Let me share a story with you. Of course, it is not a hermaphrodite, but a "barren woman" who has no birth canal and holidays.
This is my neighbor's sister. (Besides, let's call her Ping. ) Ping has five sisters, four women and one man, ranking second. My parents are dual employees in municipal enterprises, but their family lives in the countryside, because their parents' factory is not far away, and they live in the countryside with a big house and a good environment.
A Ping's personality is quiet and easy-going. When I was a child, I used to go to Children's Home to play or something. But when I was a teenager, I changed my gender. I like to stay at home and stop going out to socialize. In this way, a year has passed. All five sisters are married and their parents are retired. Only the elder sister and younger brother replace their parents.
When A Ping was in her thirties, she finally got married in the care and expectation of her neighbors. But there was no wedding, and my husband wore a pair of glasses politely. In fact, Ping is also good-looking. They are also a good match, and they have been living in their parents' house since marriage.
But how long after that, the man left, so it was a divorce. A Ping went to Panyu, Guangdong alone and worked as a housekeeper in her sister's factory for 16 or 17 years. Back home, people in their late fifties. Parents are also pale and old!
At this time, her old mother told my mother about Ah Ping's physical defects. It turned out that everything was difficult to understand and doubt, and it suddenly dawned. I can imagine how painful and long it was for all this misfortune to befall Ah Ping.
Youth is just a budding flower season, and it seems that it withers before it blooms. The unspeakable helplessness and pain are like being stranded on the "beach" of this society. She is no longer as naive and open as when she was young, and gradually likes to be alone. ...
As an adult, I saw all kinds of warm and romantic love and marriage around me. But she dare not expect that those wonderful stories are destined not to belong to her. Even though she has been married for a short time, with a heart of anxiety and expectation, it is a psychologically more destructive brand for her. So she chose to escape from this familiar and taboo hometown and go far away.
Perhaps, time has healed the wound and she has seen through the world. Back home, her brother also took the initiative to leave her the house in the country. She also took out some funds and forced them on her brother. I have to take care of my parents' daily life. Grow old with your parents every day.
I don't stay at home as I did when I was young, but now I often walk around and visit my relatives and neighbors. I met her last year. Although she is young, she is in good spirits. Talking happily with neighbors about their parents' shortcomings.
I'm glad this is what I want to see. I saw her think of a famous saying, don't be confused, don't be trapped in love, don't be afraid of the future, don't think about the past, so be good. Send this sentence to friends, too!