How do children become tired of learning? As parents, how can we avoid it?

As the whistle blows for the start of school, learning and training in various places has begun to open the door to allow students to return. However, problems are coming one after another, especially for parents, the psychological problem of children being tired of studying , is our most entangled problem. Many parents have used many methods to deal with it, but none of them have achieved good results.

If I want to solve the psychological problem of children's study weariness, we must first understand what causes children's study weariness? Only then can we make decisions and coping strategies to prevent children from becoming tired of studying. What causes children to be tired of studying? It can be divided into the following five points:

The first point: It is not easy for parents to educate their children and they do not know how to guide them. They simply rely on the methods their parents used to educate themselves to educate their children. , but times are developing, and you should not use many old education methods on your children. In particular, children's personalities are different from your own, so the same methods will not be effective.

The second point: Persuasive education is often seen in cultural education, nagging or comparing children with other children. These three educational methods are the culprits of causing rebelliousness in children. Parents must try their best to use these educational methods to educate their children, otherwise not only will it be difficult to solve their children's problems, but they will also cause mental health problems such as rebellion in their children.

The third point: spoiled by the next generation. The main reason why many parents are too busy at work is that their children are usually worn by their parents. However, the older generation has a good relationship with children and is very pampered. Most of the bad habits are formed at this time. It is a good habit, so if possible, parents must educate their children themselves.

The fourth point: There is no reason to compromise when it comes to taking care of your children. After talking about pampering by the next generation, it is also very undesirable to be pampered by parents, especially because many parents will take care of everything for their children, such as what school they went to when they were children, being a day student in middle school, accompanying them in high school and taking exams, and choosing a major for their children in college. In this regard, children are like marionettes in the hands of their parents. They follow the path paved by them and lack a lot of ability to take care of themselves. Waiting for you a hundred years later, the child will be like a free-for-all in the world waiting to die. .

The fifth point: scolding, violent education. Scolding children is a very undesirable educational method, but because of the ancient saying, filial sons and virtuous grandchildren emerge from under the stick. Many parents should take it for granted that scolding children is for their own good. In fact, it is just the opposite. Doing so can only bury the seeds in the children's hearts. A seed of resistance, waiting for the day it will sprout.

How should we prevent it? At this time, we parents need to master appropriate scientific and reasonable education methods to help our children, guide them correctly, and then solve their children's problems! If parents don't know how to guide them, they can privately chat with me through the background management. After seeing it, I can reply to parents one by one to help parents analyze and solve their children's problems!