Ways to improve eloquence 1. Pay attention to tone and speed when talking to strangers, and don't talk too fast, just like pouring beans into a bucket with a gun; Not too high or too low, like a mosquito. If you are not a fellow villager, speak in Mandarin. Never swear when talking, every move, elegant and temperament, giving a good impression. 2. Don't talk about privacy. Because you are talking to a stranger, this is your first communication. So the topic of your conversation should be relatively relaxed, and don't involve each other's privacy, such as your monthly salary, whether you are married or not, and so on. If these topics inevitably involve these topics in your conversation, you can't ask questions directly, but ask them tactfully by beating around the bush. Being good at interacting with strangers is different from being good friends. Therefore, we must be careful not to talk to each other blindly, but to talk to each other. Be good at giving the other party the right to speak with imperative sentences, such as: "I think this matter … what do you think?" This naturally gives the right to speak to the other party. Through the process of interaction, we can understand each other's views and opinions on some things and find the next topic.

First of all, we must know the standard of good eloquence-Wen Ruohe's training experience is good eloquence. First of all, we should dare to speak. No matter what occasion, we are not nervous when we speak, and we can say whatever we want or want to say. Secondly, the content of the speech should be true, the logic should be clear, persuasive, infectious and literary; Similarly, we should be able to listen. There is a saying in China that listening is better than speaking, which shows the importance of listening in interpersonal communication. Fourth, good eloquence also needs good memory. We usually see a short story, a good poem and a famous saying, so we must have a good memory, write them down and use them when we speak, so as to make our speech level; Fifth, good eloquence should also have good thinking, because language is the shell of thinking, and you can only say what you think. Therefore, practicing eloquence requires practicing thinking. Eloquence is a skill, not learned, but practiced, not learned, right? Knowledge reserve, speaking style, organization and logic ... all need practice. Theoretically, you can look at porcelain buttons. Com, and in video, you can watch more host programs and talk shows, be good at summarizing and analyzing, and absorb nutrition. . Books: The eloquence guide I want most is mainly about the accumulation of knowledge, and I insist on the famous sayings, buzzwords, ancient poems, jokes and short stories used in my speech. As long as you master the content of this book, you will have something to say anyway. Yan Yongping's Dialogue with the World: This book is the teaching material of many eloquence training institutions. It is very theoretical, and there are many practical methods: the framework of the speech, how to construct the theme, how to start and how to end, the speech is orderly, eloquent, well-founded, and interesting ... Simple eloquence training method reads newspapers 1-2 hours a day. Requirements-this is to practice pronunciation and pronunciation. Read it aloud. After a long time, someone will praise you for being magnetic! 2. Remember the central idea of what you read; This is to enrich knowledge and show it when chatting with people. Rich in knowledge, you can talk about anything! 3. Analyze the sentences in the content and remember the classic sentences. -That's the most important thing. You are the one with outstanding writing style in the future! 4. Give me all the main points. I told you all my ancestral secrets! Hehe ~ ~ You can participate in eloquence training appropriately, and choose four criteria for eloquence training: the effect of the theoretical system of famous teachers depends on the teachers trained first. Whether the training teacher is authoritative and experienced in the industry, and whether the teacher's style suits you. Secondly, see if you have your own theoretical system and whether it is scientific. We know that only through the practice guided by the scientific theoretical system can we get twice the result with half the effort. See if we can teach in small classes again. Eloquence is a skill. The more people there are, the less opportunities there are for everyone to go on stage. Only small class teaching can ensure the effect. According to our experience, the best effect is within 20 people. Fourth, see if the effect is significant. what do you think? Look at the videos of the students they trained in the past, see their progress and listen to their comments. Then listen to the answer level of the course consultant. Collect the pleasantries of various scenes, collect the pleasantries of various scenes and use them flexibly. If you are sure what to say in different scenes and different time periods, then there is no problem. As long as you start talking, you can continue to look for the next topic in the conversation. Thinking ability If you want the other person to follow you, then you must have a unique opinion on this topic, give the other person a sense of authority, speak in an orderly way, and learn to use all kinds of thinking to show your ability: questioning thinking, negative thinking, comparative thinking and image thinking. ...

