A sign that two people's feelings are getting weaker and weaker: the frequency is reduced. If life is just like the first sight, why is it sad to draw a fan in the autumn wind? The feelings in this world are beautiful only at the beginning. Over time, feelings gradually change, more and more light. Withered feelings are like flowers with withered branches. No matter how much water and fat you water, you can't change the ending that it will dry up. The feelings that have become a foregone conclusion can't be changed anyway, but if everyone can see the signs of weakening feelings before the foregone conclusion, there may be a chance to reverse it. The change of feelings, although it is quietly produced, will also have signs. These signs remind everyone all the time, but not many people really notice them. It is precisely because everyone ignores these signs that the relationship has developed to an irreparable level. It's hard to get through the difficulties before you get emotional stability. How can it disappear easily? If you don't want to break up your feelings, you should keep your eyes open and take a good look at the signs of your feelings. Facts have proved that the sign that two people's feelings are getting weaker and weaker is the reduction of frequency. When you find that many frequencies are decreasing, it means that there is something wrong with your relationship. The frequency of contact reduces the so-called contact frequency. In layman's terms, it is the frequency of contact. From the frequency of contact, we can clearly distinguish whether this relationship is deep or shallow. Lovers in love often seize every opportunity to get in touch with each other and don't want to miss a minute. In this case, the connection usually has a very high frequency. However, if two people's feelings have problems and start to break down, the frequency of contact will decrease sharply. I used to contact countless times a day, but now I may contact once every few days. With the reduction of contact frequency, the feelings of two people will become weaker and weaker, and the contact will be completely interrupted, and the feelings will be completely broken. The reduction of contact frequency is actually a sign that two people's feelings are getting weaker and weaker. If two people can attach importance to it, there may be a chance to get back together. If not, they can only watch the love break. Reducing the frequency of intimacy is a unique way for lovers to convey their feelings. The frequency of intimacy represents the depth of two people's feelings. Two people who love each other will regard intimacy as a kind of sustenance and pass on and maintain their feelings in this way. Only two people whose feelings are getting weaker will reduce the frequency of intimacy. When two people no longer have intimate thoughts and are unwilling to be close to each other, it means that this relationship has come to an end. The decrease in frequency of feelings before they come to an end is the biggest sign, reminding everyone all the time, but no one will lose this relationship because of attention. From intimacy to disgust, no one wants to see the situation, but if it is not managed well, it will end sooner or later. Reducing the frequency of communication is a necessity for interpersonal communication and an indispensable part for couples to get along. With frequent and effective communication, contradictions and misunderstandings will be reduced, but without communication, feelings will inevitably have problems. There are many lovers who have reached the point where they have nothing to say, and even communication has become a problem, so they will not develop for long. How can they grow old hand in hand? From the moment the communication frequency decreases, the relationship between two people has already had problems, which is a sign and an early warning. If both men and women can see this sign at the first time and adjust it in time, it is still possible to go hand in hand. But if both sides ignore it, they can only watch happiness go away in the end. The frequency of caring reduces the mutual concern between lovers, which can be said to be a part of daily life. With this two-way concern, the feelings of two people will develop well. But I don't know when they started to care less and less. Although there seems to be no problem for a short time, once it is left unchecked, it will completely destroy a relationship. Feelings without love, like saplings nourished by rain and dew, will wither completely before long. When it withers completely, it is too late to remedy it. If you really want to remedy it, you have to explore the change of feelings from the frequency of attention. When the frequency of concern is getting less and less, it shows that the feelings of two people are getting weaker and weaker. All the changes are actually traceable, but some signs are more obvious, while others are more hidden. But whether it is obvious or hidden, we need to pay attention to it, especially feelings. Feelings will change, and in the process of change, these signs will gradually appear. Only by seeing these signs in time can we repair and make up for them. You know, the obvious sign that two people's feelings are getting weaker is the reduction of frequency. When the frequency drops to zero, it is difficult for two people to walk together. If you don't want such an ending, everyone should manage their feelings well and don't give them a chance to play down. Only good management can usher in full happiness. Signs that their feelings are fading 2. The connection between you will become less and less emotional, and it is unrealistic to rely on one person to maintain it. After all, feelings are between the two of you, and you need to work together to manage and maintain them. However, if the affection between you is getting weaker and weaker as time goes on, and you don't take the