Use your spare time to find a favorite sideline outside your own industry, and find more if possible. The more sideline businesses, the bigger the circle of friends and the more spiritual pleasure.
3. Remembering other people's names and then calling them out easily is equivalent to giving others a clever and effective compliment.
The trick of communicating with others is to talk about the happiest things of others.
Today is life-the only life you really have. Make the most of today! Arouse interest in sth! Cheer up! Cultivate a hobby. Let real passion sweep you. Make today interesting!
There is a saying in the world that "time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.
7. Personally, I think it is important to make friends. In the final analysis, it is actually the ability to appreciate the advantages of others.
8. Don't hold a grudge. Don't be afraid to give in when you are in trouble. Villains always insist on their own opinions to safeguard their dignity. People who are willing to take the initiative to reach out and talk to others, admit their mistakes and propose to start over are all open-minded people.
9. The deepest driving force in human nature is the importance of hope. Treat others as you want them to treat you.
10, if you want to be a good talker, be a greeting listener first.
1 1. Everyone in the world is looking for happiness, but there is only one really effective way, and that is to control their own thoughts. Happiness does not depend on external conditions, but depends on internal conditions.
12, if you want to make friends, remember them first! If you remember my name, it is equivalent to giving me a compliment, indicating that I have left an impression in your heart. You remember my name, which makes me feel important.
13. If you want to make friends, you must first do something for others-things that require time, effort, consideration and dedication.
14, showing respect for other people's opinions. Never say, "You are wrong."
15, today is too precious to be eroded by bitter worries and bitter regrets. Lift your chin and let your mind shine, like a mountain spring jumping in the spring. Seize today, and it will never come back.
16, a simple, obvious and most important way to get a good impression is to remember other people's names and make them feel important.
17, seize the present, don't lament the past, let alone worry about the future.
18, sporadic time, if used flexibly, can become a complete time. The so-called "mountains are all piled up" is true. It is easy to lose a day, and there is no way to recover it.
19, if you want to improve yourself, you must work hard and pay extra. At that time, it may not be a pleasant thing, or even an arduous job, but in the long run, it is bound to gain something.
20, a person's success, just because of his professional skills, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and his ability to act.
2 1. If you can give up three points on the road of life, you can broaden your horizons, eliminate all difficulties and remove all entanglements.
22. If you can bravely admit your mistakes, you will certainly benefit from them. Because admitting mistakes can not only win the respect of others, but also increase your self-esteem.
My motto is: first of all, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, concentrate on your work.
24. Three quarters of the people you meet tomorrow are eager to be pitied. Give them sympathy and they will love you for it.
25. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that need time, energy, consideration and dedication.
26. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never achieve great things.
27. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that need time, energy, consideration and dedication.
28. Are you worried? Walking is the best medicine. Take a walk with your troubles, they will probably fly away!
29. A cheerful businessman should have two advantages besides cautious habits: agility and not following the crowd.
30.take a risk! Life is an adventure, and the most successful people are those who dare to try. AXA can't sail offshore.
3 1, judgment plus ambition, vitality as seasoning, this is a successful and exquisite recipe.
32. Try to work in a comfortable environment. Remember, physical stress can cause shoulder pain and mental fatigue.
If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others-things that require time, effort and dedication.
34. Private property, the law of wealth accumulation and the law of competition are all the highest achievements of human experience, and they are also the soil that has produced the best fruits in society so far.
If we have accepted the worst, we have nothing to lose.
36. Don't run away from the seemingly huge blow. You will be surprised to find that fear is disappearing.
Don't forget that happiness doesn't depend on who you are or what you have. It comes entirely from your thoughts. Your future depends largely on what you think today. So, fill your heart with hope, confidence, true love and successful thoughts.
38. We all have abilities and opportunities that we don't know, and we are all likely to do things that we never dreamed of.
39. So remember, if you don't get a position through hard work or through grades, then you can't keep your reputation and it has no real value.
40. My motto is: first of all, honesty; Second, diligence; Third, specialization.
4 1. People who are willing to take responsibility are more likely to stand out than others, no matter where they are. Open your arms and meet your responsibilities! Responsible for small things, responsible for big things, success must belong to you.
42. You are young when you have faith, and you are old when you are confused; Self-confidence is young, fear is ancient; Hope is young, despair is ancient; Years may wrinkle your skin, but to give up enthusiasm will hurt your soul.
43. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% must be tolerant of interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills, and communicative skills that are good at dealing with interpersonal relationships are soft skills.
44. It is easy to make the world happier. Why? Just say a few words of sincere thanks to lonely and discouraged people. Although you may forget what you said today tomorrow, the receiver may cherish his life.
45. Nothing consumes energy more than hatred, and even pain, illness and legitimate troubles are far behind. Therefore, once hatred sneaks into our hearts, we should immediately replace it with joyful thoughts, and save the precious energy that God has given us and use it for valuable things.
46. When a person changes from himself, he is no longer an ordinary person.
47. Life is like a stage. If you just describe one thing, you can't move people's hearts.
48. Analyze the past mistakes calmly, try to benefit from them, and then forget about them. This is the only way to make the past constructive.
49. Besides work, find a sideline that you like as a psychological and spiritual remedy.
50. Do you know what is the most important characteristic of human beings? Not executive ability, great mind, kindness, courage or sense of humor, although these are all important.
