become a dazzling light. The heroic blood sacrifice to Xuanyuan, the glory of foliage, is immortal. Today, in the former execution ground, all love was full of flowers, and the wedding on the execution ground still shook the heroic spirit of Gan Kun, and stood up the backbone of a nation in this touching story. Love will ruin your career. In Yin Dynasty, in exchange for the queen's smile, one night, Zhou Youwang boarded the tower with his beloved princess and ordered bonfires to be lit everywhere. The neighboring prince saw it ... and then someone wrote a poem satirizing the matter of "beating the prince in the bonfire" The poem goes like this: On a fine night, Guan Chun is played in the palace, and the bonfire is in the sky for no reason. ... love can not only make men crazy and cruel, but also make women become demons! Bound by feudal ethics, ancient women in China were generally gentle and kind, but they were not absolute. Everyone has two natures of doing good and doing evil, and evil thoughts are always shown under certain conditions. Some people have concluded that men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men! This classic statement sets forth a universal truth. Counting the ancient women who killed people without blinking an eye, they all ravaged the world and ruined their careers by conquering men with authority. First of all, after Zhou Wang's death, Su Daji beheaded his wife and son and ascended the queen's throne. She also designed and manufactured famous brands and pots to eliminate dissidents with cruel hands. Set up a deer platform in the meat forest of the wine pool for its debauchery with Zhou Wang day and night; Smash the leg bones of passers-by and ignore human life. Second: Jia Nanfeng, Empress of Jinhui Emperor. Jia Nanfeng is vicious, jealous, black, ugly, lascivious and full of five poisons. Third: Lu Zhi of Emperor Gaozu. Liu Bang and Emperor Gaozu Lv Zhi were a couple in trouble. When they helped Liu Bang conquer the world, they trapped and killed Peng Yue and Han Xin, showing their ruthless ambition. Fourth: Tang Gaozong, Wu Zetian of Zhou Dynasty. In order to achieve the goal of being an emperor, she opened the way with a butcher knife, laid the foundation for her head, and killed people like hemp. In fact, once love is stained with the blood of money and politics, historical disaster will come. The four beauties headed by stone are the best explanation. Love is a symphony of career. I think affection, love and career should be the three most important themes in a person's life. If a person (she) can taste the joys and sorrows of the three themes in his (her) life and get gratifying results, then this person will not waste his (her) life, and his (her) life is very meaningful and valuable. Not only the heart, but also the action. It is your parents who gave you the most precious life and a chance to live. Relatives, including brothers and sisters, relatives and friends, teachers and classmates, all love each other and help each other. Love needs loyalty and dedication. It is the great fate of life and the sacred fate, so we should cherish it. Turgenev once said, "Love." It can also push life forward. "The cause should be able to make due contributions to our human beings, our motherland, our society and our people, even if the contribution is small and insignificant, because a person is a tiny molecule in this universe. Because of the melody of love, love and career collide. Lu You and Tang Wan are childhood cousins. They are talented, affectionate, and affectionate after marriage. However, under the oppression of feudal ethics, Lu Mu was finally forced to divorce and get married respectively. One day ten years later, Lu You visited Shenyuan and met Tang Wan by chance. Both of them are very sad. Lu You wrote a poem "Hairpin Phoenix" sentimentally on the wall: red crisp hands, rattan wine, spring willow in the city; Dongfeng evil, with a faint sense of joy, has been sad for several years, wrong, wrong, wrong. Spring is the same, people are empty and thin, and tears are red and weak; Peach blossom falls, idle pool pavilion, although the mountain alliance is there, it is difficult to hold books, mo, mo, mo. Everyone is most familiar with Yang Yuhuan, that is, Yang Guifei. " But grace cannot be hidden, once on the emperor's side. If she just turned her head and smiled, there were a hundred spells, and the powder and paint of six palaces disappeared without a trace. "The beauty of Yang Yuhuan is estimated to be irresistible to anyone. Because of her beauty, "the spring is at first, and the day is soaring. Since then, the emperor has given up his early hearing. "There is also an epic love symphony: 1 Liu Yongfeng Wuqi's belt gradually widened and he didn't regret it, which made people haggard for Iraq. 2 Drumming "The Book of Songs" is rich in life and death, and it is said with Zicheng. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. 3 Qin Guan's love affair will last for a long time. How did Xi Murong let you meet me? At my best moment, I prayed for this in front of the Buddha for 500 years, begging him to let us have a dusty relationship. 5 Liang Qichao's bamboo calligraphy poem "Acacia under the Tree" in Taiwan Province Province said that he missed it, but Silang hated Mandy. 6 Gong Zizhen's poems are not heartless, but turn into spring mud to protect flowers. The seven pictures of the first Millennium are not old, and it is difficult to get rid of love. The heart is like a double screen with a Qian Qian knot in it. One of Huang Jingren's two poems is like this star. It was not last night, and the wind and dew stood at midnight for it. Li Shangyin's Six Untitled Songs (No.3) I know that this love will not have any result, but it can soothe my heart! . 10 Li Shangyin visited Qujiang alone in late autumn, knowing that he had been lovesick for a long time, and was disappointed with the sound of Wangjiangtou River. 1 1 nalanxingde broke the love of Huanxisha people and turned thin. Now it's really heartless. 12 Li Shangyin's golden harp and a moment that should last forever came and went unconsciously. 13 lovesickness one-night stand in Yanzilou is not long. 14 Yuan Haowen fished. One of them asked what the world is like and taught life and death. 15 Li Shangyin untitled Although my body does not have bright phoenix wings, I can feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn. 16 Bai Juyi's everlasting regret; One day both will end, and this endless sadness will last forever. 18 Cao Xueqin's eyebrows and eyes are vain. One is Xianpa in Yuen Long, and the other is flawless jade. If there is no strange fate, I will meet him again in this life; 19 Bai Juyi's "Song of Eternal Sorrow" We hope that two birds will become one, fly in the sky, live and grow together on the earth, and have two branches in one tree ... 20 Li Shangyin's untitled spring silkworms will weave until they die, and candles will cry out the wick every night. Because love is the gas station of career, the flame of harmony between love and career is full of color; Because love is a double-edged sword of career, both love and career are hard to give up; Because love is a symphony of career, love and career merge and collide. We are not great men, let us say a word to the world with the feelings of ordinary people; I believe that love is as important as career.