initiative, the other party will never take the initiative, then obviously, the person you love must not love you so much. At this time, you'd better not deceive yourself, let alone live in your own heart, because there are too many uncertainties in feelings, and not all people will have good results together. So, if you find that the person you love is becoming less and less active in this relationship and the connection between you is getting less and less, then at this time, you must rethink your relationship. Life between you is getting more and more dull, and even the most basic sense of ceremony has been lost. After two people who love each other come together, if they really love each other, they will naturally try their best to live a good life, even if it is dull, it will make the dull life bloom. You will remember each other's birthdays and important anniversaries. Before these days come, you will prepare gifts for each other seriously and quietly. You will not forget these days because you are busy, but will take the important days between you very seriously. However, if the feelings between you are getting weaker and weaker. Then, at this time, you will naturally stop paying attention to the anniversary between you and even forget each other's birthdays, using me as an excuse. If so, forget it and stop torturing each other. The conflicts between you will increase with the time you spend together. When two people live together, one thing or another will happen. In fact, these are all understandable. When you encounter a contradiction, it is good to solve it. However, if the feelings between you are relatively weak, then at this time, even if there are misunderstandings or contradictions, you will not care and pay attention. At this time, the contradiction between you will naturally increase with time. If so, even if we continue to be together, it won't last long. Of course, if you really don't love, then get together and leave. That's what feelings should be like. When you love, love well. After you stop loving, you should put it down as soon as possible. No one should delay anyone. Signs of two people's feelings fading 3 1. Signs of emotional regression 1. When communication becomes less and less, two people will always have endless words, from their own experiences to their current habits and personalities, to each other's preferences and even expectations for the future. But now two people spend less and less time communicating, talking about some irrelevant topics, and never reach the position of "spiritual resonance". 2, the increase of negative emotions With the increase of time, you are more and more dissatisfied with the other half. In the past, your eyes were all about ta's good, but now your eyes are all about ta's fault, complaining more and more, and even quarrels and contradictions have become "commonplace". What's more, it is obvious that two people have problems, but neither of them wants to take the initiative to solve them. Patience and love gradually lost, and finally only endless fatigue remained. 3. Inconsistency of spiritual life Although two people obviously live together, they are not harmonious anywhere. Although they meet every day, they don't like each other. Although there is no substantial derailment, I fantasize about 10 thousand derailments in my mind, always thinking: will it be better to leave? Is breaking up a relief? In the end, I still can't get out of my own dead end. Second, the reason why the feelings between lovers are dull is the inevitable result of the development of love to a certain stage. The famous American psychologist Robert Jeffrey Sternberg put forward the famous "triangular theory of love". Perfect love has three elements: passion, affection and commitment. After the close relationship between two people, there will be a strong passion, but this emotion also has a shelf life. According to Baumeister's theory, the shelf life of passion is only a few months, and the longest is only two years. Maybe at first, when two people look at each other, their hearts will be pounding and they want to know everything about each other, past and future. But with the understanding, the freshness of the two people is getting less and less, and the passion will eventually disappear. If intimacy and commitment are not established, the relationship will eventually break down. Third, how to deal with it? 1. One of the secrets of keeping feelings fresh by participating in each other's small world is to improve each other's sense of participation in the other half's life. The reason why two people have problems is largely because they don't understand each other's efforts and situation. If both sides feel that they are right, there will be disputes. If they feel that they are under too much pressure, but they can't consider the problem from the other side's point of view, it will get hotter and hotter. The most rational state of getting along is to participate in each other's small world together, talk about the field of work together, take care of children together, share ideas together, do housework together and so on. 2. When there is a contradiction in nonviolent communication, two people can talk it over, but the relationship between them always becomes tense because of a few words of gunpowder. Don't criticize, don't complain and don't compare. Pay attention to the feelings conveyed to each other by your own language and the feelings brought to your partner by nonverbal behavior, talk well and talk about the matter. Knowing how to put yourself in each other's shoes and tolerate each other is the basic ability that every couple should do. In addition, there are many ways, such as cultivating common interests, deepening emotional ties, experiencing unknown areas together, and constantly discovering each other's bright spots, and so on. Feelings are two people's business, and we need to work hard together to go further.