As the saying goes, illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth. From ancient times to the present, it is not uncommon for people to suffer because of their wit or carelessness. There are three things that should not be completely revealed to anyone: first, my feelings, second, complaining about my colleagues' opinions, and third, my secrets. These three things can easily bring disaster to yourself, so you'd better be careful.

The first is about your feelings. Throughout the ages, many people have been persecuted because of emotional things, such as Princess Gaoyang and the monk who argued the machine, and all ended in tragedy. Emotional things are like drinking water, and you know it very well. When talking to friends, you should also master an appropriate degree. Don't dump too much negative emotions and pain on your friends, especially in front of feelings. Everyone may have different opinions. It's best not to impose your ideas on others.

Secondly, there are some opinions and dissatisfaction with colleagues who have an affair with * * *. There is no airtight wall in the world. There is a cloud in "Zhuangzi Stole Foot": "Shake your lips and drum your tongue, and make trouble." This means that if you speak too fast for a while, it is easy to get into trouble. At work, we will inevitably have some opinions about other colleagues, and we may not be able to ask them because of our level. At this time, many people will choose to talk to their friends, but this kind of talk should also be controlled to a certain extent. Don't name names or go too far, otherwise once it reaches the ears of colleagues, it will easily cause trouble for yourself.

In addition, you can't completely expose your secrets. Everyone has some skeletons in his closet. But many secrets, we'd better rot in our stomachs. Once these secrets are revealed to others, they are likely to attract endless troubles. Therefore, we must try our best to keep a secret.