Zeng Shiqiang: "When love fails, when your marriage breaks down, we have only one suggestion. That is, you have to start from scratch and throw away the past. What matters is to live in the present, not in the past. . We also have to face the present, the present is the most important, not the past, nor the future. The future is empty, the past is dead, so why do many people tell you to live in the present. . Because only now can you grasp it. Let the past pass, and don’t think about the future for the time being. Let’s start from scratch, not complaining about God or others.”

Zeng Shiqiang: “Love. It is very important and right, but it is not the whole of life. It is very obscene and very important, but it is not the whole of life. We can see clearly, right? Love and marriage are just a part of life. There are still many things in life that are worthy of us doing, so you should change your goals. I'm not telling you to give up on love and never get married again. I don't mean that either. I'm just saying that at least you shouldn't go around in circles for the time being. The more you think about it, the more you get stuck. The more you think about it, the more you have no way out. In the end, it's very unfortunate. You want to I want to see how you lived in those days before you were in love. Were you really unhappy before you were married? Not necessarily. Therefore, we hope that when your love fails and your marriage breaks down, you must stand bravely. There you must be very clear-headed and find a way out for yourself. We should not take life too narrowly. There are many things to do in life. Because we have careers, because we have ideals, and because we still need to help others. These are all It’s what you deserve. You can’t write off all other things because of love and marriage. You can’t look at life too narrowly and not look at it broadly enough. It will be a big loss for you. ”