1. Only fools turn around when they hit a nail; smart people learn to behave when they see others suffer.

2. People spend their whole lives floating in high tides and low tides. Only mediocre people live like stagnant water; or only those who have extremely high cultivation can be free from fatigue and truly liberated. As long as the highs don't make you nervous and the lows don't make you decadent, that's fine.

3. Try to ignore success or failure as much as possible, just try to do your best and feel no regrets.

4. My child, a terrible enemy is not necessarily a ferocious-looking one. A friendly and passionate friend can sometimes waste a lot of your precious time.

5. People who have not experienced acute pain will not have deep and broad sympathy.

6. Only when a person dares to face reality and mistakes, analyze rationally, and understand thoroughly can he avoid being eroded by memories.

7. Pay more attention in the future: When adhering to the truth, you must pay attention to the way, attitude, tone, and tone of speech. The more reasons you have, the more easy-going your attitude will be. Upholding the truth is an arduous struggle and an educational task; it requires good methods. Way. Means, and patience. Be sure not to get angry or cause misunderstanding.

8. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

9. There is a big difference between writing your thoughts down (whether in a letter or in other ways) than just imagining them in your head. Writing it down requires correct and precise thinking, so the self-examination written on paper is particularly profound and leaves a deep impression on myself.

10. After falling down one after another, as long as you can get up, you will gradually climb to the top and transcend the ego. Bitter tears are the wine that nourishes your soul.

11. People need to break out of their own prison from time to time in order to have new feelings, new perspectives, and more correct self-criticism.

12. Since we live in the world of money, we must control money well so as not to be enslaved by money.

13. Don’t be arrogant when you are right, and be forgiving when you are right.

14. The most important thing for learning is "communication". Only by "communication" can we not be rigid, pedantic, sour, and stereotyped; by "communication" can we cultivate integrity, mind, and vision. Only by being "common" can one become "big". If one is not big and has no knowledge, there is a danger of sitting in a well and looking at the sky.

15. As long as a person is sincere, he can always impress others; even if people don’t understand him at the moment, they will understand him in the future.

16. There is no such thing as overindulgence without reaping the consequences!

17. Abandonment without fighting is hypocritical, detachment without suffering is frivolous, wisdom that escapes from reality is cowardly; moderation, contentment, and petty wisdom are our fatal wounds. .

18. The most powerful argument in the world is practical action, and the most effective education is setting an example; never ask others to do something you cannot do yourself, change yourself first.

19. The requirements for a lifelong partner, just like the requirements for everything in life, should not be too harsh. There are always pros and cons to everything: if we pursue you too eagerly, you feel a heavy burden; if we pursue you less closely, you feel not passionate enough. A gentle person can sometimes appear cowardly, and a strong person can appear almost authoritarian.

20. You must first train yourself to be strong, so that you will not be dragged down by the negative factors in the environment, and then you will have the remaining energy to shout "come on, come on" to your friends!