"What a person cannot hide is not just poverty and cough, but also talent." This is the sentence Dr. Lin used to persuade Xiong Dun in "Born to the Sun", hoping that she would start over for her dream. talk.

Unintentionally, the three factors mentioned in this sentence reveal the reality that many people are "self-trapped" in life.

-About Poverty-

Look down on one’s own family background, do not want to talk about one’s family in front of others, and do not want to admit that one was born into poverty. This is what many people in high-end office buildings wear decently. , a "common problem" of elegant people.

Many of them, women like to talk to others about various high-priced skin care products, various exquisite jewelry, luxurious travel, and the rich friends or boyfriends some people have made.

Even if what others are talking about is something that I don’t know or own, I always like to pretend and make far-fetched impressions without pretending to understand. It seems that admitting one's ignorance is a huge embarrassment?

In fact, many people saw such superficial exchanges. Those disguises that have not been exposed are just a tacit understanding of how to get along with each other.

And what about men? There is always self-esteem that cannot be put away and face that cannot be lost. It seems that as long as people see the family behind him through his suits and ties, he will collapse weakly in this glamorous environment.

Even though they only have a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, they still rush to pay the bill every time they have dinner with others. When giving gifts, you can never get them if they are cheap; when you go out to do errands, you have to spend a lot of "wasted money" for the sake of convenience and speed.

In this reality, instead of facing poverty, they are more willing to enjoy convenience, accept smiles from others, and use countless overdrafts, lies and show off to maintain their dignity.

But in fact, such people live too tiredly. For the sake of their own dignity, to make themselves appear to be in line with the work environment, and to prevent others from looking down upon them, their lives have lost their own color. In a daze, it became a turbulent flow that blindly followed and echoed, losing its own foundation and warmth.

-About cough-

Regarding the current working status of young people, there is a sentence that reveals the current situation of many people: "Young people exchange health for money, and old people exchange money for health." ”

Some people always say that if you don’t work hard while you are young now, are you still waiting to continue traveling around when you are old?

Some people also think that if young people don’t work overtime, stay up late, and don’t drink and socialize, what is work and hard work?

I don’t know when it started. A “worker” who works nine to six, gets off work on time, doesn’t drink, and doesn’t follow people around has become the most unprofessional example in the workplace.

When people are young, if they want to make money and live a better life tomorrow, they only have to trade their bodies. Is this an option?

My friend Zhang Mei once worked in an entrepreneurial company. She was dumbfounded on the first day she entered the company.

Almost all colleagues stay up late. Many of them have various health products and tonics piled on their desks. To use a very fashionable phrase these days, it’s “stay up the longest night, work the longest shifts, and use the money you earn to buy the most expensive health care products.”

For such a company that fully promotes overtime without corresponding compensation, I am very fortunate that my friend finally chose to leave. But her departure was not a glorious one for the company.

Because her resignation was regarded by the company as a typical example of lazy employees who were unable to endure hardships and refused to work hard, and it spread throughout the company.

In fact, who said youth is your capital? Shouldn't a person's capital be his own ability, knowledge and quality? Those who regard physical loss as the necessary price to realize their dreams may not be able to grasp it even if they finally touch the tail of their dreams.

-About Talent-

Xiong Dun in "Born to the Sun", due to the double blow of work and love, she gave up her comic dream midway. Being denied and ridiculed by the people and environment that she once loved, trusted, and desired most, she once chose to escape.

People, even if they have extremely firm dreams in their hearts, are often unable to be affected by external personnel and affairs. I always feel that when others say "you can't do it", I will be discouraged.

In fact, this is just a reminder to those who grow up in an environment where they are not recognized and are always full of criticism and denial: as long as you still want it, you will work hard to catch up. , it must be bright.

Don’t be surrounded by other people’s spit, and don’t let your dreams be easily labeled by others. Your dreams are always in your own hands.

Perhaps in order to live, you must first do something else to make a living, and in order to do other more important things, the focus of your life must first shift.

Just like the "Super Girl" (Super Girl) Huang Yali who loves to sing and has music dreams, but has to do other jobs first for reality. It is precisely because of her persistence in music along the way that she has achieved great success in other jobs despite her dream of singing.

A person's talent and ability cannot be easily defeated by one or two words of negation from others. Those corresponding dreams also need to be determined and confident in order to bloom most beautifully.

As Dr. Lin said, poverty, cough and talent are indeed the things that people cannot hide the most.

In reality, when you live more and more transparently, you will find that those places that you once thought were well hidden have actually been exposed to life for a long time.

You are the only one who is still pretentiously maintaining your fragile dignity.

People still have to learn to face it, admit the truth, and dare to persevere, in order to usher in true happiness.

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