1. When there should be a backbone, you can be able to control the situation, and when you shouldn’t, you can stay calm and stay away without saying much; you can love people, care about people, care about people, but not pester them; have Thoughtful, ideal, rational, humorous, and dare to laugh at oneself; be willing to put down one's body for the one you love, but other than that, be free enough to act without looking at anyone's face; have the enthusiasm and motivation to learn, and be active every day Make progress, but no longer expect praise from others. ——Liu Liu

2. Letting yourself go is also a kind of letting go. It is inevitable to encounter pain and troubles in life, but there is no need to torture yourself for this. If you keep staring at a few ink dots on a white wall, darkness will occupy your field of vision; if you always stick to certain fragments of life, you will lose your complete life. Letting yourself go and not torturing yourself is also a kind of letting go. ——Master Yuan Ping

3. All bitches who take the initiative to break up with you can find new people in a short time, not because they are really that good, but just because they have a goal, so they You throw them away like old shoes. What you don’t want to be a drag on, what’s inappropriate, and what you loved before are all lies. After all, it's nothing more than liking the new and hating the old. People who truly love each other will never break up no matter how many excuses they have. Because you are always loving, not having loved before. ——Lu Qi

4. Time makes deep things deeper and deeper, and shallow things shallower and shallower. If you look at it lightly, you will be less hurt. As time passes and love fades, it will fall apart. Don't wait for people you shouldn't wait for, and don't hurt hearts you shouldn't hurt. It really takes us a long, long time to understand what kind of people and things we really miss. ——Zhang Ailing

5. The happiest time is chatting with friends whom I haven’t seen for a long time, and complaining to each other. It feels like nothing has changed. Only then will you truly feel that distance is not so important anymore and everything is a trivial matter. When someone stands in front of you, it feels like you are separated by the Pacific Ocean, and when you talk, it feels like crossing mountains; when someone is thousands of miles apart, there is no jet lag, and you understand each other without having to say much. ——Lu Sihao

6. Your face is so calm and gentle, no one knows how tight you are clenching your teeth. You walk with the wind, and no one knows that you still have bruises on your knees from the fall. You laugh heartlessly, and no one knows that you can only cry silently when you cry. To make people feel effortless, you can only work extremely hard behind the scenes. There is no future that we cannot change, only the past that we do not want to change. ——Liu Tong

7. The most painful thing in life is that dreams can never be realized despite continuous efforts, and this is exactly the case in our lives. What is gratifying is that I heard a voice at the other end of the time corridor saying: "Maybe it can't be achieved today, and it won't be possible tomorrow. The important thing is that it is in your heart. The important thing is that you have been working hard." - Martin ·Luther King

8. Throughout the eighteenth century, as in all previous eras, whether a king had sexual function or whether a queen had many children or was infertile was considered open rather than secret. It is regarded as a national event, and the Acacia bed is closely related to the "Wang Tong" and the country. It is obvious that it is as much a part of life as the baptismal font and the coffin. ——Zweig

9. In this world, everyone is in danger. Who has the ability to save whom, and who has the right to save whom? Books can’t do it, knowledge can’t do it, money can’t do it, and poverty can’t do it. Having nothing does not mean you can feel confident, and reading poetry and books will not make you feel fulfilled. So, just go live. It doesn’t matter how you live, just live. ——Su Mei

10. If you want to make the love that generates offspring healthy, love must be physical love. Since it is physical love, you must like the other person's body. When both parties are immersed in love, the two souls adapt to each other and produce sexual intercourse. The call to arms is a truce and a reconciliation. So when the physical connection becomes distant, resentment often occurs, not the other way around. ——Strindberg