I haven't decided an option for her. For a young man who is just in his twenties, the choice is often more important, but it takes trial and error and accumulated experience in life to know whether it is suitable or not, and you should fully love it. ? First, find the right position and maximize our potential
We are always receiving other people's thoughts and opinions, browsing all kinds of chicken soup for the soul, drinking a bowl and then paralyzing ourselves, but we still feel extremely anxious. Being inside the system, longing for restless outside the system. Being outside the system, I long for nine to five in the system. Brushing a circle of friends always laments where someone goes to travel and travel freely. So-and-so baked delicious food again, and then always complained about tempting my stomach. So-and-so pays a lot, but counting his own salary is not even a fraction. However, apart from complaining, it seems that there is nothing left and nothing has changed. In fact, the root of confusion and anxiety is that you don't know what you want to do and what to do, so when you start a career, you must define your own position and maximize your potential. Everyone has potential, and potential is talent. Most people think that talent is born, and it is just the tip of the iceberg. Your potential is just untapped. Choosing a good platform can provide you with superior material conditions for the time being. But in the end, it is important to choose a platform that is conducive to personal growth in the long run according to your own positioning.
? ? Second, accumulate experience and improve self-professional practice ability
Now that I have a position, I need to constantly explore and practice. After I left the campus and entered the job, I found that I didn't know a lot of things, and I regretted that I had been playing drama and sleeping in class all my college life. As the old saying goes, "It's too shallow to get it on paper, and you never know it." In fact, every successful senior in the workplace comes from a junior, so you should show the morale of "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers" and dare to try. Dare to challenge. For example: "Come to a young lady in her twenties, mainly suffering from abdominal pain, and she said that the pain is so severe that you need to give her an analgesic injection immediately (the content is complicated and involves professional knowledge, so I won't repeat it)". Most people will be caught off guard when they encounter such an emergency. This is the usual accumulation. It is common to encounter such problems, which requires us to have solid clinical knowledge and experience, but you are thinking that I just graduated and I can't do anything, which is inevitable, but the key is to have a knowledge-seeking heart. You must want to know what causes this young lady's abdominal pain, what tests are needed, what diseases need to be differentiated, what to do, what complications are there, and so on. This requires more thinking, through clinical cases. If you stop the pain at first according to the requirements of the lady, if the internal organs in the abdominal cavity bleed and cover up the illness, the consequences of delaying treatment will be vulnerable. Some lawless elements once helped a male patient to enter the hospital. The patient was in a coma. Others said that his abdominal pain was severe, and they strongly demanded painkillers to stop the pain. The doctor wanted to know the condition and check it, but it was strongly opposed. Finally, the patient died and the doctor was held accountable. Seeing this, you must feel that the doctor is irresponsible. However, when the male patient came, he was already dead. The criminals just wanted to use this to extract compensation from the hospital. Therefore, in doing anything, we must be cautious, guard against procrastination, constantly accumulate experience, improve our professional practice ability, and do not violate our own principles and go beyond the moral bottom line. Many times we can't be perfect, but we try to be perfect.
? Third, extensively dabble in and build a self-thinking mode
? In constant learning and trial and error in life, we should take the essence and discard the dross. In fact, it is a "T" on the career road. As you dig deeper and deeper in the vertical line, at least you can find the ability to support yourself. However, a certain subject has its limitations. Being in the limited knowledge for a long time will make your thinking short-sighted. For example, a villager who has lived in the depths of the mountains for a long time is compared with a medical doctor who returned from studying abroad. The comparability between the two is obvious. Everyone has his own in-depth views on knowledge. The villagers said that I know whether this land is good or not, whether it is suitable for planting crops, when to sow and when to harvest. The doctor talks about the current international medical professional knowledge and scientific research progress in Kan Kan, and his ideological realm and values are not at the same level. But why should I make a comparison? Unfortunately, the doctor of medicine was separated from his teammates during a hiking trip, and all the appliances he brought with him had no electricity, and there was little dry food left. Fortunately, I met the residents in this mountain, and the villagers expressed their heartfelt thanks for the gift of nature. We are all people of nature, working at sunrise and staying at sunset, following the laws of nature. After a hearty meal, the doctor was surprised to find that most villagers had swollen necks and had not been systematically treated after being asked. After some dabbling, the doctor finally solved the villagers' problems, and at the same time he got deeper research results and published them in the scientific research results, and the villagers also had a deeper understanding of this. The so-called success comes from the discovery of all kinds of details in life, and what you have been exposed to on a platform for a long time is bound to be short. I often dabble in fragmented information, but when I need to use it, I can't recall any of them, only to find that the knowledge I dabble in is all points. How to turn points into lines requires building my own thinking mode.
? ? Fourth, to overcome loneliness and adapt to the living environment of oneself
How many people once boasted that they would stand at the top of the world one day and be a person who changed the world. However, we are only the majority of people, and we can't "give me a lever and I will tilt an earth" like Archimedes. But you should have the confidence to tilt the earth. When I used to play WeChat circle of friends, I kept brushing my circle of friends in one day, sending a talk, waiting for others to praise you, comment on you, reply to you, and then reply, and so on. You always expect someone to send you something from time to time, but after reading it many times, you find that no one is looking for you. There is a saying: "Thank you for having Wechat business in your circle of friends, because it supports almost all your circle of friends". I began to think about such meaningless thoughts. I used to be afraid of being alone and being lonely. But when I closed my circle of friends for more than a month, I didn't seem to love it so much. Looking back, Wechat business's release information was still full, and I spent more time on my professional knowledge improvement, fitness and reading books. I am no longer anxious and lonely. I started to go to bed early and get up early. I started to get up early with a glass of water, drink more water every day, and pay attention to weight changes and diet. It turns out that loneliness is not terrible. Learn to correct your own mentality. Others' success cannot be copied, but you can follow suit and practice and find a way that suits you. When I began to adapt to my living environment, I found beautiful scenery everywhere.
? Five, the rules of the workplace, don't participate and don't complain
Entering a new environment, the deeper you get into it, the more you realize that the workplace is not as simple as the campus. Some people care about the gains and losses of their own interests, some people want to hold political power, some people think that things have nothing to do with themselves, and some people fall on both sides. But this is only a minority, and most of them are devoted to their work and their duties. Therefore, as a newcomer in the workplace, don't complain that you can only run errands frequently. If you can meet a life mentor who changes your life, you naturally need a more positive attitude instead of listening to your complaints every day.
? 6. Perseverance. Do not forget your initiative mind so as to achieve your final goal
failed to persist in many seemingly positive energy projects such as memorizing words, losing weight, writing, reading, traveling and photography. I just love which dramas are popular today, which stars and what happens. It seems that none of the goals set can last more than three months. Looking back, I spent all my time dreaming. Parents always say, "When you were young, you just thought too much and did too little. In the end, you lost sesame seeds with watermelon, but you didn't catch sesame seeds. You hit your head and didn't get anything done." Therefore, we should not be so self-indulgent. We should make our goals clear, simplify and persevere. Do not forget your initiative mind and so as to achieve your final goal.
In fact, life is a process of trial and error. We don't know what love is, and we don't know it until we have loved it. On the road of life, you can gain by giving up, and you are not afraid of failure. You can sum up your experience in every mistake and persevere in order to so as to achieve your final goal.