When a person is down and out, remember these words to turn over salted fish. Ups and downs are the normal state of life, as long as you are alive, there is hope in life; If you dare to challenge life, you can surpass yourself.
1. I'd rather go to the bank for a loan than borrow money from others.
A person must be poor when he is down and out. The fact that he is poor cannot be hidden, and others will know. It's not necessary if you still pretend to be fat in your face. Even if you squeeze into the circle of rich people, you will only be laughed at, and no one will help you.
If you are poor, your relatives and friends will alienate you, worrying that you will borrow money, and even more worrying that you will not pay it back. When I ask for money, I lose and live a humble life. When others cynically refuse to lend you money, your mood will become more and more depressed.
When you are down and out, first think about whether any relatives and friends are sincere to you, whether they have always trusted you and whether they will lend you money. If so, communicate with such relatives and friends and borrow some money to help them tide over the difficulties. If not, then? Not talking? Think about it, what assets do you have to mortgage or loan? If the bank can get a loan, you can borrow it, even if you have to bear the interest, but don't always look at your face, you will feel better.
2. Don't cooperate with women, especially women who like you.
Woman? Long hair and short knowledge? This is not to belittle women, but to say that women's ideas are short-sighted and take care of immediate interests. At some critical times, it is easy to get distracted. There are also real strong women, but relatively speaking, not too many. If you meet a strong woman and can give you a hand, you are lucky. You can cooperate with her.
When a man is down and out, the first thing that comes to mind is not to cooperate with women, let alone start a business with a woman who likes you. When two people are together, it is easy to be impulsive. We often fail to see the real difficulties thoroughly, underestimate them and think too well about the future? Ideal is full, reality is skinny? Situation.
When my classmate Zhou Li was down and out, she thought of her female classmate Wang Mei. They decided to open a hair salon together. On the one hand, the cost is low. On the other hand, Wang has studied hairdressing and is familiar with this industry. Soon, two people opened a hair salon in front of a community in the county. At first, the hair salon did well and made a lot of money, but soon, they were together every day and began to love each other for a long time. A year later, the relationship between them fell out because the interests of the hair salon were divided. Wang Mei said? If it weren't for my good craftsmanship, how could the hair salon make money? ? Zhou Li said? If I hadn't borrowed money everywhere, how could the hair salon have opened? ? Finally, Zhou Li? Men don't hit women? With a little capital, I left Wang Mei and had to start all over again.
In fact, when men are down and out, women will look down on you because you have no money. Men had better start their own businesses, and don't be led by others. If you fall in love with someone, don't confess it easily, otherwise it will easily lead to emotional crisis and lead to emotional and career difficulties. Men, make money and get married.
Don't believe in getting rich overnight and keeping your feet on the ground.
Haste makes waste? When a man is down and out, don't think about winning the lottery and don't believe that there are things that make money. You have to understand, greedy for small advantages, eat big losses. If others encourage you to do things that are easy to get rich, it is mostly false, and others will not be so kind.
Desperate people should be prepared to fight a protracted war, slowly and steadily, in order to get ahead. As a man, it is common to sharpen a sword every ten years. First, think about your ability. If your ability is insufficient, learn something to improve your ability first. No matter how old you are, it is never too late to improve your ability. If you don't have the ability and just start the next investment and entrepreneurship in a hurry, most of you will lose money.
It takes a long time for a person to turn over a salted fish, maybe ten or eight years, but it doesn't matter. Tall buildings rise from the ground up, and only by practicing basic skills can we reach the peak of life. As a man, it is the true nature of a man to hold your horses and rivet your feet.
You can learn from others, but don't trust others.
When people are poor, they are often easily taken advantage of, especially those who are very scheming. Take advantage of the poor people's desire to get rich and design a routine for the poor to enter.
On the contrary, he can reap the benefits of fishermen. For example, he hypocritically introduced the poor to work on the construction site, and the poor really went. As a result, he took advantage and made the labor of the poor cheaper.
Some people, with malicious hearts, cheat and blackmail the poor by introducing jobs and providing entrepreneurial opportunities. Therefore, when a man is down and out, don't trust others at will, learn to look at the problem from multiple angles and have his own thinking. You should also be vigilant when others are kind to you. Don't think that when you are down and out, you will meet a noble person casually.
Smart people will gain insight into other people's ways to get rich and get inspiration from their success. It's a good idea to learn from others and make yourself less detours, but you have to understand? Innovation? In order to gain a foothold in an industry. It is important to be cautious when dealing with people, so as to avoid being hurt.
5. choose the right direction first, and then start tossing.
Men should dare to toss themselves, and the more they toss, the better their lives will be. People who really have no ambition are often people who can't stick mud on the wall, and they are not really desperate. Think about it, that is, you are desperate, or there is still a way, at least you can go back. Some people would rather hit the wall than look back. On the surface they are wonderful, but in fact they are stupid.
The ancients said:? Sharp tools can do a good job. ? When a person is down and out, if he wants to turn over, he must learn to choose the direction and not be rash. When people are poor, they really can't stand repeated tossing. Choosing the right direction and tossing again often get twice the result with half the effort. Even if you encounter setbacks in the middle, it is expected, you will not be defeated, and you don't need to reinvent yourself.
Men, after one thing, will gain wisdom and mature mind, so it will be easier to succeed in anything. When people are poor, don't? Stubborn? Now we must not only think about the direction of progress, but also think about the retreat, so that we can advance and retreat freely. If we toss about for a long time, we will succeed. This kind of tossing is actually striving for progress in stability and grasping fate.