2006-07-26 08:32:52

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Knowing people’s clothing preferences: Women who wear skirts in the workplace are stronger

Youdao is "There is a distance between people's hearts." An old saying describes the distance between people's hearts in the most plain language. Since the birth of mankind, how to understand strangers, companions, friends, and relatives has become a long-standing problem. The wise ancestors summed up a series of famous aphorisms to remind themselves at all times, such as "a long road will tell a horse's power, and time will tell a person's heart", like "knowing people, knowing their faces, but not their hearts". However, summary is summary, refinement is refinement, but the difficulty of knowing people is still like a mountain lying in front of everyone. Interestingly, the problem was not solved but gave birth to a new profession - Mai fortune teller. "Knowing people" became an easy profession where you can fool people to your heart's content.

The times are developing, science is progressing, and the art of understanding people will naturally keep pace with the times. Since the advent of modern psychology, we have gradually understood that the heaven is full, the land is wide and the square is not necessarily the official appearance, and the triangular eyes and eyebrows that are accidentally born are not necessarily doomed to be treacherous. To understand a person's character, we must not only listen to what he says, but also observe what he says. OK, so many details of life that have never been noticed have become the best window to understand a person.

Open this topic and you will find that behind different clothing habits, there is an individual with a very different personality; admiring the different lines of the body will also reflect people's different preferences and life attitudes; even in movies The various animals are allegorical expressions of people's different personalities. After savoring this topic, you will understand that behind countless seemingly simple and different details of life, there are independent, rich and colorful inner worlds. (Dong Yiran)

Expert Voice

Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, emphasized: “There are many factors that affect and reflect a person’s personality and psychology. Clothing can indeed reflect a person’s personality. Certain psychological traits can be used as a reference for us to understand a person, but they cannot be generalized arbitrarily because there are many accidents in people's choice of clothing. For example, sometimes people choose different clothing due to different times and occasions. "< /p>

Clothing preferences reveal a woman’s heart

A recent foreign survey found that a person’s preferred color often represents the color of his or her personality and emotions. American psychologist Dr. Peter Rover believes that a person's psychology can often be inferred from a person's preference for clothing color and clothing, and this is more obvious for women.

Coincidentally, Shozo Shibuya, who has a PhD in Psychology from the College of Humanities, Tokyo Metropolitan University, Japan and is currently a psychology professor at the Department of Human Sociology at Mejiro University, has specialized in non-verbal communication and spatial praxeology for many years. It is proposed that a woman's choice of clothing contains many individualized psychological characteristics.

Look at women from the perspective of workplace attire:

Women who wear trousers in the workplace are more feminine, and women who wear skirts are stronger

In the workplace, women Wearing masculine clothes shows a more masculine mentality - wanting to work like men, and deciding the outcome based on strength, rather than having to act coquettish and show weakness just because they are women. Therefore, such women should try to eliminate their femininity. ization part. These people may be aware of the feminine part of themselves and wear strict suits to hide it. If they are such women, they will release their restrictions after leaving the workplace and behave in a very feminine manner.

So, those who choose the same clothing as men's suits are those who are passionate about work and highly motivated. They have a strong sense of their own opinions and competition with others, but they have no coordination and are easy to compete with others. conflict.

People who usually wear skirts and wear feminine clothes at work regard themselves as women when they go to work. Sometimes, such people will actively use their femininity. They have the characteristic of calmly and thoroughly calculating the entire incident in order to survive. They are very different from what they appear on the outside. They can be regarded as people with very masculine traits in their subconscious.

Understanding women through the simplicity and complexity of their clothing:

Are women in gorgeous clothes actually feeling uneasy about others?

In fact, everyone has the feeling of being isolated from the outside world. This feeling of separation is called "body image boundary". The most basic boundary is skin. When wearing clothes, clothes become the boundary. Therefore, clothes can be said to be the "second skin". A person always tries to cover up his naked body while wearing clothes, but often Because my choice of clothing exposes my inner self.