Self-confidence is the first step to having a good eloquence. The smell of wine is afraid of the depth of the alley, but it's a skill, but you can't go from obscurity to being a hero behind the scenes, and you can't cook jiaozi in a teapot. Many times, people don't really lack opportunities, but "keep their mouths shut" in front of opportunities, which often brings good luck and regret. However, most people are not born to dare to speak freely in public. They had a hard first time. It can be seen that if you want to practice first-class eloquence, you must first get through the psychological barrier and start from exercising your strong heart. An effective and simple way is to give full play to your strengths and win the appreciation and respect of people around you. We should have the mentality of throwing caution to the wind, constantly encourage ourselves, let go of ourselves, and build and enhance our self-confidence. Two-thirds of good eloquence is practiced. No one is a born speaker. The most famous orators in the world improve their speaking ability by accumulating training. Here are some suggestions. As long as you keep practicing, you will definitely become a "golden eloquence." 1) Practice in front of the mirror. When you are quiet, read aloud in front of the mirror. Read some articles aloud every day and constantly adjust your eyes, expressions and body language in front of the mirror according to the contents of the articles. It can not only make your speech clear, but also accumulate a lot of knowledge and information, feel whether your expression is consistent with what you say, and make you look more attractive. 2) improvisation. In your spare time, take a newspaper or a book, turn to a paragraph at will, and then try to read it all at once. In the process of reading aloud, try your best to do it. Read the manuscript in the first half, and leave the manuscript in the second half to look forward. In this way, after a long time, you will find that your memory, quick understanding ability and improvisation ability have been strengthened unconsciously. 3) Speak in public. Seize every opportunity to do this exercise, such as attending speech clubs, homecoming, company mobilization meetings and so on. You can read the manuscript or PPT at first, but try not to let your speech deviate from the manuscript, and constantly improve your speech skills and expression ability.

Read aloud what you are reading. Read it aloud. Reading some articles every day can not only practice oral fluency, but also accumulate some knowledge and information. More importantly, it is of great benefit to the body, clearing the throat and expanding the chest, absorbing the qi of heaven and earth, and becoming a noble body! Read more positive articles, especially the greatest salesman in the world. We strongly recommend that you read them through. Read aloud for more than half an hour every day for two or three years. ? Training in the mirror suggests that you install a big mirror on the wall of the living room or office. Every day, in the process of reading aloud, you should train in front of the mirror, train your eyes, train your expressions and train your body language, so that the effect is better. 3. If possible, record and video by yourself. I suggest you take photos of your voice and speech every other week, observe and study repeatedly, and study repeatedly where I am stuck, where my gestures are not in place and where my expression is unnatural. Over time, your eloquence will naturally improve rapidly. Looking at your camera once is better than going on stage ten times and twenty times. 4. Try to lie down and read aloud. If you want to practice first-class luck skills and first-class singing skills, I will teach you a very simple method: lie down and read aloud! When we lie down, it must be abdominal breathing, and abdominal breathing is the best way to practice vocal qi. Read aloud in bed for ten minutes before going to bed every day. Before getting up every day, lie in bed and sing a song before getting up. In another month or two, you will feel that you are breathing smoothly, your voice is loud, your sound quality is beautiful, and you are more penetrating and magnetic! 5. Speed reading training The purpose of this training is to train people to pronounce clearly, accurately and clearly. Methods: Find a speech or a beautifully worded essay. First bring a dictionary and dictionary, find out the words or phrases you don't know or understand in the article, find out, find out, and then start reading aloud. Generally speaking, when you start reading aloud, you start reading slowly, step by step, read faster every time, and finally reach the fastest speed you can reach. Don't pause when reading aloud, pronounce accurately, enunciate clearly, and try to pronounce completely. Because if you don't pronounce every sound completely, then if you speed up again, others can't hear you clearly, and it will soon lose its meaning. Our speaking speed must be based on clear articulation