Prostitutes, also known as prostitutes, are an industry or occupation-men (whether they have been in contact with them or not) are unwilling to say that they are having an affair in front of women, and women are contemptuous and contemptuous anyway. I will solemnly defend them verbally and try to argue for them in behavior.
I won't say much about the origin of prostitutes. You can search on the search website. I just want to describe the state of today's society. In contemporary China, prostitution is regarded as extremely illegal, immoral and dirty. As long as many people hear that someone is engaged in prostitution or whoring, they will think that this person is evil and corrupt. Why should I go against the "broad masses of the people"? Please calm down, give up subjective idealism, throw away the shell of hypocrisy and listen to my analysis.
According to People's Daily, China has become the country with the most serious and longest sex ratio imbalance at birth in the world. In 2005, the sex ratio at birth in China was100:118.88, which seriously deviated from the normal value 104- 107. The sex ratio at birth in Jiangxi, Guangdong, Hainan, Anhui and Henan provinces even exceeds 100: 130. At present, there are 37 million more men than women in China, among which 0- 15 years old men are more than women180,000. Experts believe that people born in the 1990s are getting married. 10% of men will be pushed out of the marriage market and cannot get married. I won't say much about the population problem in China. You know how severe it is from the long-term crowded applicants in the market. The serious sex ratio makes our country the first in the world except economy. Everyone knows that there are more men than women, and bachelors have risen since then. There are more men than women, which means that some gay men can't have girlfriends or spouses, family and sex all their lives. Anyone with a little cultural knowledge knows that eating, sleeping and making love are indispensable physiological needs of human beings. Some people think that love is the only way to make love, and I disdain to refute this view. ) What about the extra 37 million gay men? Want to make money and marry a foreign bride? Trying to control sexual desire? Only use your right hand all your life? Sorry, human society is not a society without desire, nor is it a machine society. The normal physiological needs of human beings are not evil.
To solve the physiological needs of such a huge "redundant" gay man, we can only hope on the "dirty" industry of prostitutes. This is not only related to personal sexual desire, but also to whether the whole sustainable development strategy of China will be seriously affected. Therefore, I think it is imperative to formulate laws and regulations on prostitution, rather than arguing whether prostitution is legal. Personally, I despise those "experts and scholars" who waste national educational resources. We must face the problem and solve it. I think the reason why China legalized prostitution is the imbalance of sex ratio caused by his shameful preference for sons over daughters.
Many friends engaged in the prostitute industry have low cultural quality, which is because they have not received higher education and have been seriously discriminated against and treated unfairly in employment. Generally, I can only go to a "sweatshop" and be completely exploited by some private bosses. What do you think is the main reason for China's annual economic growth of 8%? Once they leave such a "sweatshop" (I have worked in such a factory and restaurant), where will they go? Some married early and became housewives, while others went to work in prostitutes and pornographic places. The greater reason for this career choice is the helplessness of reality. If they go to college, will their life choices be the same as reality? They didn't go to college not because they are more stupid than you, not because they are not easy to learn, but because their family is poor and there are many brothers and sisters at home (this also reflects a feature of our country, and the poorer the population, the less they can afford tuition. However, their life is often not their own choice, but the reality indirectly forces them to do so. In contemporary China, if ordinary people want to live a good life, they can only study hard and get a diploma to find a good job (except the rich)
They "went to the sea" to provide services for the majority of "redundant" gay men and some "playboy" male compatriots. We can't ignore such a great silent contribution, and we can't underestimate it anyway. If you look down on the farmers who provide you with food, you can also look down on the prostitutes who provide physiological needs for the tens of millions of "extra" lifelong single gay men in China.
If you are a lesbian, I want to sincerely say to your little sister: study hard and get a junior college or undergraduate diploma. Unless you have money at home, or you have a business mind, you can drop out of school as early as Mr. Gates to make money, or spend some time on books. The purpose of getting a diploma is not for anything, but to make yourself less exploited and work and live better, that's all. This is beside the point.
The countries in Europe where pornography is completely legal are the Netherlands and Germany. It is not illegal in Austria, but employees in this industry must register. British law does not prohibit the porn industry. The Czech Republic is deeply influenced by Germany, and now the parliament is discussing the legalization of pornography. Japan has a huge pornographic market that is rare in the world, which Japan calls "customized industry". Fukuzawa Yukichi, a famous Japanese enlightenment thinker in modern times, has a famous saying that "Japan has two weapons against Asia, one is a gun and the other is a female soldier". Many countries think it is not illegal, but they do not encourage or advocate it. The above information is for your reference. The economies of these countries are more developed than those of China, and the population quality is slightly higher than that of China (otherwise, why are foreign students more popular in China than their friends with the same education? ), the general social welfare is good (in some countries, schooling and medical treatment are free), and at least prostitutes and their industries can be treated with a positive attitude. We in China should also seriously consider and treat this reality and situation in today's society. The key point is that our common people's ideology is still in a state of blind obedience and no progress, and they are unwilling to seriously think and think about solutions. This depends more on the legislative and educational work of the state and the national legislature. Don't let redundant (and more and more) gay men affect social development and bring negative effects to society (violent crimes such as rape are extremely despised by me). It is the first thing we should do to treat this profession and industry with a normal heart, instead of treating it with other mentality from the beginning.
Most friends who only read world famous works know Sonia in Crime and Punishment, boule de suif in boule de suif, Margaret in La Traviata, Katyusha in Resurrection and so on. They are prostitutes at the bottom of society, and they are willing to sell their pure bodies for their parents, children and even others. It is despised by the broad masses of the people and spurned by the society. And if you read these world famous books (I dare not compliment China's novels), your mind will be strongly shocked and your thoughts will change a little. I'm not a nerd, but I think that I can write a literary master who reflects social reality in this way and can give us a clear analysis. How can you look on coldly? Comrade V.S. Naipaul, winner of Nobel Prize in Literature in 200 1 year, once said, "... I want to thank prostitutes. These women can't teach us anything, but they give me comfort. I know that when I need it, they are willing to help me and give me sexual comfort that I can't find anywhere else in my life. I can't pursue other women because it takes time. If you want to seduce a woman, if your marriage is not satisfactory in all aspects, you can't decide to pursue it like this. It takes many days and weeks, which is equivalent to giving up your career ... "This comrade is a little radical, I don't fully agree with him, but at least his attitude towards prostitutes is positive, which many of us lack.
I said a lot, not to make you agree with my point of view, nor to make you think that I have personality and like to sing the opposite. I just want you to see the reality of society and the motherland clearly. I just hope you don't despise some prostitutes when you hear or see them. They are also parents' daughters and children's mothers. The only difference is that their occupations are different from ours. This is 10,000 times more noble than rich friends engaged in high-exploitation and high-monopoly industries. Personally, I hope they pay attention to safety and health when they engage in sex trade. I also hope that the majority of gay men who have been single with me can live and work smoothly. If you go whoring, please treat them with a safe eye, don't despise them after being happy, and look down on them hypocritically. Please respect them and treat them equally.