5 1. To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, look natural and smile, so that others will feel like you.
52. In order to live successfully, young people must learn to stand on their own feet, remove the obstacles lying in wait everywhere, and bring him up at home so that he can have an independent personality recognized by people.
53. As long as you "pretend" to be interested in work, it is possible to arouse your real interest and reduce your burnout, tension and anxiety.
54. Most of us are either worried about yesterday or tomorrow, but refuse to make good use of today!
55. Real reading awakens the sleepy and chooses the right target for the hesitant. Appropriate books guide people to the right path and prevent them from going astray.
56. Actions speak louder than words. Smiling at people means showing people: "I like you, you make me happy, and I like to see you."
57. You may understand the essence of human life-people who do wrong will only blame others and never blame themselves.
A lazy mind is more dangerous than a lazy brother or sister. Moreover, it is more difficult to cure lazy psychology than lazy brother and sister. Because we are doing a job that we don't want to be unhappy, all parts of our bodies feel uneasy and bored. On the other hand, if you are interested in this kind of work and are happy, then your work efficiency is not only high, but also you feel comfortable both physically and mentally. Doctors call it laziness, which is caused by improper labor and mental depression.
59. It is "ambition" to move towards a certain goal, and never stop "gas" in the middle of high spirits. Together, the two are "ambitions." This is the success or failure of all undertakings.
60. The biggest difference between winners and losers is that winners will try to benefit from failure and then try other methods.
6 1. If you want to cultivate courage, do what you are more afraid of until you have accumulated many successful experiences. This is the fastest and most effective way to overcome fear at present.
62. Don't be unwilling to try your best because you think things are trivial. Accomplishing anything can make people stronger. If you can do the little things well, there will be no problem with the big things.
63. Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and external skills. Soft and hard are relative. Professional skills are hard skills and interpersonal skills are soft skills.
64, can make a person laugh, you have paved the way for friendship with him. People who laugh with you like you more or less.
65. If you are overwhelmed by sadness, misfortune and disaster, get busy quickly and don't give your hands and heart free time. This is the most effective method.
66. It is of course dangerous for a ship to sail in stormy waves, but it is inevitable for the helmsman to cross the ocean and board the other shore as long as he is good at coping with it. The same is true of a young man's employment, which is full of difficulties. You must deal with it calmly, break down the obstacles and you will find your own way. You know, God will never let you down, unless you are afraid of difficulties and have no perseverance to deal with them, you will be defeated.
It is strange that when happiness is in sight, we seldom cherish it, and we don't realize it until it disappears.
68. People who are always critical, even the fiercest critics, will soften and give in before a patient and compassionate audience.
69. As long as you forget yourself, you can be natural, and you don't have to worry about giving others any impression!
70. A person who works hard on the road of struggle, if he doesn't divide the steps clearly, is equivalent to traveling to a place, without specifying his sleep and itinerary first. It is important to distinguish the steps.
7 1, "secular time is money", so thieves who steal other people's time will of course be punished, even those happy good people should avoid it like taboo diseases.
72. If you want others to like you, if you want others to be interested in you, you should pay attention to one thing: talk about things that others are interested in.
73. If you want to be happy, don't think about whether others will be grateful. We give only to enjoy the pleasure of giving.
74. If you show "as if" you are interested in your work, this performance will make your interest real and reduce your fatigue, tension and worry.
75. Today is so precious that it is not worth wasting for painful troubles and regrets. Keep your chin up and keep an open mind, just like the sparkling water in spring. Seize today, because it is gone forever.
76. Most people can't remember other people's names just because they don't have the necessary effort and energy to remember them. They make excuses for themselves: they are too busy.
77. The best way to forgive the enemy and leave it behind is to turn to thinking beyond us. When we are obsessed with the pursuit of ideals, all other humiliations are nothing.
As long as you are really interested in people, you will make many friends in two months, which is definitely more than you want to attract others' attention in two years. In other words, another way to make friends is to make friends with others first.
79. Actions seem to follow your heart, but they are not. Action and emotion are parallel. We can make actions that are directly controlled by the will regular, or indirectly make actions that are not directly controlled by the will regular.
80. The first secret of successful interpersonal communication is: ask the other person for help; The second secret: praise others sincerely; The third secret: try to meet the needs of others.
8 1, we often have many opportunities, but because we are not prepared, we seldom find these opportunities. Pay attention to the opportunities around you.
As long as you don't think it is impossible, you won't be defeated.
83. A person who doesn't pay attention to small things will never succeed in big things.
84. Caring for others, like other interpersonal relationships, must be based on sincerity. This should be true not only for those who care, but also for those who accept care.
As long as you are sure that what you are doing is right, don't let anything hold you back. All the great achievements in the world are the result of the struggle against the impossible. Whatever the difficulties, it is important to finish the work.
86. As long as you make up your mind, you can certainly overcome any fear. Remember, fear only exists in people's hearts.
87. In real life, some people have communication barriers because they don't understand and forget an important principle: making others feel important.
88. One of the most effective ways to win friendship and influence others is to take others' ideas seriously and make them feel important.
89. When the opportunity is presented to you, if you can firmly grasp it, nine times out of ten you will succeed, and those who overcome the accident and find opportunities for themselves will win 100%.
90. Have you ever seen an unhappy horse? Or a sad bird? They have no worries, because they don't have to show off in front of their peers.