and neat pronunciation. We all heard the explanation of sports commentator Song Shixiong, and his explanation was very quick. Song Shixiong's explanation of "fast" is not as fast as chaos. Every word and every sound is clear and accurate, without ambiguity. We hope to achieve fast, that is, he is fast, articulate and accurate in pronunciation, not for fast and fast. 6. Improvised reading When you are free, you can just pick up a newspaper, turn to a paragraph at will, and then try to read it all at once. And in the process of reading aloud, you can pay attention to the first half and the second half (assuming there is an audience in front). In the past, you found that your memory has improved a lot, and your ability to understand quickly and improvise has also improved. 7. Reciting doesn't just require you to recite a speech or essay, even if you have finished the task. What we require is "back" and "back". This kind of training has two purposes: one is to cultivate memory ability, and the other is to cultivate oral expression ability. Try to recite some articles and read them one by one. Over time, the words of those articles will naturally become their own words, and after a certain period of practice, they can be said. The so-called: read 300 Tang poems, and you can recite them unconsciously! 8. Retelling Retelling simply means repeating what others have said. You can find a partner to train with. First of all, ask the other person to talk about a topic or a story casually. Listen to yourself first. Then repeat it to each other. This kind of practice is to exercise language coherence, improvisation and language organization. It would be better if we could repeat it in front of everyone. It can also exercise your courage and overcome your nervousness. 9. Imitation method Each of us will imitate from an early age, imitate adults to do things and imitate adults to speak. In fact, the process of imitation is also a process of learning. When we were young, we learned to speak by learning and imitating our father, mother and people around us. Then we can practice our eloquence by imitating other people who have expertise in this field. In this way, over time, our oral expression ability can be improved. 10. When the descriptive method was small, we all learned to speak by looking at pictures. The description method is similar to this kind of talking by looking at pictures, except that we need to look at not only the pictures in books, but also some scenes, events, things and people in life, which requires more things than talking by looking at pictures. Simply put, description is to express the scenery, things, things and people you see in descriptive language. Descriptive method can be said to go further than the above training method. There are no ready-made speeches, essays, poems, etc. As your practice materials, but you need to organize your own language to describe them. Therefore, the main purpose of description training is to train students' language organization ability and language organization ability. When describing, we should be able to grasp the characteristics to describe. The language should be clear and easy to understand, and have a certain literary talent. Be sure to use descriptive language and be as lively as possible. This can train us to accumulate the application ability of kind words. 1 1. Role-playing method In our training process, students are often required to play roles and organize role language to speak. This is the so-called "scenario simulation training method". For example, playing a lawyer, the mayor answering reporters' questions, leading a mobilization meeting, and the bride and groom speaking impromptu. You can also choose role-playing in the sketch so that students can play different roles directly in the sketch. Of course, this play is mainly about language. The purpose of this kind of training is to cultivate people's language adaptability, personality and appropriate expressions and movements. 12. Storytelling Our eloquence training requires students to tell stories above 100, tell different stories at different times, and come up with stories suitable for the occasion on the spot. This requires us to accumulate a lot of material. At the same time, you must speak beautifully and wonderfully. Practice makes perfect. Say more eloquence and you will come! 13. To accumulate knowledge, just look through dictionaries and idiom dictionaries. I suggest that you prepare a Xinhua dictionary and a dictionary of modern Chinese idioms at your desk and at home. When you have time, browse them. Look at the words you don't know, and look at the words you know carefully. You will find that Chinese characters are extensive and profound. Stick to it, your vocabulary will increase and your eloquence will naturally get better and better! 