Then stop fighting. I don't like making phone calls, so I can understand her. I will contact her when I want to ask her out. If I really miss her sometimes, I can try sending her a message. Don't think too much, sometimes the more you think, the more unnatural you get along with. Emotions are sometimes cultivated slowly. As she gets to know the real you better, she will feel more about you. I think everyone has his own advantages and personal charm. As long as you are the real you in front of her and show her your most sincere and natural side, she will have a better impression of you. Another point is self-confidence. Personality charm will increase a lot at once, which will make people feel that you are reborn and charming at once, so you should have confidence in yourself when you get along with her, always keep a confident smile, and believe that you are not worse than others and deserve her!