3. Who knows the article about praising China as a country of etiquette? The etiquette of the Chinese nation is profound and profound, with a long history, and it has great artistic and cultural value, which has deeply influenced many neighboring countries and regions. The etiquette culture of the Chinese nation has become a bright pearl in the world culture. China has a history of 5, years of civilization and is known as the "land of etiquette". China people are also famous for their polite style. Etiquette civilization, as an important part of China traditional culture, has a wide and far-reaching influence on the social and historical development of China, and its content is very rich. Etiquette covers a wide range and permeates almost all aspects of ancient society. "Rite" and "ceremony" in ancient China are actually two different concepts. "Rite" is a system, a rule and a social consciousness. "Yi" is a concrete manifestation of "Li", which is a set of systematic and complete procedures based on the provisions and contents of "Li". In ancient China, etiquette was derived from the clan system and the hierarchical relationship between the noble and the humble in order to meet the needs of the society at that time, so it had the characteristics and limitations of that era. Today, modern etiquette is very different from ancient etiquette. We must abandon the etiquette norms that serve the exploiting classes and focus on the traditional civilized etiquette that still has positive and universal significance today, such as respecting the elderly, respecting the virtuous, being polite to others, keeping the appearance in order, etc., and transform and inherit it. This is of modern value for cultivating good personal qualities, coordinating harmonious interpersonal relationships, shaping civilized social atmosphere and building socialist spiritual civilization. Respecting the old and respecting the virtuous is as follows: 1. From primitive society to feudal society, interpersonal political and ethical relations are linked by the blood relationship of clan and family, so we respect our ancestors in the family and our elders in the society. Because the ancient society of China respected the rule of courtesy and benevolent governance, respecting the virtuous has become a historical requirement. Mencius said, "When you support the aged and respect the virtuous, you will celebrate when Junjie is in office" (Note: Mencius tells his son to leave). "Celebration" is a reward. This traditional etiquette in ancient times plays an important role in the formation of warm interpersonal relationships and orderly and harmonious ethical relations, regardless of the past or the present. When it comes to respecting the elderly, this is a major feature of China's traditional culture. Respect for the elderly in ancient times did not stop at ideas and preaching, nor did it stop at the lives of ordinary people. From the monarch, the gentry to the whole class of officials and gentry, they are all practicing and forming a set of rules of respecting the elderly and a ritual system of supporting the elderly. "Book of Rites" records: "The ancient way, 5 is not a Dian disciple, and it is awarded to the elders" (note: "Book of Rites"). That is to say, old people over 5 don't have to go hunting, but they have to get a generous share when distributing prey. Some ancient books also made clear requirements for the volume of voice when talking to the elderly. For example, "Read when you are nurtured" says: "When you serve your parents, your voice is easy to be silenced. Don't yell at them because of trifles" (Note: "Read when you are nurtured. Words"). "Disciples' Rules" also said: "It's not appropriate to be ignorant, but it's not appropriate". In a word, from kings and nobles to Shu Ren people, we should follow certain rules and express our filial piety to the elders in various ways, which is an important symbol to measure whether a person has self-cultivation. Any form of society needs to respect the elderly. Not only because the elderly have deep experience, extensive knowledge and experience, long working hours and great contribution to society, they deserve respect; At the same time, they are physically and mentally poor and need the consideration, care and help of young people. As a polite modern youth, for the elderly and the elderly, Lu Yu should be self-effacing and give up his seat by bus. In shops, theaters and other public places, we should try our best to create convenient conditions for the elderly. There was an allusion about respecting the virtuous in the Three Kingdoms period, which was called "three visits to the thatched cottage". It is said that Liu Bei admired Zhuge Liang's talent and asked him to help him conquer the world, so he took the trouble to personally invite him out of the mountain in the straw house where Zhuge Liang lived. Again and again, Zhuge Liang agreed. Since then, Zhuge Liang's great talents and talents have been brought into full play, and he has devoted himself to the cause of Liu Bei. Throughout the ancient history of China, most monarchs who have always made achievements attach great importance to respecting and using the virtuous, and regard it as the decisive factor of national security. If you don't respect the virtuous at ordinary times, in an emergency, the virtuous won't share the worries for the country. It's not that the talented people don't think about the country, but that the country is slow to forget the scholars, so "those who can survive in their country have never existed" (note: "Mozi's pro-scholars"). Today, we advocate carrying forward the ancient "ceremony of respecting the sages", and we must give the modern new concept of talents the content of respecting knowledge and talents. In today's society, all kinds of competition are becoming more and more fierce. All kinds of competition, in the final analysis, is the competition of talents. To maintain a dominant position in the fierce competition, we must have a strong talent team. Only by respecting and caring for talents from ideas to concrete actions can the whole society form a good environment for respecting knowledge and talents and form a strong enough talent team to be invincible. Second, the instrument is still suitable for the Chinese nation, which has always paid attention to expressing people's rich inner feelings through suitable forms. When encountering major festivals and important events, there are many established rituals. If you get a bumper harvest, you should celebrate with songs; Pray for the blessing of the gods when you are in trouble. Over time, many festivals and etiquette forms have been formed, such as Spring Festival, Lantern Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, Double Ninth Festival, etc. Almost every festival has its own specific manners and customs. In ancient times, weddings, funerals, festivals and other activities were treated as major events in social life, and their etiquette was particularly detailed and thorough, with specific provisions from clothing and utensils to specifications, procedures and manners. Today, the most important thing for us to maintain and carry forward the excellent etiquette civilization of the Chinese nation is that it is appropriate. That is to say, as Cheng Cheng advocated, "extravagance is born of literature, excess of literature is luxury, and deficiency is frugality" (Note: Volume 6 of Cheng Shi's Foreign Book in Collection of Cheng Cheng Cheng). It can be seen that the scale of the ceremony is proper, and proper decoration is necessary, but excessive decoration will cause extravagance and waste, which deviates from the requirements of the etiquette; It is also inappropriate to be too stingy and hinder the implementation of the ceremony. This view of the ancients is very incisive and has a guiding role for us to hold various ceremonies today. In today's social activities, it is still indispensable to hold various ceremonies. There are different ceremonies for company opening, children's marriage and various festivals.
