There are flowers blooming in the bath, and there are piles of ideas.

On the weekend of June 12-14, Brother Xiaozu went to Zihuishen to study for three days. Dr. Qiu also said many famous aphorisms, excerpts are as follows:

1. Knowledge can be copied, but the question is where to paste it? Only after the background and three views are clear can the copied knowledge be pasted.

2. Instead of looking at the three senses, it is better to look at the five senses. The facial features represent personality.

3. If you only focus on phenomena and ignore feelings, you will fall into a trap.

4. A life of ups and downs, with pitfalls in the southeast and northwest.

5. Why do beautiful women like scumbag men? Because scumbags are good at creating surprises, and surprises can stimulate dopamine.

6. Only by starting with physics can you learn psychology well. Only by mastering the size, direction, and point of action of force can we understand psychology.

7. Love is like a "ghost". Many people believe in it, but few meet it.

8. Romance and waste are almost the same.

9. Success is a by-product of growth.

10. Willpower equals inhibition. Most of the things you do with willpower are not pleasant, so you have to do it willingly.

11. When there are expectations, there will be the pain of disappointment. If you have expectations, you will have requirements; if you have requirements, you will be disappointed. Letting go of expectations does not mean doing nothing, but it means growing up.

12. It is important to separate the subject. Even if others don't take him away, God will take him away. From the perspective of intimate relationships and parent-child relationships, separation is a major issue.

13. Understanding does not mean agreement. Understanding is the same as giving up.

14. Many cases of postpartum depression are actually misdiagnosed and are actually postpartum adaptive disorders.

15. Happiness is when each other is a little embarrassed.

16. Marriage is divided into four stages: sharing the same heart → sharing the same bed but having different dreams → fighting in the same room → dying together.

17. Short-term happiness can be obtained by scratching an itch, but long-term happiness must be experienced through training.

18. In the parent-child relationship, children can enter the lives of their parents, but parents cannot enter the lives of their children.

19. If you don’t accept education, you have to accept the price of lessons.

20. Three basic questions in life: Fall in love with you or rely on you? Many people don't fall in love with you, but depend on you. I love you very much or do I bother you a lot? People around you are often in your way. Marry someone else or blame someone else? Many people who refuse to grow up do not marry you, but blame others.

21. Lao Qiu’s attitude towards life: use seven points of greed and lust to blend into the world of mortals, and leave the remaining three points to make money and make a living.

22. Prejudice means that others cannot see, but you can.

23. Those who muddle along are actually not having an easy time.

24. The sense of mission is to work hard.

25. Creativity comes from having time to think.

26. The way you make money determines your attitude towards money.

27. It is better to die than live. In fact, it is not about living by relying on it, but living by relying on it.

28. An excellent mistress should have two abilities: she should have the feelings of a little woman and the mind of a big woman.

29. Life is for blooming, not for modification.

The above 29 sentences are incisive sentences recorded by Brother Xiaozu, excluding those that have not been recorded. Savor it carefully, you will find something special.

Special reminder: There is a true meaning in this, but I have forgotten to tell it. On the one hand, savor it carefully; on the other hand, don’t take it seriously, let alone take it personally. If Youyou takes it seriously and takes the right seat, Dr. Qiu will not be responsible in any way, and neither will my little brother.