0 1, don't be too soft on the bad guys. I believe everyone has heard the story "The Farmer and the Snake". A farmer met a frozen snake on the road, so he kindly held it in his arms to keep warm and saved its life. But when the snake woke up, it bit the farmer, so the farmer was killed by a poisonous snake. It was because he was soft-hearted that he saved the snake from freezing to death, but he was killed in the end. This story tells us that we should not be soft-hearted or kind to bad people.
In daily life, a friend of mine is also a very soft-hearted person. His classmate borrowed 2000 yuan from him and said he would pay it back in a month. As a result, it has been delayed for a year and has not been returned yet. Every time I ask him why he doesn't just let him return it, he says it's not easy to meet his classmates. Give him a few more days, he is not in a hurry to use the money anyway. Recently, he needed money and asked his classmates for money, but they still didn't pay him back.
02. Don't be too soft on children. In fact, I think many parents' education methods are quite good. Children who grow up in that environment are generally sensible earlier. Being too soft-hearted towards your children can easily lead to doting. There are many Xiong Haizi in the society now, who say insulting words to adults in public or laugh loudly in public to influence others.
Recently, I met a parent who was reading in the library with her children. As a result, the children ran around the library and talked loudly. His parents gently told him not to make noise, which was useless at all. Then Xiong Haizi also loudly disturbed others to study. This makes people speechless and angry.
It is this kind of gentle education of parents, who are soft-hearted to their children again and again and can't bear to reprimand them, which leads them to be lawless and do whatever they want on any occasion. Therefore, it is necessary to be soft-hearted, especially for your own children, which will have a certain impact on his future.
In my opinion, it is good to be soft-hearted and kind, but being too soft-hearted to bad people will have a negative impact on yourself, and being too soft-hearted to children will lay a curse for their future.