4. I wish people a long life. In Su Shi's "When is the Bright Moon?", a famous sentence that has been circulated for ages, sunset and lonely Qi Fei, autumn waters * * * the sky is one color, and Wang Bo's "Preface to Tengwang Pavilion" gradually widened, and he never regretted it, which made people haggard for Iraq. Liu Yong, and while one man guards it, ten thousand cannot force it. Li Bai's "Difficult Road to Shu" is constantly cut, and the reason is still chaotic. It is a sorrow, especially a taste in my heart. "Night Cry" Li Yu's amorous feelings have been hurt and parted since ancient times, which is even worse than the cold autumn festival. There is little willow cotton blowing on the branches of Yulinling, and there are plenty of fragrant grass in the end of the world. If the two feelings in "To Liu Jingwen" are long-lasting, they will be in the morning and evening. I refused to marry Chunfeng, but I was mistaken by the autumn wind for no reason. Flowers drift from water to water, one kind of lovesickness and two kinds of leisure worries. There is nothing that can be done to eliminate this situation, only to frown, but to mind. "Like a Dream" is searched and searched, cold and clear, sad and miserable. The sound is slow, and everything is full of brilliance-I don't know who cut the fine leaves in the ancient Chinese Yuefu poem "Long Songs", but the spring breeze in February is like scissors-----------------------------------He Zhizhang in Tang Dynasty. The most beneficial thing is the spring of the year, which is absolutely better than the smoke and willow filling the imperial capital-Tang Hanyu's "Early Spring Presents Zhang Eighteen Members of the Ministry of Water Affairs" has three or two peach blossoms outside the bamboo, and the spring river warms the duck prophet. --------Song Su Shi's "Two Nightscape of Hui Chong Riverside" knows the east wind, and it is always spring.-----------Song Zhu Xi's "Spring Day" is wet with clothes, and the face is cold with willows.------Southern Song Dynasty. -Bai Juyi's "Spring Trip to Qiantang Lake" surprises the mountain birds in the month and sounds in the spring stream. -Wang Wei's "Birding Stream" Spring tides bring rain late and rush, and no one crosses the boat on the wild. -Wei Yingwu's "at chuzhou on the western stream" describes an ancient poem in summer, in which the lotus leaves meet the sky and the lotus leaves are infinitely bright, and the lotus leaves reflect the sun in a different way-Yang Wanli's "Dawn at Jingci Temple to send the forest to the forest"-When it rains in Huangmei, frogs are everywhere in the grass pond-Song Zhao Shixiu's "Inviting guests"-Why do you hate it when Fangfei is gone? Summer trees are overcast and pleasant. Summer is new in the sound of cuckoo-------------Song Luyou's quatrains in early summer describes the ancient poetry of autumn and the famous sentence describing autumn: sunset and lonely Qi Fei, autumn waters * * * the sky is the same color----------------Tang Wangbo's farewell preface to Wang Ge, the knee of Autumn Denghong Mansion. As I face them from this villa, drinking my wine-Tang Li Bai's "a Farewell to Secretary Shuyun at the Xietiao Villa in Xuanzhou" in August, the high wind howled, rolling up the triple hairs on my house-Tang Du Fu's "The Cottage is Broken by the Autumn Wind", the red candle Qiu Guang painted a cold screen, and the small fan fluttered the fireflies. day order's night was as cool as water, lying and watching the morning glory and the weaver star. Cold smoke on the waves-Song Zhongyan's Su Mushe describes the ancient poems and famous sentences about winter. is like a spring gale, come up in the night, blowing open the petals of ten thousand pear trees-Cen Can's a Song of White Snow in Farewell to Field-Clerk Wu Going Home sprinkles salt in the air, but if catkins are blown by the wind-Jin Xie. A boat on the river, a fisherman in his bagworm moths; Fishing alone, not afraid of snow and ice attack. -----------Jiang Xue by Tang Zongyuan Who cut and carved a pile of snow on the flat ground into this even smallpox?------------When six pieces of Li Hua's Two Poems by Tang Hanyu fly into the house, sit and watch the green bamboo turn into a beautiful branch-------------------------by Tang Gao Pian. (Song) Su Shi's "A Gift to Liu Jingwen" is more secluded if a bird doesn't crow at the mountain. (Song) Wang Anshi's "Zhongshan is the Thing" The desert is lonely and straight, and the long river falls into the yen. (Tang) Xiao Lou 1 of Wang Wei's "To the Frontier"