1, many people are not enough to rely on, you have to live on your own. -Napoleon

2. Self-confidence is the first secret of success. Emerson

3. Go deep into your heart and find that all miracles are in yourself. bacon

4. Everyone should have self-esteem, self-confidence and independence, otherwise he is a slave. -Xu Teli

5. Every point on the earth is at the same distance from the sun. Burton

6. Our confidence in ourselves will make others have confidence in us. Laroche Foucault

7. Apart from personality, the biggest loss in life is losing self-confidence. Pershing

8. A confident person can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic. -Bernard Shaw

9, firm confidence, can achieve ordinary people, amazing career. Ma Erdun

10, Columbus discovered a world, but he didn't use charts. He solved the doubts in the sky with "confidence". -Santayana

A story of self-confidence

1 A psychologist told me that depressed people and people who can't adapt to the environment are mostly ignorant of themselves. They hate themselves, compare with others everywhere, and always dream of what would happen if they had another chance.

Of course, everyone can find sufficient reasons to be dissatisfied with their experiences. British politician wilberforce hates being short. Boswell, a writer, once went to listen to wilberforce's speech and said afterwards, "I think he is really a little guy standing on the stage." But when I listened to his speech, the more I talked, the bigger I seemed, and then I became a giant. "This extremely short person is sickly all his life. The doctor told him to smoke opium to maintain his life. After 20 years, he has the ability not to increase the daily dose. He opposed the slave trade. Britain abolished the slave trade system mostly because of him.

The most inspiring success stories in history are mostly written by people who have defects and difficulties, but regard them as a mockery of life, go forward bravely and are not trapped by them. Bohr, a famous Norwegian violinist, once gave a concert in Paris. Before the end of a song, a string suddenly broke. He kept quiet and continued to play the whole song with three strings. This is life-if one string is broken, you can play the whole song with the other three strings.

Therefore, according to an ancient legend, when the Scottish army fought against Muslims in Spain, it left the heart of the late King Bruce before the battle, and then the whole army rose up and robbed and defeated the enemy. This is the way forward. Take control of your life, hold high an ideal or hope, and strive to make your life fit a certain goal. There are many people who do nothing and die silently. This is because they believe that life has its own destiny and never thought that life can be created. The fact is that life exists in the world, and that is fate; Make good use of your life, let it forge ahead towards your own plans and goals, and then it becomes life.

There are at least three reasons why such a determined and hardworking person is successful. The first is imagination. A great life begins with a vision, that is, a vision of what you want to do or become. Nightingale's dream is to be a nurse. Edison's ideal is to be an inventor. These people imagine a clear future for themselves, take this as their goal and go forward bravely.

Take Keats as an example. He was an orphan since childhood, poor all his life, criticized by literary critics, failed in love, contracted lung disease, and died at the age of 26. Keats was down and out all his life, but he was not dominated by the environment. When he was young, he read Spencer's The Fairy Queen, and he was sure that he was destined to be a poet. Keats devoted his life to this greatest goal, which made him an immortal poet. He once said, "I think I can be one of the English poets after I die."

If you have such a vision in your mind, you will move forward bravely. If you think you will fail, you will never succeed. If you are confident that you can succeed, your chances of success will greatly increase. Without self-confidence and goals, you will be obedient and accomplish nothing.

The second is common sense. A round chisel with a square handle is absolutely unworkable. In fact, many people have tried something in the East and the West before finally finding their true direction. Whistler, an American painter, originally wanted to be a soldier. Later, he dropped out of the military school because he failed in chemistry. He said, "If silicon was a gas, I would have been a major general." Scott wants to be a poet, but his poems are not as good as Byron's, so he rewrote the novel. Review yourself, think more about your goals, and don't daydream.

The third is courage. If a person really has character, he will have confidence and courage. Wagner, a great musician, was criticized by his contemporaries, but he was full of confidence in his works and finally defeated the world. Yellow fever has been circulating for centuries, and the number of deaths cannot be counted. However, a small number of medical staff believed that they could conquer it, buried themselves in research in Cuba and finally won. Darwin worked in a small garden in England for 20 years. Sometimes he succeeded, sometimes he failed, but he persisted because he believed he had found the clue and finally succeeded.

Goals, common sense and courage, even a little use, will produce considerable results. If a person is bent on getting rich, he may be hit mercilessly; If he wants to have fun, he may ask. But if what he wants is to achieve something, he can take advantage of all the opportunities in life.