At the best age, we all want to meet a love of our own. Burns said: "What is life without love? It is a long night without dawn." No one wants to be in a long night without feeling the warmth of love.

When we meet love, we will not love blindly. It's about getting to know each other's personalities and hobbies through spending some time together, in order to know whether the other person is the right person.

It takes a process for people of the opposite sex to get along and develop from ordinary friends to lovers. This process can also be called the "ambiguity period".

The period of ambiguity between two people is actually a testing period for each other. Each other can enjoy the treatment like lovers and be cared for by each other; they can also go to dinner and watch movies together; and they can also say some heart-warming words.

If you don’t feel good about getting along, you can return to a normal friendship and it won’t have much impact on each other. If they get along reasonably well, and the relationship between the two people heats up during this period, as long as one person takes the initiative to tell the truth, they will naturally become lovers.

To put it simply, the last safe distance between men and women is ambiguity. The ambiguous period is also a boundary of love. Once it is crossed, it will be "deviated".

During the ambiguous period at a safe distance, you must stay rational.

Love is beautiful and happy on the surface, but anyone who has tasted love knows that love often makes people entangled and anxious. I want to get a good love, but when I am about to have it, I will have all kinds of fears and anxieties. I am afraid that I have made a wrong decision, and I am worried that the other person does not love me that much at all.

Such entanglement and anxiety are just like what Ovid described: "Love pulls me this way, but reason pulls me that way."

Love can make us confused and make us unable to think rationally. But no matter what, we must know that even if love is blind, before deciding to start a relationship, we must maintain rational thinking and have a longer-term perspective.

Especially during the period of ambiguity at a safe distance, you should not let yourself lose your mind because of a momentary emotion or a few sweet words from the other party. Before you plan to cross this boundary, you must clearly understand your own heart and the other person's thoughts. At least make sure that you truly love each other and are willing to go on together.

When you are not sure of your own feelings, don't be easily ambiguous with the opposite sex, which may hurt others and yourself.

It is precisely because there is no bondage of love that some people often enjoy the treatment of love under the banner of ambiguity. Wait for the other person to care about you and pay for yourself. When you get tired of it, you can leave calmly, and the other party won't be able to complain.

They thought they had taken advantage during this period and would not suffer any losses. In fact, the benefits are visible to the naked eye, but the losses have already been formed invisibly. Although you have gained some material benefits, your character and the impression you leave on others have already deteriorated invisibly. What these affect is your reputation, which is much more important than those materials.

Plato has a famous saying: If you love, please love deeply; if you abandon, please do it thoroughly; don’t be ambiguous and hurt others and yourself.

Since you are not sure about your own feelings, don’t be ambiguous with the opposite sex easily, otherwise you will end up hurting others and yourself.

Some people are ambiguous because they want further development; some people are ambiguous just to pass the time.

We often think that when a man and a woman are ambiguous, it must be because they have a crush on each other and just want to have more opportunities to get along, so the relationship becomes ambiguous. .

However, we have also overlooked a kind of people. It is difficult for them to truly fall in love with someone. As long as the other person is not annoying, they can develop an ambiguous relationship and make themselves less lonely and boring. .

Perhaps, this is like what Zhang Ailing said: "Love without love will never go bad. So, we flirt, we are ambiguous, but we should never fall in love."

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We must know that although ambiguity is a safe distance in love, it will also waste our time during this period. If you have no thoughts about love and waste your time on these things, It's a pity.

If you like each other and want to develop further, ambiguity is a good opportunity to get to know each other better and at a safe distance. If you have no intention of continuing to develop, don't let such a safe distance become full of calculations.

The charm of ambiguity between men and women should be. As Yi Shu said: "A woman must have a woman's reserve. A woman should have an ambiguous attitude - even if she knows that a man is lying, she will not expose it. And the man also knows that she knows that the man is lying. Such a feeling of suspicion is the greatest strength of a woman. ”

Before starting a relationship, both men and women actually want to have a good reason and opportunity to understand everything about the other person, including the way two people get along together. These, They can provide each other with a reference to know what the situation will be like after two people become lovers.

During the ambiguous period, it is a relatively safe distance and there is no need to be bound by this relationship. If you want to continue to develop, you just need to wait for the opportunity. If you don't want to develop, just withdraw in advance.

These can provide each other with a reference to know what it will be like when two people become lovers. Status.

During the ambiguous period, it is a relatively safe distance. If you want to continue to develop, you only need to wait for the opportunity. If you don't want to develop, just retreat early.