14. Interested in eloquence is the best teacher. When you focus on eloquence training, you will inevitably pay attention to eloquence skills in your daily life and work. Where is the interest, where is the focus; Where is the focus, where is the knowledge! This method is progressing faster. Even watching TV, you are paying attention to the beauty of lines, communication etiquette and humorous smile, and you will make rapid progress! 15. Keeping a diary is the best way to keep a diary in inner communication. Write 1000 words every day. Not only can you sort out your thoughts, reflect on the progress and shortcomings of the day, sort out your emotions and release some unhappiness, but you can also learn to choose words and make sentences. Over time, your hands can write and your mouth can talk. 16. Find more opportunities to go on stage. Many students think that life lacks a stage for exercise and opportunities for public speaking. Actually, this is a misunderstanding. In our daily life and work, there are too many opportunities for public speaking, but we just don't have the awareness of participation. If you want to break through, you must find more opportunities to speak. At every meeting, you must sit in the front row, and you must raise your hand to express your views. Have a meeting with your employees and team members when you have the opportunity; If there is an opportunity, you can also hold a family meeting to make the family a stage for learning eloquence. Nowadays, every holiday, roadshows are very popular, and you can take part in them on stage whenever you have the opportunity. Don't worry so much, you're just exercising yourself! Let go of yourself and everything, and you will find that learning eloquence is as simple as that! 17. Multi-scene (Zhejiang University Classroom, West Lake Park, Hangzhou Station, Pedestrian Street, Hangzhou Bus) open class, which is mostly trained by many theme experiential magic practices (propositional speech, impromptu speech)!

How can I improve my eloquence? I think we should start from the following aspects: first, eloquence is practiced. Don't be shy. You know, everyone's qualifications are similar. If you have stage fright, others will feel the same way. You should seize every opportunity of exercise to show yourself, give yourself confidence, believe that you can do it or speak it out, and every exercise will give you great courage to start the next time, plus you keep summing up and accumulating. In the long run, you can stand out in all future occasions, speak freely and prove yourself. Secondly, if you have something to say, you can attract others to listen in social situations and some workplaces. You always want others to get some benefits or buzz in the process of listening to you, then this kind of speech is successful, and others will be willing to listen to you and communicate with you. Similarly, a good speaker must be a particularly good communicator, and he should learn to listen to others when he speaks. As the saying goes, go out to see the sky, go in to see the face. Therefore, when you speak, you should learn to look at the expression of others when they listen to you, so as to change the content and tone of your speech in time, and never talk to yourself. This is the most failed speech. Third, it is important to pay attention to your sense of rhythm when you speak. Some people talk very fast, just like popping beans. Often after she finished, others didn't reflect what she was saying. Speak slowly and loudly, and you will find that people will pay more attention to what you say, and you will feel that what you say is from the heart and that you think it is good. People will think you are responsible for what you say. Actually, writing is not necessarily easier than writing an article. If the article is not well written, it can be revised. However, once said, it is difficult to modify. We often feel that even if it is the same meaning or even the same sentence, a person who can talk can make you happy, and a person who can't talk will make you dizzy. Finally, learn from people who can talk and listen to others. There is a proverb in the west: the reason why God gives people one mouth and two ears is to ask people to listen more and talk less. Listening is the most rewarding thing. Constantly enrich your inner knowledge, constantly learn from the strengths of others, and face every social and work occasion with a confident and modest heart. Even if you don't do well enough, as long as you work hard and you are sincere, I believe that over time, you will become a master of speech and communication and bring a lot of happiness to your career and life! 3. How does Carnegie exercise his eloquence! (1) Learn from others' experience. Carnegie devoted almost all his life to helping people overcome their fears and timidity in conversation and speech and to cultivate their courage and confidence. Before the "Dale Carnegie Course" began, he made a survey, that is, asked people to talk about the reasons for taking this course and what they hoped to get from this eloquence speech training class. The results of the survey are surprising. Most people's central demands and basic needs are basically the same. They are like this.