Shibuya Shozo, a psychology professor at the Department of Human Sociology at Mejiro University in Japan, believes that if a person has a weak sense of boundaries, it will be difficult for him to feel the difference between himself and others, and it will also be difficult for him to grasp the distance between himself and others. , and therefore are not good at interacting with others. Because the boundaries between themselves and the outside world are very weak, they always feel uneasy. People who want to enhance their sense of boundaries will wear eye-catching clothing that is clearly different from others. In addition, as the closeness of clothes and skin becomes stronger, it can also strengthen people's sense of boundaries. Women who are confident in their own figures and exude femininity everywhere in gorgeous clothes may fall into the trap of expressing their feelings towards others after taking off their clothes. Uneasy feeling.

People who wear loose and comfortable clothes regardless of their body shape are people who do not follow the trend and can control their own pace. On the one hand, they can stick to their own values ??and on the other hand, they can have better performance. Interpersonal relationships

Understanding women from clothing colors:

Favorite colors can directly reveal a person’s personality

How many times have you met a person? After the interview, you can probably tell what color she likes from the clothes. A person's favorite color can directly reveal a person's character, and can also tell "what kind of person he wants to become and how he wants others to treat him."

Yu Jia, deputy manager and chief image consultant of Beijing Huarenshijia Fashion Design Co., Ltd., said that when she conducts color consultation, she will first observe the type of customers. Years of work experience have allowed her to look at the customers almost from the first glance. You can judge a person's personality based on his clothing preferences. She said: "Those who like bright colors are generally cheerful, healthy, or enthusiastic and unrestrained, and self-centered; they like to wear white, which is noble and pure, but subconsciously a little indifferent, giving people a sense of distance, etc."

Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, said that color works through human vision. Different colors emit light with different wavelengths. When the human eye is exposed to different colors, the brain's associations and responses are also different. "Colors are divided into cool colors and warm colors, and wearing clothes of different colors has different effects. Therefore, when people choose clothing colors, most of them are inner projection or reverse projection."

American psychologist Peter Roffe Doctoral research found that women who like to wear red clothing are considered "young types with rich aspirations". They often feel dissatisfied in life, are adventurous, and follow fashion, but their fickle temperaments are often unpredictable. . Women who like green are considered to be "tough and practical mothers". In life, they are content with the status quo, act cautiously and work hard, but are afraid of taking risks and getting ahead of themselves. They are introverted and often suppress their desires, and are shy to take the initiative in relationships.

In addition, people who like white often make people feel distant but not close; people who like purple may have more romantic feelings; people who like yellow are innocent at heart; people who like blue are sincere. Sincere and full of fantasy; people who like black suppress the expression of emotions but desire care and love... Of course, this classification seems a bit too simple. There are often many kinds of colors that a person likes, and they cannot be generalized. However, knowing what colors a woman prefers may be helpful in understanding her heart.

Understand women from the bright colors of clothing:

People who like high-saturation colors are cheerful and outgoing, but full of uneasiness inside

American psychologist Peter Rowe Dr. Fu's research found that people who pay attention to the color of clothing and like complicated clothing tend to be more practical and confident, but they like to dominate others, are easily impulsive, and easily fall into insecurity; people who like light-colored clothing and simple clothing have poor personalities. They are often introverted, live a simple, gentle and quiet life, but are prone to lack of self-confidence, are highly dependent, and are not good at acting independently.

Japanese psychology professor Shibuya Shozo believes that people who like high-saturation colors are cheerful and outgoing, and tend to be active in behavior. But I am full of uneasiness, uncertainty and dissatisfaction. It is precisely because I want to make up for my own uneasiness that I like high-toned colors. They have strong insecurities about their own character and abilities, and may also be dissatisfied with their work, workplace, treatment, etc. Completely different from what he looks like on the outside, he actually has a shy personality. Lack of coordination and tendency to be easily influenced by new and popular things. In addition, even small things can make them feel happy and sad. People who don't like high-saturation colors are very satisfied with themselves, firmly determine their self-positioning, will not dance with the trend, and have a realistic attitude towards life. He has a kind personality and stable relationships. In terms of interpersonal relationships, he will choose the partners according to his own standards and build a stable relationship from the beginning. They are not very self-assertive, but they are not afraid to express their opinions when necessary.

In addition, because women will be affected by their mood at the time when choosing which clothes to wear, so the clothes a woman wears every day can often tell her mood that day.